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Subject: Re: To Miss C and others in adult female authority relationships

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Date Posted: 12:51:13 12/14/14 Sun
In reply to: micheleFFS 's message, "To Miss C and others in adult female authority relationships" on 22:43:03 12/09/14 Tue

>Miss C,
>my wife agrees
>I'm glad to learn you're taking charge so forcefully
>in your relationship.
>Childish punishment spankings are good for near-men
>who act immature. I have a question and some general
>Do you spank only for punishment or sometimes because
>one or both of you enjoy it? If you do both, it's
>important to ensure that Charlie knows (and feels) the
>Whether you spank for fun or not, I suggest that at
>first, you develop a well-defined ritual for
>punishment. Here's one suggested ritual:
>1. Strip him as much as you feel he should be, but at
>least naked below the waist. If it's more embarrassing
>for him to strip himself, have him do that.
>2. You tell Charlie what he did wrong, how his actions
>affected others, how it made others feel.
>3. Charlie apologizes by acknowledging his actions.
>Listen carefully to this part, because he will try to
>shift all or part of the blame to someone else. He may
>not mention the actions of anyone else at this stage.
>Listen especially for the word "but." He'll probably
>need correction from you and to start over, perhaps
>several times. Only then can he state in his own words
>how his action affected others and their feelings.
>Last, have him say how he will act differently in the
>future to avoid similar offenses.
>4. Spank him as long and as hard as you like. You love
>him; you won't damage him, but you will punish bad
>5. I'm not a big believer in corner time, but I do
>like the Superior telling the spanked boy when he my
>massage his sore cheeks. Making him wait enhances your
>authority. If you like the idea of corner time, or if
>he hates it, use it.
>6. Just as the punishment has a distinct beginning, it
>should have a distinct end. Have him repeat step 2.
>When he's allowed to don his clothes again, hug and
>kiss him. Tell him you love him and go on as though
>nothing has happened. It's appropriate to tell him he
>accepted his punishment well if he has.
>7. Spankings between adults can be tremendous sexual
>turn ons. I think sex after a punishment is entirely
>too rewarding for the male. But if you are worked up,
>there is no reason you should be deprived; you've done
>nothing wrong. There are several methods by which you
>can be satisfied while he remains frustrated. Here are
>a few; you'll probably come up with others - it's your
>pleasure, after all!
>a. He's not allowed to touch you or himself but uses a
>dildo or vibrator for you.
>b. He's not allowed to touch you or himself except
>with his lips to your lower lips. It's a nice touch to
>make him hold his hands behind his back as he
>pleasures you.
>c. He lies on his back and holds his hands where you
>can see them. You facesit him. My Mistress recently
>used me in this way and it was a revelation. Not only
>was she on top, she was the active partner, I the
>resposive provider of pleasure. With a tilt of her
>pelvis, she decided whether my eager tongue stimulated
>her lips, her starfish, or her nubbin. I received a
>reward for my service; punished Charlie shall not.
>It's obvious which of the three I think is best for
>you and for him.
>8. After such an experience, Charlie, deprived of sex
>with you, will desperately desire to masturbate. As
>I said before, carry on as if nothing has happened,
>but don't allow him to be alone. Set a time limit and
>tell him it's part of his penance.
>If whatever Charlie did to earn his punishment
>involved others, particularly women, consider
>involving them to the appropriate degree. In all
>cases, the offended parties should hear Charlie's
>apology directly from him. For males and underage
>females, that's probably enough. If Charlie offended
>an adult woman, you have options. You can inform them
>of his punishment, or not, when he apologizes to
>them. You can invite them to hear or watch the
>punishment or even participate to the degree you allow.
>If, as is likely, a female witness or participant
>becomes sexually aroused by the punishment, Charlie
>can be frustrated while providing her pleasure if he
>is blindfolded and made to wear a thick glove as he
>manipulates a vibrator under her direction. He neither
>sees her nor touches her. If your relationship is more
>open than that, make your own rules. If you and your
>friend are bisexual, tie him to a chair and make him
>watch as you make love.
>{Aside} Whew! I really got into that!
>What if you spank for pleasure as well? I suggest that
>punishment spankings take place in your living room,
>whether there are witnesses or not. "Funishment"
>spankings take place anywhere but the living room.
>Different implememnts are used for each type of
>spanking. Any lecture in a funishment spanking is part
>of role play or play acting. At least while the
>routines are established, punishment spankings should
>be more severe and painful than funishment spankings.
>Funishment spankings should always lead to full sexual
>expression for you both - the spankings or other
>submissive acts are part of foreplay. Punishment
>spankings should never be a prelude for sexual
>pleasure for Charlie.
>Miss C and anyone else, I hope my suggestions are
>helpful. I'd be gratified if you posted any results
>from using or modifying them.

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