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Date Posted: 16:31:11 10/30/16 Sun
In reply to: Jake 's message, "Re: Punished for masturbation" on 07:38:49 10/29/16 Sat
" ... The education should start at home from the parents.
But parents in our sexually repressed religiously intolerant society do not.
I just mentioned in another post that my sister and a cousin taught me how to exercise my fingers and to explore softly between their inner and outer labia.
René discovered in some book she read something about oral sex and started kissing the head of my peepee which eventually led to putting the heard in her mouth. She didn't die of shame or some repugnant disease but soon she knew how to control my peepee, even that if she brought me almost to ejaculation but stopped and tightly pinched the sides of the head she could prevent me from ejaculating. After a few minutes she could tease it again almost to coming but stop and have me begging her to either let it go or let me do the final rubbing.
Great fun for the very girls who acted like sex was the last thing on their minds and who would throw up if they thought about sex or ever saw a penis at all.
Meanwhile my mom’s explanations about sex were limited to;
”Don’t touch it.”
“Don’t think about it”
“Don’t let anyone else see it, touch it, or heaven forbid touch theirs.”
“If it does happen that you think about it say a few ‘Hail Mary’ prayers and tell the priest at confession.”
My father never mentioned sex and would turn red faced if he heard some other men mention it, even indirectly.
So, parents in this country have failed to educate their children in the most all consuming emotion and physical act.
Oh one weekend mom was at a hospital for tests and observation, René came by and took over with Kathy. Dad was supposed to have been at the hospital and then went to the dtore to catch upm with accumulated paperwork. After dinner, Chicken pot pies, I think ren René
Started the bath water and insisted that I disrobe so she could wash me. Near the end she said she had a surprise for me and I should wait in the bedroom for her. She had already started undressing and didn’t shush me out or close the door, which surprised me a bit.
I did as I was told and waited for her on the bed wearing only PJ bottoms. Not to draw it out, but after she came in and began to do things she told me that I should do what I had been doing with my fingers with my tongue just as she had finished doing to me. By the time Monday came around I had learned how to use that tongue to bring her to a level of exhaustion that, at first, scared me, a skill that served me well later when I dated girls and during the years I went to sea.
So the thing is that despite parents trying to hide and control sexual contact, their efforts were counter-productive. The less they told us the more we learned by ourselves.
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