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Subject: Re: In front of my sister in law


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Date Posted: 07:57:04 08/03/16 Wed
In reply to: David 's message, "Re: In front of my sister in law" on 03:23:10 08/02/16 Tue

If your spankings are indeed to serve as punishment than you should not be enjoying them anymore than you already do, at least until the pain overrides your desire to be humiliated by your wife. Michelle cogently makes the case for punishment to be punitive in nature.

The problems you face as I see them are twofold. Firstly you lack the courage to ask your wife to do what you wish to happen. She is the one who can best answer the question you had. One could assume that you worry that she would be angry with you, or think less of you if she knew you wished to be spanked by her in front of her sister.Perhaps she would but how will you ever know?

Secondly, you face an existential dilemma. You wish to be debase and humiliated but for that to truly happen it really can't be consensual. One does not really consent to one's own humiliation or it really isn't humiliation because thereis a pleasurable aspect to it. Having your wife know you want that form of humiliation and consenting thereto is a joint understanding that she is providing you with a pleasure and so you are really not being humiliated.
Same goes for the sister if she consented to the charade.

Perhaps one partial way out of your dilemma is to draw upon your strength and ask your wife to do what you crave. As part of that discussion you could make it known that you wish her to make the case with your sister that she needs to punish you more fully and bring her sister on board so the sister wants to see you, as she believes, fully humiliated because she is convinced you need that kind of punishment. So the charade between you and your wife would still be there but the sister would not be in on it.
Accordingly you could take pleasure in the sister witnessing what she truly believes you have coming. And perhaps you do. Toward that end, and since you are talking punishment, the conversation with your wife should include the prospect of enhanced, harsher punishment so the experience is more truly of a punitive nature.

Since your wife does reprimand you in front of her sister, she may well suspect more is done and would at least know that your wife does have the moxy and some control over your behavior already. So perhaps it is not a quantum leap to the public spankings, but you need to man up from your inner boy and raise the matter with your wife. There is no reason why what you want should not happen if all parties are in accord.Good luck!

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Re: In front of my sister in lawDavid02:53:03 08/05/16 Fri


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