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Subject: Re: To Miss C and others in adult female authority relationships


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Date Posted: 13:22:43 12/14/14 Sun
In reply to: micheleFFS 's message, "To Miss C and others in adult female authority relationships" on 22:43:03 12/09/14 Tue

Thank you for your suggestions Michele, I will certainly take them in.

>Do you spank only for punishment or sometimes because
>one or both of you enjoy it? If you do both, it's
>important to ensure that Charlie knows (and feels) the
>difference.

Earlier in our relationship we did practice spanking for enjoyment, as charlie expressed an interest in it. Those spankings where relatively gentle, and I only used my hands. Nowadays I use it strictly as a punishment, I think it's sends a confusing message to spank both as a punishment and for enjoyment. I still mainly use my hands as I enjoy the skin to skin contact, but I have used a spatula in the past. Unlike when spanking for enjoyment, I don't limit the spanking area to the buttocks. I've discovered that charlie really dislikes hits to the thighs.


>1. Strip him as much as you feel he should be, but at
>least naked below the waist. If it's more embarrassing
>for him to strip himself, have him do that.

Since I've introduced early bedtimes I've bough charlie a pair of childish pyjamas that he was to go and put on before returning downstairs and asking me to evaluate his behaviour. After experimenting with naked spanking, I've found pulling his pyjama bottoms down and spanking him is more humiliating for him. The added benefit of this method is that by leaving the bottoms around his ankles, his legs are prevented from wiggling apart!

>5. I'm not a big believer in corner time, but I do
>like the Superior telling the spanked boy when he my
>massage his sore cheeks. Making him wait enhances your
>authority. If you like the idea of corner time, or if
>he hates it, use it.

I get a great deal of satisfaction from seeing the fruit of my hard work, so I do like to see the boy stand in the corner with his red bottom on display. I find little point in leaving him in the corner for too long, as time spent in the corner is time he could be spending in his bed! Ten minutes is usually enough for me to admire my work, and it gives charlie a chance to stop sobbing.


>7. Spankings between adults can be tremendous sexual
>turn ons. I think sex after a punishment is entirely
>too rewarding for the male. But if you are worked up,
>there is no reason you should be deprived; you've done
>nothing wrong.

charlie does get very erect during his punishments, especially when I spank him. I originally used corner time as an opportunity for him to lose the erection, but more often than not he still has one after his ten minutes.

I do get exhilarated punishing charlie, but rarely do I use him after a punishment. I have worried that using him afterwards would still be too enjoyable for him.
I have not tried facesitting, but I shall take your suggestion and report back.

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