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Subject: Re: Effect of punishing boys by spanking?


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Jean
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Date Posted: 07:40:14 12/16/14 Tue
In reply to: Alicia 's message, "Effect of punishing boys by spanking?" on 11:23:09 10/16/14 Thu

>I came across this post on another board from someone
>called Leda S. which I found fascinating. It reminded
>me of a woman I knew several years ago who was a
>karate instructor and a single mother. She was a small
>woman, but she told me, laughing, that when she
>punished her 15-year old son by spanking, she
>sometimes grabbed him by his penis to hold him down.
>Just like the woman in this story, she maintained
>control when she needed to by holding onto the boy's
>genitals. I asked her if it made him get an erection
>and she replied "What do you think?". That made me
>think and frankly set me back a little, but the more I
>thought about her situation, the more sense it all
>made.
>
>Leda S. is responding to another post by someone named
>Dave. Here is what he said:
>
>"I think the thing we all have admit to ourselves is
>that we are all sexual beings. Certain things turn us
>on and trigger things in us-that is just the way we
>are wired-its doesn't mean we are bad people or
>perverted.
>
>An erect man whether on an adult male or a teenage boy
>can be a very stimulating sight to behold to a femal
>of any age. As such, I don't doubt there are women out
>there that do take advantage of every situation they
>can do get young men excited-to induce erections and
>possibly even ejaculations when possible. It can be as
>overt as nude punishment to as suble as low-cut
>clothing and a touch her or there. Knowing young men
>are quick to react and have hair triggers-it doesn't
>take much to get their homones raging.
>
>The ones thing we have to understand is all this stuff
>could have an impact on some of the boy's future
>sexual inclinations. If a boy's first sexual
>experience with a female is activity which results in
>him getting erect and ejaculating primarily for her
>enjoyment, how is he going to ever be able to have
>normal sexual relation with a female."
>
>And here is her response to Dave:
>
>"Dave, there is more truth in what you say than I bet
>you know. My oldest sister was in charge of my two
>older twin brothers and me when my mother was working.
>She had carte blanche from my mother. She was, and is,
>seven years older than me and five years older than my
>brothers. She spanked us all, bare bottom and hard,
>sometimes with a wood handled hairbrush that really
>stung whenever we needed it. My brothers got it many
>times more often than I did, and I got to see most of
>them. I noticed that the boys did not squirm and twist
>as much as I did when she spanked them. It took me a
>while to realize that she held them by their testicles
>when she used the brush on them. They cried and cried
>but did not move a lot when she held them that way.
>
>For me the interesting part was when she let them up
>then they starting squirming about and rubbing their
>bottoms. Because their penises were usually hard and
>sticking up as they wiggled, something that I found
>both fascinating and even sexually exciting, although
>I did not identify the feeling very well at first. No
>doubt her holding their testicles contributed a lot to
>why they got and stayed erect even after a serious
>spanking. I remember seeing their penises like that a
>few years later when I was 12 and had just about
>finished puberty. Suddenly I realized they got hard
>like that so they could be put into a vagina. That
>made sense, but why it happened when they got spanked
>mystified me.
>
>I am pretty sure she enjoyed seeing them like that
>too. When I was older I asked her about holding them
>like that and she laughed and said our mother had told
>her to do it if she needed to. She said it worked like
>a charm on them, too, and she liked doing it.
>
>Neither of my brothers is very big, and both are on
>the skinny side, too. And each married bossy women --
>one of them is bigger than her husband. I have never
>asked, but more than once I have wondered if either of
>them is still spanked, and if so, in what way. It
>would not surprise me if they were. Really. All that
>spanking and excitement had to have some effect on
>them later on. I know seeing them get it that way did
>have an effect on me."
>
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>oy.com/216899/1096.html

>
>When I compared the two posts, I realized I did not
>agree with Dave's last sentence where he seems to
>complain that such experiences hurt the grown boy's
>chances at a "normal" sexual relation with a female.
>What is "normal", I mean. And even more importantly,
>what is best? It seems to me that Leda hinted at her
>reactions to and suspicions about her older brothers'
>punishments. She seems to admit she got turned on by
>witnessing them, and suspects her brothers did too and
>thereafter sought out female dominant relationships
>with their wives.
>
>What do you think?


Shame and embarrassment used to be regarded as part of serious corporal punishment especially for naughty boys.
In the 70s my brother got into trouble for shoplifting and my mum pleaded with the shop's owner not to involve the authorities and to keep it a secret. He agreed because he liked my mum and had been a good customer of many years.
My brother didn't get off lightly though. He as 16 at the time and I was 20. His punishment was in the form of a thick belt and given in front of all the family, me, stepsister, and stepdad. For this my brother had all clothing below the waist removed and was left showing his bare exposed bottom to us all. He was so ashamed and embarrassed and this I'm sure hurt far more than the belt itself. He had to stand and face the mantelpiece after the belting finished hand on his head and his upper garments raised and tucked up, so he was showing his stinging and reddened bare bottom for a whole hour, although it seemed forever, and I'm sure it did for him even more so.

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