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Date Posted: 08:53:33 11/19/14 Wed
In reply to: Moderator 's message, "Re: New to Board" on 06:49:10 10/31/14 Fri

" ... I posted a little but was mainly a lurker. ..."

Lurking is okay as often you will discover others have had similar experiences. The worst thing is to feel that certain humiliating experiences only happened to you because you are, or were so guilty of something when you were young. Or that no one else has some fantasy that either scares you half to death or fills you with unsatisfied excitement.
Often lurkers begin to accept themselves and slowly learn to write and participate.
A long time ago I discovered that much of our emotional problems are the result of unresolved sexual issues, concealed in the deep recesses of our memories, usually from events that occurred as we were growing up and didn't understand then.

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