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Subject: Re: I'm slipping

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Date Posted: 16:36:29 12/02/17 Sat
In reply to: Sneakfish 's message, "I'm slipping" on 06:47:59 12/01/17 Fri


First of all, can you please clarify what you mean by' anti-feminism?' Perhaps give some examples. I/d like to help if I can.

Without really knowing what you're talking about, I can only speculate. But if you only act and think in terms of female superiority when you have a female to defer to, I wonder about how deeply you embrace female superiority. I'm not accusing you of anything, just raising the question.

As for getting yourself back to the correct mindset, how do you treat the women you run into in daily life like coworkers, service persons, casual acquaintances? Do you treat them with deference and respect? Do you avoid mansplaining? If a woman describes some issue or problem, do you first try to empathize or try to problem solve? Do you interrupt?

Since I'm vague about what behaviors you're actually talking about, I still don't understand why it gets harder to drag yourself out of the gutter. What gutter?

(As for gutters, I was only too happy to get out of them late this morning. I had to clean out and reattached several gutters on my house in the rain not fun.)

Your obedient servant,


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