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Subject: NEW PADDLE


Author:
Ryan
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Date Posted: 09:56:16 05/02/13 Thu

Mom and me went to a garage sale Saturday, and Mama found this old paddle. It's like the kind of paddle that is used at my school. This paddle belonged to a man and his wife who were house-parents at a Christian home / school for boys for 26 years. The man told us that hundreds of boys had stayed in their home over the years, and he had paddled nearly all of them at some point during their stay.

Mama told him that she has a little "ping-pong" paddle, but it doesn't seem to do the trick anymore now that I'm a teenager.

The man told Mom that he has used this paddle on boys from ages 7 to 17. His wife said it is good for either "over-the-knee" spankings OR for having the boy bend over a chair. She told Mom it works "really good" on little bare bottoms!! She was looking right at me when she said it. I was so embarrassed!

Mama turned to me and asked if I thought she should buy it. What was I going to say? I just shrugged my shoulders.

Then, the man told Mom she could have the paddle for $1 dollar if she would "put it to good use." Mama said that sounds like a good deal to her. She decided it would be good to have the paddle, so she got it for a dollar!

Mama told this man and his wife that I was "due for a spanking" (because I had been disobeying her last week and not finishing my chores) and that she would probably try out the paddle when we got home. The man just grinned, and the lady wished me "luck."

But Mom didn't do it when we got home. She gave me one "final warning" and said if I didn't straighten up, she would use the paddle. So I was good all week.... until last night. I was late coming home, and I lied about why I was late.

Mama sent me to my room and said she'd be in a few minutes to paddle me!! WOW!!! She burned me good! She gave me 10 hard swats with her new paddle. I couldn't believe how much more it hurt than that old ping-pong paddle! It really burned.

Mom said she's going to hang this paddle on a hook in my room, so it will be a reminder.... and so it will be handy for her to use next time.

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[> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


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Jimmy J.
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Date Posted: 12:59:00 05/11/13 Sat

Wow! With a reminder like that hanging in your room, I'd imagine you will behave a lot better!

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[> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


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Peter
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Date Posted: 05:17:24 05/14/13 Tue

Hi Ryan, Did your mom give you an "over the knee paddling" with your new paddle or just tell you to bend over something for your spanking?

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[> [> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


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Ryan
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Date Posted: 07:50:06 05/25/13 Sat

Hi Peter... Mom spanks me over the knee.

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[> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


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Gale
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Date Posted: 14:01:34 08/12/13 Mon

Keeping a paddle on the wall of a boy's bedroom actually is a great reminder that parents' expect good behavior. I use the same approach with my two boys based upon my own experience as a teenager. In my case, it was not a paddle but the short leather strap that Dad used to administer my lickings. I hated seeing that strap on the wall. It was expecially awkward when buddies were over visiting in my bedroom, but it did spark some interesting conversations with plenty of opportunity to explain why my Dad believed in toasting my butt and that actually it did contribute to my better behavior. For sure, Ryan, that "new" paddle on your wall is going to help you as a teenager and hopefully you'll begin even to appreciate a stern paddling when you've earned one.

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Date Posted: 19:53:33 08/13/13 Tue

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Date Posted: 17:50:03 08/15/13 Thu

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[> [> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


Author:
Ryan
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Date Posted: 10:06:57 08/15/13 Thu

Hi Gale, Do your boys share a bedroom or did they each have a paddle hanging in their own room?

The paddle in my room DOES make me want to try to behave better, but so far it seems I like have gotten more spankings now than I did before Mama got the paddle. Maybe because its summer and I'm out of school. Both Mama and Dad have put the paddle to "good use" this summer.

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[> [> [> Subject: Answering Ryan's Question


Author:
Gale
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Date Posted: 16:41:14 08/15/13 Thu

Both of my sons enjoy the privacy of their own bedrooms making it necessary for both boys to have their own paddles. The older boy made both his own and his brother's paddle as a project in Wood Shop at school last Spring. And he really did a bang-up job of it, too. He said it required several classes to complete both paddles since lots of sanding of the wood was required then followed by staining and a poly coating. His hard work and quality results were rewarded with an ' A+ ' grade!

Don't be overly discouraged because your new paddle got some use this Summer. You're off to a good start since you write that seeing the paddle on your bedroom wall does indeed lead you to strive for better behavior. See! It's working! That's the whole point of a teenage boy keeping a paddle on the wall of his bedroom. It takes some time for our behavior to catch up to our intentions. As an example, my own lickings as a teenager gradually grew fewer and fewer as I grew older. I see the same thing happening with my boys. While the younger boy's paddle was used several times this summer, his older brother's paddle was only used twice. Just keep trying as you allow your behavior to meet your good intentions.

Best wishes.

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Author:
Ryan
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Date Posted: 09:31:16 08/16/13 Fri

Gale, can I ask you how old your boys are? That's good that the older one only got spanked twice all summer!

Before Mama got the new paddle, she had stopped spanking me unless I did something really bad and then she would use a little ping pong paddle or Dad would use his belt. Now I get a warning first and if I still misbehave, I get some swats.

I hope you're right and that I will get spanked less as time goes on. Its been a rough summer. I think the only week I didn't get paddled at least once was when I was at youth camp. Most weeks, I have at least one trip over Mama's knee. Some weeks, I've had two.

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Gale
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Date Posted: 15:37:28 08/16/13 Fri

My boys are 11 and 15 years, Ryan. And, yes, I agree with you that only two paddlings all summer for the teenager is an achievement. It's important that good behavior and obedience be rewarded so I promised him that if his good behavior continues without incidence throughout this month of August that just he and I will plan a "man to man" camping trip the last weekend of September. Since our public schools will be dismissed the last Friday of the month for the annual County Fair Day this will provide a long weekend for our out-of-doors excersion. I'm positive that he'll be able to muster good behavior for the remainder of the month since he certainly is excited about not having to share his Dad's attention with anyone and especially his younger brother. What he doesn't realize is that I'm looking forward to this opportunity even more than is he!

As far as your rugged summer with the paddle is concerned, I still say that if you'll genuinely work towards being obedient then time is on your side. But, Ryan, it's not just the passage of time that automatically reduces your number of paddlings. It's your commitment to genuinely work at obedience. What your paddle does is to motivate your work. You've confessed that with the except of a week at youth camp you've received at least one, and sometimes two, lickings each week. When the urge to disobey comes around, remember what the paddle felt like on your butt during your paddling. For me as a teenager it was not
a paddle but rather Dad's hand-held leather strap. Whenever the urge to do what I knew was wrong, I would pause before doing it, remember what the strap felt like as Dad administered it to the seat of my blue jeans, and them asked myself if the fun of doing what I wanted to do was actually worth taking another licking. I'll confess that sometimes I went ahead and did what I wanted to do despite the certainty of another licking. But you know what? The more I went through this ritual of asking myself if another licking was worth it, the more I gradually began to tell myself "No, it isn't worth it." The magic word here is "gradually." Learning obedience takes time, Ryan. Chalk-up the several paddlings you've received this summer to the experience of learning what it feels like to receive a paddling. Seeing that paddle on your bedroom wall is intended to help you remember how each of your lickings felt. And as you remember how they felt, along with genuinely working to obey --- plus the gradual passage of time as you grow older --- you'll one day suddenly think,"It's been a long,long time since that paddle on my wall saw any action!"

Keep at it and best regards, Gale

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[> Subject: Re: NEW PADDLE


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JoeR
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Date Posted: 15:26:09 08/14/13 Wed

I think I was 9 when dad made a paddle out of scrap wood from a remodeling project at our house. Don'y recall just what I did but apparently warrented more than a hand smack. Not sure he made it by himself or with help from the work crew but the scrap wood of baseboard trim would emerge a few days later with a hand grip at one end & a couple rows of drilled holes on the "business end."

For the next 5-6 years it hung in a utility closet just off mom's kitchen where she stored broom, mop, bucket, etc & got taken out when necessary to accompany me to my room where I got my paddling.

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