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Date Posted: 06:07:50 03/10/16 Thu
In reply to: Wondering-supportive 's message, "Re: Realization" on 12:47:34 03/09/16 Wed
In the era that I grew up, spanking was a common form of discipline both at home and in school. (not for me though)
I was aware of the fact that most of my playmates got spanked by their mothers. Some of my friends actually showed us their red bottoms after they got it. I’m not exactly sure what changed when I hit puberty. I do know that my fantasies are more erotic spankings than discipline.
I think it is a thing of control. Even as a child I wanted to be in control – make the decisions. What game we played, if and where we rode our bicycles, things like that. I see being spanked by a lady as a loss of control – showing parts of my anatomy to her that polite society says is not the thing to do. Being over her knee as she spanks my bare bottom with her hand shows me that she is in control and not me.
My earliest fantasies of being spanked on my bare bottom by a lady have progressed to other forms of putting her in control: Things such as CFNM situations, posing in embarrassing positions, cunnilingus, pegging, masturbating in front of her, etc. I think embarrassment is more important to my fantasies than the pain of spanking. Thus having more than one lady present to observe or participate in these situations is an immediate turn on for me.
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