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Subject: Re: Door in son's room

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Date Posted: 05:10:31 12/08/14 Mon
In reply to: Ellen 's message, "Door in son's room" on 00:22:22 12/08/14 Mon

Hi Ellen,

Your contributions to this forum are always excellent. Thank you.

It's almost certainly true that Teddy wants to avoid being embarrassed by you finding him masturbating. My uncle once walked in on me and I was utterly embarrassed.

My first question is whether Teddy asked you respectfully or was he demanding? If he was angry or demanding, I suggest you tell him no and set a time when he can try again. Boys should always be respectful of their mothers, males of women and people of each other. That's basic, and need have nothing to do with female superiority.

As to the question of privacy, for ordinary dressing, masturbating, time alone generally or time alone with a girlfriend, I think that's part of ordinary life too, unless this is violated. In other words, I suggest he be allowed privacy unless he does something forbidden. Then, you as a parent can go in to check on him.

Me? I used and dealt drugs out of my bedroom in my parents house. Me masturbating was the least of their worries!

To protect Teddie's girlfriends, I suggest you should teach him to respect girls and women (and you obviously are doing that very well!) and how to explore sex without risking pregnancy.



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Re: Door in son's roomEllen to MicheleFFS19:43:33 12/11/14 Thu

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