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Date Posted: 06:34:21 04/10/12 Tue
Author: Sandy
Subject: Re: My Husband & Child
In reply to: Marcella 's message, "Re: My Husband & Child" on 12:33:10 04/05/12 Thu

>We are raising our child with exposure to both
>genders. All children are born feminined and then
>trained to be boys and girls. We would have reared our
>child all feminine, but are including boy and girl
>training as an effort to fit in with current culture.
>Feminine men are sweet and pretty. masculine men are
>combative and coarse. Masculine women are disgusting
>but feminine women are beautiful. as is the case with
>feminine men. You are doing the right thing.

Marcella,

Thanks. Yes, I think you are right. The longer I am married to Carl, the more I like Carla. There are so many things I like about him I just did not find in the men I dated before Carl. The more I think about it, the more I see that the things I most love in him are feminine traits: Open affection, tenderness, the desire to please and cooperate, listening to the things that matter to me with genuine empathy, sharing his feelings, and so on.

Of course, I like being with a male in bed, but now I have stopped confusing male with masculine. Male is a physical form. Masculine is a set of mostly course and annoying behaviors.

I see Jack taking after his father. Even when out in drab he has all the warmth and sensitivity of a sweet girl. He draws nice children, boys and girls, as friends. And, I have been told, he has a calming affect on some of the more obnoxious boys at day care.

We no longer need caveman behavior, but the world can use all the sweeties it can get.

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