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Subject: Re: New Stepmom


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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 14:35:59 06/23/16 Thu
In reply to: Brenda 's message, "Re: New Stepmom" on 05:06:14 06/23/16 Thu

Hi Brenda-

It appears that your husband is when needed a strict disciplinarian with your/his son. Moreover, the boy accepts such discipline. So clearly he is ready to yield to and accept authority from an authority figure. Equally clear is you wish and need to become such a figure to the boy. Having the backing of your husband is of course essential and a good start. I presume he would punish the boy if the boy failed to yield to your instructions and discipline. So its now up to you to assume the commanding authority you want to have if you have not already begun that process. Day to day you must fairly and firmly take control and direct the boy when appropriate to follow your dictates and expect that he will and accept nothing short of that. Do not allow back talk or him to control the situations you wish to control. If your son is not responsive sit him down and make him do so and verbally express exactly the level of compliance you expect as his new mom. He may be larger but he is still only 18 and so your maturity and resolve can overcome his immaturity and defiance. Let him know that he will be spanked in the manner you choose if his behavior does not improve and you are putting him on notice. If the spankings will be bare tell him matter of factly that it will happen and if he does not submit you will with the assistance of your husband make it happen and the spanking(s)will be even worse. The fact that you may enjoy stripping and spanking your son is neither here nor there. What you simply need to do however is be fair and only spank when its earned. Your son will understand that and you will have the authority you seek which in the end will probably make for an overall better home life.

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Re: New StepmomBrenda08:17:42 06/27/16 Mon


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