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>Hi Lisa, It took me almost dying from an overdose, >loosing my job and almost my license to realize that I >needed to stand up for me. My entire marriage was >about what he wanted, making him happy. I worked full >time, did all the cooking, cleaning and outside yard >work in addition to all the child care. Then when I >got into trouble with my job and license I was so >afraid and grateful to still have him. Well that has >all changed. I stopped doing all the cleaning and >cooking. In fact the house started falling apart >including the yard and I just let it happen. I started >standing up for myself and even told him one day that >I did not need him that it is him that needs me. >Things are better today. He does more than I do with >the chores and he treats me the way I want to be >treated. The trick was I was ready to walk and he knew >it. I put myself first for once. It was hard. PLease >know its not right for him to sit around playing games >all day not looking for a job and not doing his fair >share. Its just not. You have the rights to a partner >not another child to take care no matter what errands >he does do. >Anyway just wanted to put my two cents in. Oh by the >way we just finished survey. I know how that goes. >Email me if you want.
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