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Date Posted: 13:41:42 04/28/15 Tue
In reply to: Philip 's message, "paddled bare" on 17:06:36 04/20/15 Mon
" ... -I always assumed I was the only guy-- ..."
While I am quite sure it happened far less than you might think from reading the stories posted, it does happen and certainly did happen often enough.
There is a apparent emotional benefit gained by otherwise physically dominant males in surrendering control to a weaker partner, usually a smaller weaker female.
In life, whether somewhat older or quite young we often do, or fail to do, things that we know are wrong that we feel guilty about. For many people, getting away with violating some rule or custom, especially a stricture that helps our families function leaves behind a sense of guilt. That guilt can accumulate as an unresolved emotional issue, generating a feeling of being unworthy of the family's or your partner's trust and support.
A good spanking on a bare heiney dissipates that accumulated guilt and relieves the emotional feeling of not being a worthy member of the family. Done correctly, after the spanking and emotional trauma are dealt with the guilt is usually replaced by forgiveness and a warm, fuzzy sense of happiness.
This is called "the afterglow," and it is reasonably common to feel it because in your mind you know that you disobeyed some rule or ignored some assigned chore and were punished for whatever it was. You felt guilty even though, at the time, you might have tried to deny the violation or created some imaginative excuse.
One interesting thing I have thought about is that as we grow up and develop what people call a sense of modesty. This modesty, usually in the wearing of clothing, involves never being totally open with others and sometimes causes a separation, in effect a lack of trust.
In our society we wear fancy clothing that adds to our outward look and sometimes helps to conceal our emotions and well as our physical body.
Disrobing in front of our partner, or a parent when we were growing up removes the clothing armor that we hide behind in social settings. Consider our politicians and business executives marching forth dressed in often expensive suits, jackets and ties conducting the business of the nations in the flannel armor social custom requires and how certain executives try to show that they are casual good old boys by removing their jackets, ties and sometimes rolling up their sleeves during a presentation.
The act of submitting to your partner's order to remove your pants and undies is surrendering and placing yourself, exposed and submissive under their control.
Some men even allow themselves to be tied up so that they have no way to resist while they are spanked or otherwise humiliated and the combinations of public exposure and physical pain allows a cathartic release of pent up emotions. What should follow is some act of forgiveness and an afterglow as guilt is removed.
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