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Subject: Commitment to the lifestyle.

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Date Posted: 13:28:48 05/19/16 Thu

Hello everyone.
Started this topic to discuss what we men can do to commit to the lifestyle, and why we hesitate to live up to our submissive nature. Feel free to share why you hesitate, or used to hesitate, what helped you or tips in general.

First of all we need to sit down and think what we really want. What we're aiming for. And if that's exactly what we want it(we don't want to do something we'll regret). I'll use myself as an example.
In general terms, I'm aiming to become a selfless servant for all women. I'm aiming to reach a state, that I'll worship each and every woman as a Goddess. I want them to see me as a servant they can use, rather than a man with manners.
So what's stopping me? What's taking me so long? Aside from the fact that it took me years to admit that this is how I want to live, or you could say that it took me years to realize where my place is.
My main reason that I'm not the way that I want is:

Embarrassment. There have been so many times I have told myself that this is the moment where my male ego gets deflated. This is the moment where I do what I normally wouldn't do in order to benefit her. And that's the problem. I wouldn't normally do it. My heart starts beating faster, then thoughts come into my mind. "What will she think of me?". I'm on a similar situation with Jamieanne and his coworker (he described it at my other topic). So first I'd make sure to apologize for my behavior. Then she is probably going to ask why the sudden change. And boom I just made myself anxious and I didn't do it.

One thing that has helped me a bit is orgasm denial. It keeps my mind on the right place.
I'm gonna end this post here, kinda abruptly, but I'm really sleepy yet I wanted to post this before I sleep.

PS: Ms Gertrude I'll give you a specific example in this topic. I believe it'll suit it better.

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Re: Commitment to the lifestyle.Rutten02:56:42 05/20/16 Fri

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