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Subject: spanked by mom


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Ben
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Date Posted: 10:55:50 02/23/12 Thu

HI guys My name is Ben and I am 14. After I turned 12 my dad took over spanking me but he and mom got divorced a few months ago and so she is spanking me again. She does it otk and bare bottomed and it is realy embarasing. How do I get her to spank me on my underpants.

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PJ
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Date Posted: 15:35:43 02/23/12 Thu

Hi Ben

First of all you can't get your Mom to do anything as she is the parent. But, have you talked to her about this? Most parents are understanding and flexible.

Talk to her and get her viewpoint. You might offer to take more licks or an implement upgrade. But, dude, she's your mom and she has seen you personal property before.

You can also bend and get in position and then slip your undies down in the back. You can also ask her to step out or turn her head. You then bare yourself and lay your front over some pillows.

Have an open discussion with your mom and exchange ideas. Be open to compromise and have some solutions to offer.

But always remember she is still your authority.

I bet she is reasonable and you all can work this out.

Both Dad and Mom spank me (I am 15.) Dad wants me bare. Mom actually doesn't. She don't want to look at my stuff and so I keep the boxers with her. Personally, I am not very modest. She used to diaper it and I don't care if she sees it but that is me.

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Jake to Ben
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Date Posted: 18:42:49 02/23/12 Thu


Hi Ben,
I'm l5 yrs. old, and my dad spanks me with a paddle. Didn't see what your Mom is using to spank you with or maybe I overlooked it.

My Mom doesn't spank me anymore, but when she did she used her hand, and she was as good as my dad was, before he changed and started using a paddle.

I can see where you feel embarrassed about your Mom spanking you bare butt. And perhaps your thinking about her looking at other "things" besides?

Have a suggestion, like PJ says and others in the forum will agree that your Mom will probably not change her mind but, I think you feel more embarrassed about your Mom seeing other "things" then just your butt?

I'd talk to your Mom and just say you was wondering if you could get more licks if you had your underwear left on. If that isn't possible, then say you will cooperate getting spanked bare butt but, ask if you can at least have your underwear on while you go over her lap and then YOU lift up and pull down your underwear yourself to bare your butt and then get spanked.

After the spanking is over, YOU pull back up your underwear!

Is your Mom just wanting to make sure your butt gets a good spanking to have you bare, maybe to see and make sure how red your getting to know when the spanking has made an effect on you to know when to stop, do you think or hasn't your Mom said?

Another piece of advice, try to not get into trouble to earn a spanking.

I'm one to talk, I get spanked, get into trouble now and then but, like I say my dad spanks me. He sure does a good job. I don't care to sit down for awhile.

Hope you'll visit the forum often, even when you don't need advice about spanking...to just join in on conversation and talk with everyone!

Stay spank-fee Ben!

-Jake

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Ben
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Date Posted: 11:42:46 02/25/12 Sat

hi Mom said I can choose between spanking on my underpants with her hairbrush or spanking on my bare bottom with with her hand. I have never been spanked except by hand. I dont know what to do.

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Jake and Mark the Athlete to Ben
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Date Posted: 07:17:10 02/26/12 Sun


Hi Ben,

Jake here and my buddy Mark we call The Athlete who is forum member too, but hasn't took time to respond to your posted message about your Mom spanking you, etc.

Hi, Ben...Mark the athlete here..welcome to the forum. Like my buddy Jake here, I get paddled on my bare butt by my dad. My Mom used to spank me with her hand but, "retired" that hand a few years ago, like Jake's Mom did, so my dad takes care of my spanking punishment now and does he with a paddle that has drilled holes in it!

Both Jake and Mark the Athlete now to respond to your asking what to do in your last post...and we've agreed what we'd do if we were you...

Ben, you said your Mom is allowing you to chose between getting spanked on your underpants with a hairbrush or
spanking on your bare butt with her hand?

First off, Neither of us have ever been spanked with a hairbrush before, even while wearing underpants! We've been told and read by others in the forum who get spanked on bare butt with a hairbrush that a hairbrush STINGS bad to bare butt, and a spanking last longer because both butt cheeks need to be spanked each of course!

Others have mentioned being allowed to wear underpants for spankings but are being spanked on their underpants with a paddle and of couse a paddle will spank both butt cheeks at one time and the spanking will be over quicker then if a spanking had been done with a hairbrush!

Here's questions to you...

You been hand spanked on your bare butt by your Mom, but say it's embarrassing. You didn't say was it because she's seeing just your bare butt or other parts of you, like up front, right?

You know how such a spanking feels for pain and how long a spanking usually lasts for time! Both of your cheeks have to be spanked, and your Mom knows how red she wants them to be for hurting, and your reaction to your spanking to know when to stop!

If you chose a spanking to your butt wearing underpants and it was done with a hairbrush, you know then your Mom is not going to know how red your butt cheeks are getting, even though she will be spanking each one at a time, and thus more likely will have to make that kind of a spanking last longer! Lasting longer mean, even thought underpants might offer some protection you might think, really after a few licks of the hairbrush your butt is going to feel the PAIN!

So, your Mom might think you wearing underpants your thinking offers you some protection but, she knows she will still have to spank you longer to make sure the underpants aren't preventing alot of NO PAIN setting in on your butt!

So, your going to have to decide what you want to do!

Probably getting a LONGER SPANKING wearing underpants and MORE PAIN with a hairbrush and each butt cheek spanked until your Mom thinks your butt is red enough and not knowing because your butt is covered wearing underpants or a SHORTER SPANKING on your bare butt and maybe LESS PAIN because your Mom sees how red your butt is becoming to know when to stop with your Mom's hand doing the spanking!

Again, is your embarrassment that your Mom is seeing your bare butt or other things as well?

You didn't answer when asked before, when your baring your butt you pulling underpants down and then going over her lap for the spanking?

Could you go over her lap and then pulldown underpants to bare your butt or isn' that an option? And after the spanking has ended, while over her lap you pull back up the underpants?

For us to decide...if we had to chose...We'd like to get a less painful spanking, and sure you would too!

We get a paddle used on our bare butts, and of couse again a paddle is spanking across both cheeks at a time and not one at a time like a hairbrush has to, and both because they are wood for sure are going to cause REAL BAD PAIN!

We've been hand spanked before, on bare butt, even by our Mom's before they stopped...a hand spanking is LESS PAINFUL then getting wood spanked on butt cheeks.

We'd agree to a hand spanking to bare butt by Mom!

You can agree or disagree.

We'd like to hear you give more information we asked about for options you have and what you might chose, and your thoughts to what we've thought about for less pain or cause more pain.

Whatever you decide on chosing, hairbrush or no hairbrush, we'd like to hear what you chose and agree to do with your Mom, okay Ben!

Good Luck!

-Jake and Mark the Athlete

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Author:
Harry
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Date Posted: 08:03:44 03/02/12 Fri

We discussed this issue at great length: neither my son A nor I want this to be humiliating. It's about using a sore bottom to recognise a bad decision, not about embarrassing a self-conscious teenager.
On the one hand it feels un-natural to punish through clothing. It's also difficult for the parent to assess if he is punishing too severely, especially if with an implement. On the other, it is not about putting private parts on show.
We have agreed that A faces a table, adjusts his own clothing and then gets into position, so that there is 'nothing to see'
other than the appointed place!
The correction can be given safely, quietly and calmly without humiliation. PJ's thread on 'why bare' is helpful.

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jono
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Date Posted: 00:54:47 03/20/12 Tue

up until i was 11 or 12 i got spanked over the lap bare with the hairbrush and i hated it. mum compromised that as i was older i would still have to get it bare but i could pull down my boxers myself (before she use to do it) and i could bend over the bed . i get the belt now. after the lecture i normally hand mum the belt then turn around, pull my boxers down and bend over the bed. once she has finished spanking she leaves and i can get dressed.

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Author:
Rizzle Kicks Fan
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Date Posted: 04:33:11 03/21/12 Wed

Hi Ben

Mom always spanked me as i have no Dad. I asked her if i could prepare myself in private and she was cool with it. There's no harm in asking
Good luck

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Author:
don
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Date Posted: 15:13:09 08/24/12 Fri

This is what my dad did for me and my brother after we were 13 and I do for my boys. Dad bought each of us a pair of nylon boxer shorts. These shorts are very thin and getting spanked on the seat of them is almost like a bare bottom spanking. Then the leg openings are sort of bagging and all he has to do is pull the legs up and hold them tightly to expose the lower bare butt. That is the part of the butt that should be spanked anyway. After dad was done we knew we had received a good bare bottom spanking and why.

These shorts and the ones my boys wear are red and we were spanked until the colors blended. When we found out we were to be spanked dad would just say, "go get the red shorts on and meet me in my bedroom gentlemen." We knew there was no argument and also no embarrassment of being seen in places we did not want to be seen. Mom even did this a couple of times too. It was sort of embarrassing to be in nothing but a pair of red nylon boxers and having mom put you over her knee and use the gawd awful hairbrush 6 on each cheek.

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