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Subject: Re: Door in son's room


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Ms. Gertrude (approving)
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Date Posted: 14:35:20 12/13/14 Sat
In reply to: Ellen to MicheleFFS 's message, "Re: Door in son's room" on 19:43:33 12/11/14 Thu

>>Hi Ellen,
>>
>>Your contributions to this forum are always excellent.
>>Thank you.
>>
>>It's almost certainly true that Teddy wants to avoid
>>being embarrassed by you finding him masturbating. My
>>uncle once walked in on me and I was utterly
>>embarrassed.
>>
>>My first question is whether Teddy asked you
>>respectfully or was he demanding? If he was angry or
>>demanding, I suggest you tell him no and set a time
>>when he can try again. Boys should always be
>>respectful of their mothers, males of women and people
>>of each other. That's basic, and need have nothing to
>>do with female superiority.
>>
>>As to the question of privacy, for ordinary dressing,
>>masturbating, time alone generally or time alone with
>>a girlfriend, I think that's part of ordinary life
>>too, unless this is violated. In other words, I
>>suggest he be allowed privacy unless he does something
>>forbidden. Then, you as a parent can go in to check on
>>him.
>>
>>Me? I used and dealt drugs out of my bedroom in my
>>parents house. Me masturbating was the least of their
>>worries!
>>
>>To protect Teddie's girlfriends, I suggest you should
>>teach him to respect girls and women (and you
>>obviously are doing that very well!) and how to
>>explore sex without risking pregnancy.
>>
>>Respectfully,
>>
>>micheleFFS
>
>
>Dear micheleFFS,
>thank you for answers, they are interesting and useful
>for me. About your questions.
>Teddy was respectful really when spoke with me. By the
>way, I don't go into his room more than an year
>already, when his girfriend presence there. Now, I
>permitted Teddy to lock his bedroom when he wants,
>however:
>1). I will check order and cleanliness in his room
>episodically;
>2). I will check his own cleanliness, if it will be
>necessary, despite his age;
>3). The same, despite his age, if he will be out of
>borders of discipline and our family rules, he will
>get our traditional family punishment until live under
>my root.
>Teddy agreed, although, reluctantly enough.
>By the way, Teddy wasn't spanked about 2 months
>already (Tommy gets on average weekly, alas...)

Ellen, your approach is right on. Sooner or later Tommy will begin to figure out that if he behaves himself, his underpants don't have to come down every week. And he will start behaving. And your Teddy being a boy will eventually mess up. His next spanking will have a bigger impact on him as he will relive some of the initial embarrassment. But hopefully he can behave a little longer for each interval. So congrats and keep up the good work. I know it's hard, but very rewarding in the end. Well maybe not the boys' ends. LOL

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