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Subject: Re: RE: Wives in Charge


Author:
e.j. (contemplating)
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Date Posted: 15:59:12 11/08/14 Sat
In reply to: micheleFFS 's message, "Re: RE: Wives in Charge" on 10:17:12 11/08/14 Sat

>EJ, much of what you describe can happen in consensual
>FemDom relationships. Did the situation you describe
>begin with some degree of consent and get out of hand?
>Or was it strictly one-sided from your wife and sister
>in law?
>
>If the women were indeed so arbitrary and hostile,
>why? Were there dark incidents in their pasts? Did you
>do something to set them off?
>
>Did you ever figure it out? Or do you have a
>conjecture why they acted like this?
>
>micheleFFS
When Janet and I married there was never any mention of female domination or female led relationship; back in the 1980's I don't think either of us would have understood what those terms meant, and I'm not even sure if computers existed then.

Did I in any way provoke Janet or Jeanne? To my knowledge I would have to say 'no'. Things were hectic in the '80's following the sexual revolution of the '60's, in which we both grew up. I remember back in those days marriage became a partnership, kind of a 50-50 thing. Honestly, I don't think either of us were ready for marriage. Being older now, and maybe a little wiser, I think it was a mistake to look at marriage as a 50-50 kind of thing; just look at the number of divorces from that time on.

I could be wrong but I think Janet, and especially Jeanne, got caught up in the opportunity for power and control. We all came from traditional marriages, but Womens Lib was fighting for rights back then (and this is not a slap at Womens Lib). Hey, I was as much to blame as anyone for letting it happen ( if there is any blame ).

I've thought about it a lot over the years. Regarding Jeanne, 18 at the time, it was probably a first time experience for her to be in control of 'an older guy'. I'm sure she had power and control over kids, as a baby-sitter, but our situation was different. I never did find out who initiated the trickery, Janet or Jeanne, but all these years later I can admit that it was a well hatched plan, and I think Janet knew that I would keep my word. Also, to be honest, I think Janet followed Jeanne's lead; it seemed to me that Jeanne enjoyed things a whole lot more than Janet.

I haven't seen Janet or Jeanne in many years but I hope they are well and I have no hard feelings.

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Re: RE: Wives in ChargeMs. Gertrude (puzzled)06:20:08 11/09/14 Sun
Re: RE: Wives in ChargemicheleFFS18:27:45 11/09/14 Sun


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