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Subject: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Bob E. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 18:15:51 07/24/12 Tue Every house has its own "House Rules." At my house, a violation of the house rules can result in a spanking. The house rules cover issues of not obeying one's parents, failure to do ones chores, deliberate disobedience, being disrespectful to another person, fighting in the house, playing outdoor games inside the house, failure to wear safety equipment (like helmet, or pads)when skateboarding, playing sports or riding bikes. The severity of the spanking is adjusted depending upon the age of the child and the type of "crime" the child has committed, as well as if it is a first-time or repeat violation of the rules. So, the question is: What do you Get spanked for? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: CALEB [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:18:41 07/24/12 Tue THE BIG ONES ARE: DISOBEDIENCE COMING IN LATE AFTER CURFEW NOT FOLLOWING SAFETY RULES DISRESPECT ALSO EITHER GETTING SATURDAY DETENTION OR A PADDLING AT SCHOOL EARNS A SPANKING AT HOME. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Taylor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:13:55 07/24/12 Tue Our main ones are disobeying, lying, not doing chores, disrespect, fighting with each other and throwing a tantrum. I don't do that last one as much as I used to. Staying out after dark can get us in trouble too but not always a spanking. We also get spanked for breaking the rules at school, mainly disrespect, lying and disobeying. We get school punishment but they tell our parents EVERYTHING when we misbehave. Then we get spanked at home. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:17:54 07/24/12 Tue Disrespect, talking back, defiance Missing curfew Not doing what I'm told after a reminder or warning I don't get spanked for not wearing a helmet or protective gear, I have to wear it but my parents say if I don't wear it then I can't do that activity for a week. That would be so much worse than a spanking! So I wear it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:26:13 07/24/12 Tue Taylor forgot to add talking back and being a smart mouth. i'm real bad about those. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:51:11 07/24/12 Tue i get it mostly for talking back and not obeying and fighting with my little sister. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Chris [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:46:07 07/25/12 Wed For some things like lying, disrespect, and deliberate disobeying, I get a spanking right then. But for other stuff like being out past curfew, not doing chores and my temper, I usually get a warning and then if I don't change my behavior I'll get a spanking the next day or that weekend. It will depend on how many warning "points," which are like demerits, I have earned that week. Points are added for bad behavior and taken away for good behavior, like helping around the house. When I hav gotten 10 points for bad behavior, I get a spanking. It's kind of a weird system but it gives me a chance to change my behavior and have points deducted before I get spanked again, so I guess it's pretty fair. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:43:44 07/25/12 Wed Like Chris my little brother and I get spanked for what dad calls direct disobedience, direct disrespect, lying, fighting, or getting in trouble at another place like school or camp or cub scouts or a friend's house. I think we would also get a spanking for cheating or stealing but I don't think either of us would do that. Also kind of like Chris we each have a calender where we write down the good and bad stuff we do each day. Dad talks to us on the first Sunday of each month about the stuff on them. After talking there is spankings. Just a hand spanking if we have been doing OK but if it was a month with lots of misbehavior then we hairbrush spanking after the hand spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Ryan to Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:47:33 07/25/12 Wed Do you always get spanked on the first Sunday every month even if you were really good? Like does good behavior cancel out minor misbehavior, especially if you already got spanked for major stuff at the time? I think I would hate that Sunday. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:31:15 08/01/12 Wed Yep we do. Good behavior does sort of cancel out the bad stuff and we don't have to get spanked extra for the major stuff because we already got spanked for it. I guess I'm kind of used to it. I don't hate that Sunday but I do feel nervous about it. I don't like it of course and I hate the spanking part. It's not the end of the world either though. But I think the talking we do with dad about our calendar is probably good for us. Dad says the spanking is good for us too. I guess it is. We got it coming up this Sunday. I was gone to camp for a week and I got an award for good behavior. I also don't have too much misbehavior on my calendar either. So I think I'll just get a normal kind of spanking and no hairbrush spanks. Daniel has more red on his calendar than me but I think he should be OK too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What Are You Spanked For? Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:07:50 08/01/12 Wed i got it yesterday for fighting with my sister Shannon. She started it but i got blamed so i got spanked and she didn't. Well she did later when she talked back to mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]