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Subject: For Mrs. Helen: Rat Answers Max


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For Mrs. Helen for Max
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Date Posted: 15:07:14 02/20/12 Mon

Max,

I have gone to places that I was not supposed to go before and I got spanked for it too. This is sort of different. Jasmine and I were not going to go to a real place. We were going to go somewhere with our minds and imaginations.

Honestly, the whole thing is a bit mature for you but I am not going to just tell you to wait until you are older because you do deserve and answer. I used to hate it when people would tell me to wait until I was older.

Part of it will be hard for you to understand because your body has not changed yet. Max, all boys change. It just happens at different times. Some boys change when they are as young as 11 and some boys don't change until they are sometimes 16. It doesn't matter when things change for you. It might be next year and it might be five years from now. All boys are different. Just know it will happen. You will feel weird emotionally. You may cry and not know why. You may laugh and not know why. You will be real clumsy. Your body will change too and your voice will sound funny. You will also notice that you like to look at girls and that you start liking girls for more than just friends. When all of that happens to you, you will then truly understand what happened to me and Jasmine. I want you to do me a HUGE favor. When that starts going on with you, I want you to tell your Dad. He will help you understand it all better. Max, it is all normal and OK and it doesn't matter how old you are when it happens. Anyway, it happened to me when I was 12.

I started liking girls and wanting a girlfriend. It is OK for a boy to want a girlfriend. (Some boys also want a boyfriend, that is OK, it just means they changed just a little differently.) The purpose of a girlfriend at my age is to just enjoy having fun and getting to understand how to have a relationship and how to treat a girl. It is sort of "practice" for learning how to be married.

When a guy and a girl get together there are things that they should not do. These things are only supposed to be done when they are adults and married. Again, that is all I can say. You will have to wait on your body to change to understand all of that. But some people do not wait until they are adults and married even though God teaches in the Bible that they should.

Going all the way means that a boy and girl are not doing like they are supposed to do and they are not waiting to be adults and get married. It is just called that and I don't know why.

So if you hear a guy and girl talking about going all of the way it just means that they are doing more as a boyfriend and girlfriend than they are supposed to do.

Just like going off to someplace that your parents don't want you to go, it is wrong to do it. That is why I got punished. It is because I was doing something I was not supposed to be doing.

I hope all of that makes sense.

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Helen
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Date Posted: 17:53:30 02/20/12 Mon

Dear Ronald,

Good job! I just let Max read your post and he was happy with it. I am proud of you, young man.

Best wishes

Helen

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PJ
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Date Posted: 14:36:23 02/21/12 Tue

I am going to compliment Rat too!

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