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Subject: Re: Female coaches with boys teams and female counselors at boys camps

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Date Posted: 16:03:45 11/15/21 Mon
In reply to: Curious 's message, "Female coaches with boys teams and female counselors at boys camps" on 10:11:06 11/15/21 Mon

I was on a water polo team back in 1967. I was 12 and we swam nude back then but the girls had a te too and we practiced together. Our coach was female as many males were serving their country in Vietnam.
The same coach was in charge of the swimming teams too. The boys were also nude for those matches too.
In 7th grade I was top 4 in the county freestyle 100 meter and 200 meter. It was a lot for me to handle having practices 3 sometimes 4 times a week.
Most of the water polo team was on the swim team as well and an uncomfortable bond was formed between the 2.
We were nude a lot in front of those girls. At first it was rough remaining casual often getting a boner when standing with the girls. We too had that humiliating talk about getting a boner and having the girls right there to hear the whole thing!
Speaking openly about our penises and erections while standing nude was a bit embarrassing, but having a female coach uttering those words was over the top!
One of the first things covered was covering up. That was considered a big no no! Even worse than erecting in front of the girls. Erecting was forgiven but not appreciated by our coach as she saw it as a distraction.
Boys did erect, and girls were distracted but it was all allowed. In the speech the girls were told that we would erect and we were told the girls would look at us erecting.
If a boy erected too much Coach Wallace would stand him on the diving board nude and erect for 15 minutes. I don't know how that was supposed to help, but it was a punishment. There you stood with your erection on full display for getting a boner! Everyone saw it and the girls thought it was funny!
Our female coach had no compassion for our situation often holding meetings out of the water when we easily could have stayed in the water as she conducted her meetings.
Erections were discussed every practice before the Saturday meet. Girls giggled as our coach addressed how unnecessary getting a boner was, again, as if we could do anything about growing erect!
It was an awkward time as occationally a boy would erect while standing with the coach as they discussed a play for water polo or timing a swimmer at practices. It was embarrassing just having that happen and knowing the girls were watching you grow was a lot to handle.

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[> Subject: Re: Female coaches with boys teams and female counselors at boys camps

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Date Posted: 21:41:13 11/15/21 Mon

I don't know about other camps but we usually had female counselors, mostly teenage girls, at our church summer camp for boys till 12 years old and would see us naked every day during our gang showers.

As for female coaches it was not unusual for young boys teams in several sports to have female coaches who would also follow to supervise them in the locker room while they showered and changed after the game.

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