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Subject: Re: New Stepmom - to Joan


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Date Posted: 11:48:27 06/28/16 Tue
In reply to: Joan 's message, "Re: New Stepmom" on 13:57:34 06/27/16 Mon

I agree with the moderator that spanking a teen, particularly when he or she is naked, does have a sexual arousal aspect to it. So your state of arousal is quite normal and nothing to be particularly concerned about. To the contrary enjoy what you do when it is a stand alone activity that is warranted because a disciplinary approach and response is an effective way to deal with misbehavior from both a punitive and deterrent vantage point. Parents spanking exclusively for their own pleasure or satisfaction is unduly exploitative and will be seen to be so because it is not merited or administered in a rationale manner. Having your son know and understand that the punishment he receives, however embarrassing, is in response to his negative behavior is an important element of your control over him. So take pleasure in what needs to be done.

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Re: New Stepmom - to JoanBobbi10:27:12 07/11/16 Mon


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