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Subject: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:20:15 10/12/20 Mon I have read through these boards and decided that this one seems to be the most reasonable one for me to ask advice. I think I've read every page on here. Some interesting reading. Although some of the stuff on here is pretty outragious there seems to be a lot of logical people on here. Some of those other boards are very creepy. Where do I begin? A few years ago I somewhat inherited a large house that had at one time been a bed and breakfast, but laid vacant for several years. I invested in it thinking about a B&B, but decided it would be more profitable in a small town centered around a university to turn it into student rentals. Me and my three daughters live there with four apartments on the 2nd floor. This is not meant to turn of great profit for me, I own a business, but more like a way to give to the community. As I have three daughters I only rent to college girls and the rent is next to nothing. The rooms aren't huge but comfortable and meals are provided if they wish. Their lodgings are somewhat private, but for what I charge and with meals provided if they wish, they can't argue too much. Right now with enrollment down and a lot of students doing virtual, I only have three of the rooms rented. Most of the students through the years have been friendly enough, sometimes join the family for meals, but for the most part just do their own thing. With three young girls in the house I have a lot of rules and I expect them to be followed, but I can be tolerant. I am a spanking parent. I try to keep the girls spankings as private as possible, but in this old house the sounds of a spanking reverberate through both floors. The girls are used to it and my lodgers get used to it. One girl, Amanda who joined us a year ago September is an absolute sweetheart. She is exuberant and funny, she's a good (not great) student, she usually joins us for meals and even helps clean up at times. She is wonderful with the girls. She plays with them, helps with their hair, jokes and talks with them, helps with homework, even breaks up fights and is almost always willing to babysit when needed. She really is one of the family. Amanda is a godsend. The girls just adore and admire her. The only thing is, she breaks a lot of rules. I've caught her smoking, she comes in drunk or high and a lot of other things. Not the worst things in the world and for some of the other students almost goes unnoticed but as my girls worship her she has to understand that she has a great deal of influence on them. The girls when misbehaving have said "Well, Amanda does it" or something like that it becomes personal. The others are perhaps sneaky about it, but Amanda is pretty clumsy and open about her misbehaviors and just doesn't seem to understand that the rules are there for a reason. The other day, as much as I hated to do it I had to give her 30 days noticed. The poor thing acted as though her world had come to an end. She begged, she promissed but we've been through this before and I stood firm. In desperation she said "Well, maybe there could be like a punishment. Maybe you could do...what...you do with the girls." In my head I'm thinking "What? Spank you?" and that is exactly what she was getting at. I don't recall word for word how the conversation went, but that pretty much sums it up. Don't think that I haven't thought about giving a damn good spanking to her or one of the other renters or my employees from time to time. Sometimes I wish I could. But for this girl to come right out and suggest it took me for a loop. She basically asked me to spank her instead of evicting her. At first I just couldn't even respond to that. In the past few days though I have given this some thought, searched the web and came across this. So it leads me to asking this group what you think about that? Should I give her a spanking as she suggested? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:28:20 10/12/20 Mon Please, only real answers and not answers that want to hear about a 20 year old girl getting spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:42:25 10/19/20 Mon Is she 20 years old? How old are your daughters? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:35:53 10/12/20 Mon Well why not? What's there to questions! I mean she suggested it! Do you maybe think your spankings aren't enough to motivate her to change her behavior? Or it wouldn't be appropriate to spank someone other then your daughters. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:40:09 10/12/20 Mon Trust me, if I actually spanked her, she would regret it and definitely motivate her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Lesley [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:37:52 10/12/20 Mon Hi RM, Hmmmm, so you spank her daughters and this student renting with you has asked to be spanked, is that right? My answer is absolutely No, do not spank her! If her parents want to spank then that is their thing with her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:53:10 10/12/20 Mon Her parents aren't there to spank her Lesley. I would ask if she's ever been spanked before and if she knows what she's getting into. How old are your daughters how do you spank your them? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:42:23 10/12/20 Mon You are a very smart young lady Berryblue. I can't wait until you rent from me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:45:43 10/12/20 Mon If only! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:57:48 10/12/20 Mon Hi my name is Justin, I don't know if you have read any of my posts or not, but I was very intrigued by your question and thought I would respond. First of all, as much as I do like reading about 20 year olds being spanked and that was one of the main reasons I started coming on here. That being said, I do know the difference between fantasy and reality, so let me give you some honest feedback and hopefully some questions that will give you something to think about. First of all, do you want to evict Amanda? It sounds like she is very much a part of your family and it is not something you really want to do. It does sound like based on how little you charge rent that it is not unreasonable to expect some help from your tenants. That being said, that is obviously a far cry from giving one of them a spanking. One question: is she violating her lease agreement with you by smoking and being high there or is it more that you just don't want your daughters influenced by Amanda to do these bad things, especially if they look up to her? If you consider her to be like a daughter, would it be a huge stretch to give the girl a spanking? How would you carry it out? Would you want to draw up some kind of legal document and have her sign off on it so that she is agreeing to said punishment? What do you think the impact of kicking her out would have on your daughters? Would they resnt you for it? Alternatively, if you were to spank Amanda while your daughters were around and inform them of what she is being spanked for, would that not tell them that this kind of behavior is unacceptable and that even older girls can be punished? Could this not have a positive effect since they look up to Amanda to know that even she can't get away with these things? Plus you have to consider she is the one that actually suggested it. You would need to have a very serious conversation with Amanda about how things would be changing going forward. The dynamics of your relationship with her would change dramatically. It is not an easy decision, but I wish you luck with it!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:38:23 10/12/20 Mon You bring up some very good points Justin. I definitely do not want to evict Amanda. I don't want to evict anyone, but this girl is otherwise a dream. There are deefinite rules that they have agreed to in writing and she has broken almost all of them. She is like one of the family and in that regard not a stretch to treat her like one of my daughters when they misbehave, but she is not and she is basically one of my renters. I don't want to get into any 'legal' documents if I can help it. I think my girls would be devestated if I evicted her. Actually I think her getting a spanking, just as they would, would send a loud and clear message and I think they would, at their ages just take it in stride. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Kathy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:18:00 10/12/20 Mon Hi Rental Mom, If you feel that a sound spanking would help, then I would call and talk to her Parents. Let them know what she has been doing and that you gave her a 30 day notice to move. I would let them know she has asked you to let her stay by spanking her. I would also let her know that she is helpful with your three girls and helps with dishes. Let them know that if you do spank her, it will be bare bottom, over your knee with a implement. If her Parents say go for it, then blister that girls bottom good. I would spank her in front of your other renters. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental (Mom) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:07 10/12/20 Mon She is 20, so I don't think her parents have much to do with it, although they are paying for the bulk of her upkeep. I hesitate to call her parents, though because I don't want to 'rat her out'. I would definitely NOT spank her in front of the other tenants. If they happen to overhear, well, that's the price. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:53:29 10/12/20 Mon If it were me i wouldn't want my parents to know anything about it, especially when they don't need too. It's her choice to get spanked or not, her parents really have nothing to do with it. Her asking you to spank her is probably so her parents don't find out about her eviction in the first place. Wise decision to spank her in front of the other tenants. That level of embarrassment isn't needed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:10:07 10/12/20 Mon There is certainly no need to draw attention to it with the other tenants or my daughters. This place is like Grand Central Station and trying to schedule a very private over my knee session is next to impossible and this old place reverberates like a cathedral, so if there happens to be anyone in the house when a spanking takes place, they will know it. I don't think there would be any reason to tell her parents as she is 20 years old. However, most of her expenses comes from her parents and I doubt they would be very thrilled to hear about her antics. I don't know if her parents spanked her when she was little, they may even spank her now which could explain why she suggested it. familiarity. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:11 10/12/20 Mon Hi Again Rental Mom, Kathy has very sound advice. Contacting her parents is not a bad idea at all. Tell them you are well within your rights to evict Amanda for her actions. Tell them what she suggested and that as a mother that believes in spanking, you are considering it as you don't really want to kick her out. That being said, parental consent is not necessarily needed as she is old enough to be considered an adult in many respects. However, out of respect for her parents, it may not be a bad idea to talk to them. How soon do you have to make a decision about this? As you have already expressed a desire to spank this girl, I have to ask, what would hold you back from doing so? Are you concerned that if you spank her that she would resent you for it? I don't think this would be the case based on the information you have provided us. You seem to regard her more as a daughter then a tenant. I would say that the positives way out weigh any negatives. I think she would actually end up being thankful that you are giving her another chance. She may just need a firm hand in her life. I would also make it clear that this kind of behavior going forward will not be tolerated and that she can expect to go over your knee again and again if she is not changing her behavior. Maybe once is all she would need to correct her behavior, but I would be prepared that more discipline may be necessary. If you do proceed with this course of action, you should make it memorable for her, your daughters, and possibly even the other tenants. Let it be an example that this kind of behavior will not be tolerated in your home. I think picking a time when everyone would be around to at the very least hear her getting spanked as a stern message that you will not allow this kind of behavior and also make it clear the alternative was being kicked out. I am not sure if you need to spank her in front of everyone, many different views on that in here; I would leave that up to you. But I do think that if if the other tenants and your own daughters know what is happening and why, that could certainly leave a very strong impression not only on Amanda but everyone else as well. Hope this is helpful!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:35:18 10/12/20 Mon Hello Again Rental Mom, Sorry I don't mean to keep monopolizing this thread but wanted to share some more incite that I hope will be helful. I shared a letter on here that was from a Woman to Woman Spanking Magazine. The reason I want to share it with you is it deals with a girl that stole from her place of work and was going to be fired, but instead of firing the girl she offered to spank her instead and let her keep her job. The girl was reluctant at first but did end up agreeing to be spanked as she didn't want to lose her job. I know your situation is a bit different as Amanda is actually the one suggesting a spanking instead of eviction, but I still thought it might be relevant. What I wanted you to see from the letter is that the girl was grateful to keep her job and ended up never being late to work again and they went on to have a good working relationship together for the remaining few months they were working together. Please be warned though that there is mention of sexual elements and arousal in this letter as the letter was written by someone with a spanking fetish. I know that is not you, but I was hoping it would offer you a perspective on a situation where a spanking was offered as an alternative to something even more undesirable. Here is the link, read the letter if you think it will help: https://www.voy.com/243310/38577.html Also, I just wanted to say welcome to our forum and thank you for choosing us. I too have found since coming on here that the people on here are very kind and welcoming. I have found there are a lot of thoughtful individuals on here and it is nice to be able to come to a place and discuss things without fear of being judged. You seem like a very sensible person and want to do what's right in this situation. I think if you think of this girl like a daughter and that she has become a part of the family to some extent, then you should be willing to consider punishing her in this way. You even said you don't want to evict her and if your punishment of her comes from a place of concern and maybe, dare I say it love for this girl, then I think you would be doing the right thing by spanking her. Also, you have to consider that it was her suggestion. That means that she knows her actions were wrong and hopefully she wants to make changes. I would say that if you do go ahead with this course of action to be prepared to make this a memorable lesson. Also, be very firm that the behavior she has been getting away with thus far will no longer be tolerated. This will change the dynamics of the relationship with this girl, but more then likely for the better. A spanking is an intimate act in a way, so if she is willing to be spanked by you, she must see you as a kind of mother figure in her life. Hope this has been helpful and best of luck with your decision!! Please let us know what you decide!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:02:00 10/12/20 Mon Thank you Justin. One of the things that has actually crossed my mind is the sexual aspect of it. For myself I have play spanked with partners both male and female, but a real spanking? No thank you. And believe me, I have given thought to turning somke of my tenants and some of my employees over my knees and turning their bottoms chimney red, not for sexual satisfaction, but because some of them could use a damn good spanking. These ideas can bring some arousal, but I wouldn't say they are sexual fantasies. On the other hand, I didn't just fall off the turnip truck. I know that spanking and BDSM fetishes exist. I somewhat understand the sexual and psychological appeal to them. One of the things that concerns me is why Amanda would be so willing to bring it up? Is it just because she's is close to my daughters and knows how I handle their misbehavior? Do her parents spank her at home and she is used to that type of discipline? Or is there an alterior motive? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:49:20 10/12/20 Mon Hi Rental Mom, You seem to have a very good understanding of things. I am glad you weren't offended by my mention of the sexual aspects of spanking. There was another thread you might be interested in on here since we are talking about the sexual aspects of spanking, which was titled "Does punishment spanking work for spankos". You may find it interesting as it deals with the this very line of thinking. I would have to say that yes, if given effectively and hard enough a punishment spanking can still be effective on a spanko and lead to life changing behaviors. I will leave you the link to the article and let you read it for your self if you like and see if it is helpful for you. Here is the link: https://www.voy.com/243310/39023.html That being said, just because she suggested a spanking does not mean she has a spanking fetish. She may just be desperate not to be evicted. It sounds to me like she looks up to you and really likes being a part of your family. She may want nothing more then to make things right between you and was offering this choice out of desperation. And even if she was a bit turned on by the thought of being spanked, I can tell you from personal experience that the reality is often far more painful then our fantasies. And as you even said as someone that understands there is a big difference from a play spanking from a partner and a punishment spanking from someone who is determined to make you sorry and that the undesirable behavior does not happen again. So even if she has some thought or fantasies that about getting spanked by you (and I am not saying she does) those would probably soon be forgotten once the spanking started. I too hope that we will get some input from others on here. I would particularly like to hear Eleanora thoughts as well. I pick her because she too has fantasies about being spanked but would also be the first to tell you that the reality of being spanked is far more unpleasant. She would also probably tell you as much as she doesn't like being spanked that she knows that her mom spanks her out of a place of love and that they have been helpful in changing her behavior for the better. If I see her on here I will encourage her to chime in with her two cents worth. At the end of the day, I don't think you can worry too much about this girls sexuality, you just have to make the decision you feel is best. As far as the how of this spanking if you do decide to do it. The mothers on here might be able to help you better but probably if you do it the same way you spank your own daughters would work, over your knee hand spanking and then with an implement. She is not your daughter and this spanking is her suggestions, however you can and should make it very clear that the spanking will be on your terms and she will have to be prepared to accept whatever you decide is necessary. Since she is older then your daughters, I don't think it is unreasonable to make this a harder and longer spanking then anything you would currently give to your daughters. This needs to be memorable and life changing. The alternative for her is eviction. So I don't think it is unreasonable to make this a very memorable lesson that she will never forget. I would also strongly considering doing it when your daughters are around as an example that even adults do not get away without being punished. Obviously this is up to your discretion and if you feel this would be too traumatizing for your daughters, then maybe don't do it. I am just thinking this could send a very clear message to your daughters that no matter their age, that some behavior will just not be tolerated. Once again, I hope this has been helpful. Let's hope more people offer their advise. I hope you don't make Amanda wait too long for your decision as I am sure she is on eggshells thinking she is getting kicked out. I am sure you will make the right decision. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:15:25 10/12/20 Mon Thank you all for your thoughts. I hope this dialogue continues and I get more points of view. We've discussed the why, I still haven't made up my mind to spank or not, but how about the 'how'? I spank my girls with pants and panties down, over my knees on an armless chair first with my hand and for the two older girls finish with a few swats of my hairbrush. Keep in mind that Amanda is adult size and is also not my daughter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: RentalMom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:17:57 10/12/20 Mon And by the way, I think I came to the right place to ask for advise. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Mel [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:41:34 10/15/20 Thu I'm just going to jump into the middle of the conversation and chime in a bit on this part. Maybe you should sit down with her and ask her what her expectations for it are. Ask her what she thinks would be an appropriate spanking as far as length, implements, dress, etc. If nothing else, it would give you an idea how serious of one she's expecting. You wouldn't want to go in giving her one like you give your daughters and it not have the right effect because she was expecting much worse. At the end of the day if you decide to do it, 100% of the "how" needs to be your decision and she needs to be told that during the conversation above if you have it. It's about the only way to ensure it's a punishment and not "fun" if she has a fetish for it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:46:27 10/15/20 Thu Oh, don't you worry, it will be much worse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Pebble [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:48:06 01/15/21 Fri Do you strive for an apple-red bottom and a lively, post-spanking spanky dance? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: More advice and input Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:50:57 10/12/20 Mon Hi Rental Mom, You seem to have a very good understanding of things. I am glad you weren't offended by my mention of the sexual aspects of spanking. There was another thread you might be interested in on here since we are talking about the sexual aspects of spanking, which was titled "Does punishment spanking work for spankos". You may find it interesting as it deals with the this very line of thinking. I would have to say that yes, if given effectively and hard enough a punishment spanking can still be effective on a spanko and lead to life changing behaviors. I will leave you the link to the article and let you read it for your self if you like and see if it is helpful for you. Here is the link: https://www.voy.com/243310/39023.html That being said, just because she suggested a spanking does not mean she has a spanking fetish. She may just be desperate not to be evicted. It sounds to me like she looks up to you and really likes being a part of your family. She may want nothing more then to make things right between you and was offering this choice out of desperation. And even if she was a bit turned on by the thought of being spanked, I can tell you from personal experience that the reality is often far more painful then our fantasies. And as you even said as someone that understands there is a big difference from a play spanking from a partner and a punishment spanking from someone who is determined to make you sorry and that the undesirable behavior does not happen again. So even if she has some thought or fantasies that about getting spanked by you (and I am not saying she does) those would probably soon be forgotten once the spanking started. I too hope that we will get some input from others on here. I would particularly like to hear Eleanora thoughts as well. I pick her because she too has fantasies about being spanked but would also be the first to tell you that the reality of being spanked is far more unpleasant. She would also probably tell you as much as she doesn't like being spanked that she knows that her mom spanks her out of a place of love and that they have been helpful in changing her behavior for the better. If I see her on here I will encourage her to chime in with her two cents worth. At the end of the day, I don't think you can worry too much about this girls sexuality, you just have to make the decision you feel is best. As far as the how of this spanking if you do decide to do it. The mothers on here might be able to help you better but probably if you do it the same way you spank your own daughters would work, over your knee hand spanking and then with an implement. She is not your daughter and this spanking is her suggestions, however you can and should make it very clear that the spanking will be on your terms and she will have to be prepared to accept whatever you decide is necessary. Since she is older then your daughters, I don't think it is unreasonable to make this a harder and longer spanking then anything you would currently give to your daughters. This needs to be memorable and life changing. The alternative for her is eviction. So I don't think it is unreasonable to make this a very memorable lesson that she will never forget. I would also strongly considering doing it when your daughters are around as an example that even adults do not get away without being punished. Obviously this is up to your discretion and if you feel this would be too traumatizing for your daughters, then maybe don't do it. I am just thinking this could send a very clear message to your daughters that no matter their age, that some behavior will just not be tolerated. Once again, I hope this has been helpful. Let's hope more people offer their advise. I hope you don't make Amanda wait too long for your decision as I am sure she is on eggshells thinking she is getting kicked out. I am sure you will make the right decision. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:53:10 10/12/20 Mon It doesn't really matter if she's into spanking or not because once you start punishing her naughty butt and she realizes the whole thing is not a game and she will do everything to avoid another. Trust me on this. Maybe she gets spanked at home, so she's used to it, but you said she has become like family and she hears your daughters getting spanked and maybe she wants the whole being accepted as part of the family experience. She may feel that a slapped butt is an easy way out of being evicted, but if you do spank her, paddle her good until she can't sit down the next day. It would be clear to her that her inappropriate actions have unpleasant consequences. Trust me on this. I know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:01:58 10/12/20 Mon It is quite possible she doesn't have a spanking fetish. I would like Karin_vin to chime in here since she was in a similar position to your renter and she got spanked by her landlady until she was 24. . I don't see a problem if she gets spanked in front of your daughters but I am uncomfortable having any one else know. As far as severity I would do it just like your daughters. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:58:00 10/12/20 Mon This reminds me of a post from another forum. Where a women related how back in the sixties she got into an argument with her landlady who just got fed up and spanked her. Which would you rather do. Get spanked which is painful and humiliating but maybe not as bad as telling your Parents who are paying for things that you screwed up a really nice deal. I will admit that getting spanked by the landlady is one of my fantasies and if you decide to do it I would really appreciate all of the details. As I think most of the people on this forum would want [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: More thoughts and questions for you Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:10:01 10/12/20 Mon I just reread your initial post and there is really a lot to digest in it upon rereading it. After reading the first paragraph is it safe to say that you love this girl and would almost consider her as part of the family. I believe godsend is the word you used. If this is the case, then I think it would be equally fair to say that Amanda would consider you like family and probably sees being evicted as more than just getting kicked out of somewhere to live, but probably feels like she has let you down and has hurt the relationship she has with you. She was probably crushed when you held firm with your conviction to evict her. This leads me to my first question. How many times did you have to talk to her about these problems you were having with her breaking your rules? You said you had been down this road before, so I have to wonder, what was said the previous times you talked to her? Did you threaten that continued behavior and breaking of rules could result in her being evicted? It sounds like you did have previouse conversations with her regarding her behavior and they obviously went unheeded. Perhaps a firmer hand is needed now. Which beings me to my next topic and questions. Do you feel like if you go ahead with trying this spanking thing out on her as discipline that it will be a one time thing and then it is over? Or do you feel like more then one lesson might be necessary? Do you see yourself as a mentor or parental type figure in this girls life? She helps you babsit your daughters, so you obviously trust her a lot. What do you think your relationship will look like going forward if you proceed with the spanking and how will it impact things going forward between you? And alternatively, how would your relationship with Amanda be impacted if you go through with the eviction? These are all things I am sure you are already very much considering and they are things I think you should place far more importance on then trying to figure out if this girl has an interest in spanking. It is very possible and probably even likely that her suggestion to punish her was a suggestion done out of desperation. Which brings me to another question. Did she actually say that you should spank her or that you should punish her and spanking was merely implied? Once you have a good sense of how you are going to proceed, you should probably start with a very honest chat with Amanda. Tell her that her continued breaking of your rules and blatant disregard for them will not be tolerated. Tell her you are standing by you conviction to evict her, however you have also given some very serious thought to what she said about punishment. And just to be clear you tell her that in no uncertain terms you mean spanking. Be honest with her and tell her you struggled a lot with this decision and did not arrive at it lightly. Then give her a choice, a chance to back out as it were. Tell her that either the eviction stands or she can chose to take a spanking. You must make it clear, that this will be a spanking on your terms. She has to agree to that if she going to stay. I would also make clear that going forward this previously bad behavior or breaking of these rules will no longer be tolerated. I know you said they aren't the worst things, but you do have to consider your own daughters and the influence this will have on them. And this brings me to the last point for the night, how you will spank her if that is the direction you go. Like Bodback said spank her much like you do your own daughters. You said you try to spank privately as much as possible, which now on more reflection is probably better if you do spank Amanda. Not to contradict Kathy, but I don't think your daughters need to see Amanda getting spanked, however I still stand by what I said as far as them being in the house while it is happening. I do think if Amanda has been having a negative influence on your daughters that having them hear her being punished may make them think twice about doing it themselves when they realize that even adults can get spanked. You should however talk to your daughters first and make it very clear to them what is going to happen and why it is happening. I still think they will be far less devastated if you punish her then if you evict her. I am sorry for all my ramblings. Once again, I hope these thoughts have been helpful and I hope my questions make you think as well. I do wish you all the best of luck with making this decision. You are certainly not taking Amanda's suggestion lightly which means you do care for the girl, otherwise you would have dismissed it out of hand and not looked back. Again, best of luck and please let us know how it goes. This Amanda girl seems like a really sweet girl by whst you say and you two may end up becoming closer depending on what you decide to do. Best wishes!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: EggHead [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:44:18 10/12/20 Mon I think you've already had a lot of very sound advice, and I'm not sure what I can add to it, but here are my couple of pennies anyway. IMO you should have a good long talk with Amanda and ask her if she is sure, REALLY sure, that she wants you to spank her as an alternative to eviction. If she answers in the affirmative, then make it clear to her that any spanking you give her will not be a light matter. It will hurt a lot. She will be a very sorry young lady by the time you're done with her. Does she really feel it would be worth all that pain, and buckets of tears, to avoid being evicted? Would this spanking be a one-off, or the start of many? Perhaps to test just how willing she is, raise the possibility that she could be spanked again after the first one. Tell her that whenever she breaks your rules, particularly with things like getting drunk or high, you will spank her again. So she's not just making a deal on a one-off spanking to get out of being evicted. She would be agreeing to a new kind of life if she stays on. Again, ask her if she feels it's worth it. And remind her that she is an adult, so she can choose to refuse the spanking and find somewhere else to live. But equally, she can consent to being spanked. This is all about her choices, though she has to live with the consequences of whatever decision she makes. Do you use methods of discipline other than spanking with your daughters? E.g. time-outs, grounding, temporary suspension of privileges, confiscation of phones or some other favourite object? Or what about extra chores? If so, could any of those work with Amanda instead? Maybe raise that as a possible option and see how she feels about it. Perhaps don't make it just a matter of spanking vs. eviction. See how she might feel about other kinds of penalties vs. eviction instead. I don't know exactly what Amanda's motives are for requesting a spanking from you (other than the obvious one of desperation to avoid eviction). There could well be a sexual element to her request. This is why I think you should emphasise to her how unpleasant the spanking will be and how additional spankings could be a possibility. This is not just going to be an experiment to satisfy her curiosity. It's going to be a very unpleasant experience that could be repeated at some stage. However, people's interest in spanking can be quite multi-layered or multi-faceted. Certainly, mine is. I am perfectly happy to acknowledge that I have a sexual interest in it. However, depending on the context, sometimes I find it just plain intellectually stimulating to discuss it (especially when "thrashing out" rights and wrongs of in certain situations). And while the thought of going over a lady's lap for a spanking has immense erotic appeal for me, there is another aspect of spanking that appeals to me in a completely non-sexual way: the thought of being accountable to someone for my actions. The idea of suffering unpleasant consequences for specific bad or wrong choices I make. My mother often spanked me unjustly (if you have read any of my other posts, you'll know what I mean). So if I ever choose to get a discipline-type spanking rather than a "funishment" or play spanking, it would be very important for me that it be truly warranted. Then it would be far less about getting my rocks off and more about a kind of "absolution for sin". Now, Amanda may well have some sort of longing for firm boundaries and accountability in her life. Perhaps her parents are quite permissive. Conversely, they may be really strict, so now she's out on her own, she has been wanting to make the most of her new-found freedoms. But she is starting to learn that being able to do whatever you like isn't all it's cracked up to be. She might be figuring out that having some structure and limits isn't such a bad thing after all. So it may be that on some level, she feels that being spanked will give her that accountability she's been missing. It's entirely possible that she may have a sexual interest, but also genuinely desire a sense of accountability. In other words, multi-faceted motives. In any case though, communication is really, really important in this situation. Make sure that as far as possible, Amanda understands exactly what she is potentially letting herself in for. But also be clear that she does have the option to walk away at any time. Personally, I wouldn't talk to her parents. Amanda is over legal age, so you don't need their permission to spank her. Let Amanda talk to them herself, if she wants to. As an adult, she has to stand on her own two feet. If she is truly committed to getting a spanking from you, that's a call she has to make. It's not for her parents to decide. She has to make her own decisions and then live with the consequences. Anyway, I hope this has been of some help and that you and Amanda will be able to work out a solution that everyone is happy with (even if that solution "ends in tears" for Amanda over your lap!). [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:18:02 10/12/20 Mon Hi! I see that Justin wants my input here. Thank you! As I understand the question it is: ”Can spanking be a deterrant for someone who has fantasies about it?” Yes, it can, would be my answer. My fantasies center around embarrassment, and that doesn’t mean I seek it out. I guess it could be different if your fantasies were mainly about pain? I’m not sure, though, because I guess the fantasies are not always wanted as reality, then either? Don’t throw her out, I’d say. Try to check out what she knows and thinks about spanking first, without directly involving her parents. You could actually direct her here, couldn’t you? As I understand it, no secrets would be un-covered by doing so? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Jojo [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:48:24 10/12/20 Mon I would say spanking her wouldn't be out of the question. As for telling her parents if she is 20 I don't think it would matter. Maybe you could write a contract or waver for you and her to sign saying a spanking punishment in place of eviction for breaking rules with guide lines in it. This way it is between 2 consenting adults. As far as the spanking I would make it effective enough to install good behavior and following rules in a 20yo girl. Not insane or anything but enough to show it isn't a game it is punishment. She sounds like a good young lady for the most part perhaps this is the guidance she needs. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:33:49 10/13/20 Tue An afterthought: How informed is she about how it feels? It is possible to have fantasies about it, but dislike the reality if it intensely. There’s one girl on this forum ( have forgotte her name, unfortunately ) who was suggesting it to her mom, but when her mom finally did it, it was not like her imagination, at all. As you use spanking for punishment, it might not matter, but in this situation Amanda is entitled to an informed choice between eviction and a spanking, don’t you think? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:26:40 10/13/20 Tue I believe that was Karlee who asked her Mom to spank her. Although Danika and her twin sister asked their stepmom to do it rather than be grounded for life. As far as I know both are still getting it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice @Elenora Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:03:11 10/14/20 Wed Eleonora, So how does this fit with your fantasies of humiliation. Getting spanked in a boardinghouse where everyone can hear and the next morning having to have breakfast knowing that everyone hear you cry like a baby the night before? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice @Elenora Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:56 10/20/20 Tue You see nothing wrong with giving me bad dreams? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: More thoughts and perspective for you Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:05:00 10/13/20 Tue Wow...are you overwhelmed with input now Rental Mom? I think you have received some really good input on here. I particularly liked a lot of what EggHead had to say. He had a very balanced view of things and expressed it quite well. It is a big decision and not one to be taken lightly. I truly believe it will change the dynamics of your relationship with this girl if you go through with the spanking. If you do decide to go ahead with it, you should probably already be thinking about next steps. How do you proceed going forward? Should this be a one time thing? Or should there be a very clear understanding that if she is going to continue to live under your roof that farther breaking of the rules will result in another spanking? You relationship with this tenant is very different then the relationship you have with a lot of your other tenants in that she is part of your life. She often eats meals with you, helps with dishes, babysits your daughters; to a large degree she has become a part of the family. I think that is the only reason you are even considering her suggestion of a spanking instead of eviction. If you didn't have a good relationship with a tenant that was breaking all these rules, you would kick them out and never look back. The very fact that you are even considering actually doing this, something you have maybe thought about doing to other tenants or employees but would likely never actually do to them as much as you might want to. EggHead is right though, it has to be her decision, so communication is key here. Have a very honst talk with her giving the option of a spanking or eviction. At the end of the day you are giving her a choice and she still has the option to walk away and back out. And one last thing, I wanted to offer you a perspective of one of the girls on here that didn't start getting spanked until about 2 months ago at the age of 23. Things kept coming to a head between her and her mother and they were often fighting about her attitude, chores not being done, etc. Finally her mother, after talking to a friend of hers that advised her of the benefits of spanking her adult daughter, decided she would try it as well. And when it came time Victoria (that is the girls name) flat out refused tl be spanked, so her mother told her she could start packing her bags and find another place to live. Victoria reluctantly agreed to take a spanking and things have been very different in her home ever since. She is very open to admit that she deserves to be spanked at times, although she does find it terribly embarrassing and very painful. I even asked her how her relationship is with her parents now that she is getting spanked by them compared to when she wasn't and she admitted that things are actually better between them. So yes, spanking can absolutely be effective for older teens and even young adults. I will share the link to Victoria's first thread with you here and let you read it if you wish. I think you may find it insightful. https://www.voy.com/243310/36779.html Hope this continues to be helpful and will help you reach a decision soon!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: And now...The How Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:55:21 10/13/20 Tue I know how to spank my daughters, they are my own girls and not adult size (yet), but how would someone spank someone who is not related and is adult size? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Position? Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:01:06 10/13/20 Tue Have you talked to her about your decision yet? It sounds like you are going to give it a try. As far as the how; well for position I would definitely say over the knee. This position has a lot of advantages to it as it allows you control and the ability to stop her from struggling too much. Whatever position you spank her in it is most certainly going to be embarrassing for her, but at least she doesn't have to worry about staying in position if she is over your knee. If she is bent over or touching her toes it might be more difficult for her to stay in position. On a practical level, if you are worried about the weight of a 20 year old girl on you, then maybe sit on the bed or a sofa for the spanking instead of a chair, this way her full weight won't be on you and you can both be more comfortable, well as comfortable as possible for a spanking. As far as severity, this is your discretion. I think as severe as it needs to be to really get the message across, but certainly not brutal, this is punishment after all, not a beating. You have daughters of your own that you spank, so I trust that you will not go overboard. I guess, I would ask you to treat her as you would if you had a daughter her age that was doing these kind of things. I think you need to make sure you make this lesson memorable. Pick a time and a place you are going to make this happen and then you follow through with it. If this is the direction that both you and Amanda have chosen to go, then you need to make it happen and soon!! The sooner you get it over with the sooner the both of you will be able to put it behind you and move on with your lives. Again, wishing you all the best!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: And now...The How Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:24:45 10/13/20 Tue Have her lay down over the bottom of the bed over some pillows and use a belt. And I would say bare bottom. Have you asked her if she has been spanked before. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Clothed or Bare Bottom Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:36 10/13/20 Tue The other question you are probably wondering about is clothed or bare bottom? Do you allow her pants or even just panties to respect her modesty or do you bare her bottom for the spanking? That is a tough question. On one hand, she is not one of your daughters and so maybe it is a bit awkward for both of you to spank her bare bottom. There are however some advantages to spanking bare bottom as it allows you to more accurately gage how much pain you are inflicting by the color. Also, this has to be memorable and something she never wants to have happen again. Plus you are making the rules to how this goes down. Explain to her exactly how you intend to spank her and then give her the option to still back out and walk away with no hard feelings. Best of luck!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: An Interesting Development Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:07:22 10/13/20 Tue I admit I sometimes act a little mom-like at times with my tenants and I'm not sure I realized it until now, but I especially act mom-like with Amanda. I do check up on their studies and give a little nudge when needed. I decided to test the waters with Amanda and act real mom-like. I went into her room and caught her texting away on her bed. I asked her if she had any homework to do. She said she had to write an essay which when pressed is due tomorrow. Here's a summary of the conversation. "Is that what you're doing now?" "Well, um...no." "How close are you to finishing it?" Well, actually I haven't actually started it." Don't you think you had better get started on it?" Her desk was a mess, so I started to straighten a place at her laptop. And what do you think I uncover? Right there under a notebook next to her laptop is a joint. I could have turned her over my knees right then and there, regardless of whose daughter she is and turned her butt black and blue. She tried to tell me she found it and was going to throw it away. She finally admitted it was hers. "What if the girls had come in here and found it?" I think that struck a chord with her. I told her to flush it down the toilet right now. I sat down with her and reminded her about our conversation and the alternative she came up with. I asked her what happens to the girls when they misbehave and what she proposed I do instead of evicting her. I made her say it clearly. I wanted to hear her say the word 'spanking' from her own mouth so we would both be clear what the consequences would be and that she is the one who suggested it. I moved the chair out and told her to sit her butt down and get that essay finished, then write a very clear proposal of her misdeeds and what she accepted to be the consequences as an alternative to eviction. We would both look it over and discuss it. I told her that she had a lot of misbehaviors to make up for that I have let slide and it would not be a few pats on the bottom, but it would be just as I give the girls and I made her say "on bare bottom" and it would be adult size. She asked for a 'huggie' so I hugged her very mom-like and told her that we both need some time to think about it. Then I pointed to the seat of the chair and told her to get busy. Well, it's out in the open now. I'm still not fully decided on this, but I feel like I've just adopted a daughter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: An Interesting Development Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:16:21 10/13/20 Tue Wowwie...that is quite the development indeed!! She sounds like someone that could really use some accountability in her life. Someone that isn't afraid to ask her the tough questions and help keep her on the straight and narrow. I wonder if she did drugs a bit at home or if she is only doing it now since she is no longer living at home. You are right to be very angry that she would just leave a joint out in the open like that. Good for you for having the self control not to just turn her over your knees and spank her very hard. That must've taken a lot of self control. I hope you do adopt this girl as a sort of surrogate daughter. I know this will change your relationship greatly but is that such a bad thing. She was already more then just a tenant to you, this is just taking it to the next level. I will be very interested to hear what kind of proposal she comes up with for you. Long term, I think she will be grateful that you are giving her this opportunity and considering her a part of your family that you would even consider this alternative to eviction. There needs to be more people like you in the world!! Super Moms we call them, that's what my mom is and I love her dearly. Thanks for keeping us up to date with the new developments!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: An Interesting Development Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:12:13 10/13/20 Tue is there much of a size difference between you two? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: An Interesting Development Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:02:29 10/14/20 Wed Do you think she left the marijuana there knowing you would find it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: An Interesting Development Author: Rental Mom (Mom) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:30:40 10/14/20 Wed No, I don't think so. She would have had no way of knowing I was going to come into her room and move her stuff around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:39:04 10/14/20 Wed I read this forum frequently and find it very interesting. I don't post that frequently(Maddie will attest to that), only if I feel that I can contribute productively. I am 67 years old and raised 2 daughters with spanking until they graduated high school, so I know a little about the subject. Full disclosure......I have often fantasized about having a female college student boarder who admits she needs "Maternal guidance." That being said, I would not hesitate to spank her. She asked for it and you have set the ground work Rental Mom. As long as she understands that you're going to spank her like you spank your own daughters.......over your knee on her bare bottom until she is a blubbering mess. Believe me, it won't be much different holding a 20 year old across your lap than it is holding a 12 year old. In my opinion, once you administer that first spanking, she will become a member of the family and be subject to your discipline whenever she deserves it. It will also send a clear message to your own daughters that they will never be too old for a spanking. Good luck and keep us posted. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Louise (V) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:03 10/14/20 Wed Excellent advice Fran. Except I'd allow her to keep her panties up, at least the first time. Would you use your hand or an implement? How many would you give her? How hard did you spank your daughters when they were of high school age? How often did they earn one? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom (Mom) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:50:03 10/14/20 Wed If I do not evict her and I do give her a spanking it will be a paddling she wont forget. She suggested it. She has heard the spankings I give to my daughters and she knows I mean business. I'm glad you mentioned aqbout my daughters. I plan to tell them ahead of time that I am going to discipline Amanda and they will understand why, so they are not shocked or surprised or see me as a monster when I do. It will reinforce the idea that bad behavior and breaking rules has consequences whether you're a little girl or a big, cool college girl. And Louise, it will be, at least partially on her bare bottom. I intend to use the same hairbrush I use on my older two. Judging from the proposal she presented me last night and the discussion we had, Amanda understands full well what is at stake here. She does not want to be evicted and she does understand that in lieu of that she will get a very determined spanking, much like she knows I give my daughters, but adult size. She knows that it will end when I say it ends. Once she goes over my knees there is no backing out. Further disciplinary sessions if needed are yet to be determined. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:55:16 10/14/20 Wed So it sounds like you are going ahead with the plan to discipline Amanda. I think this will be very good for her and have a very positive effect on her going forward. When do you plan to administer this punishment? Probably the sooner the better so that you can put it behind you. I really do hope this helps Amanda and that she starts improving her behavior as a result!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Karin_ven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:13:16 10/14/20 Wed Sounds like you made your decision on the fact your going to spank her. Did you ask her if she was spanked before ? From experiance getting spanked for the first time at 17, I had no idea that it would hurt so much. And like Amanda I had heard spankings been given. I thought it would be okay and not the end off the world. But actually getting it that first time, was a shock for me. Iam not saying not to spank her, I think she deserves it. But prepare her a little. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: To Karin_ven Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:54:30 10/14/20 Wed Hi Katin_ven, I don't believe I know too much about your situation. How old are you now. You only started getting spanked at 17. What brought that about? I was spanked as a kid and never found it fun and really didn't like it. That took place until I was about 14, I am 36 years old now. About 4 years ago I contacted a dominatrix because I wanted to experience a spanking again. I am much more of a voyeur when it comes to spanking and prefer to just read about spankings given to girls and didn't really want to be spanked, however I got the urge to take this interest to the next level. I was convinced I wanted to be spanked again, so I met with a dominatrix and got an over the knee hand spanking and a few with a hairbrush. I am sure it was by no means a hard disciplinary spanking, but I have to admit, I still found the whole experience painful and not at all exciting at all. I decided I didn't like being spanked as it was just painful and a lot more painful then I expected. I will tell the whole story on here sometime. All this to say, I agree with you that Amanda may not be prepared for how much a spanking actually hurts. Hearing a spanking and being spanked are two completely different things, so only time will tell how well she takes it. For myself, I decided I don't want to really be spanked for fun, because I didn't find it fun at all. But I strangely still do crave it, more as discipline to help me change unwanted attitudes and behaviors in my life...does that make any sense? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Karin_ven Author: EggHead to Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:12:13 10/14/20 Wed Sorry if this is kind of hijacking Rental Mom's thread, but I wanted to share a couple of quick thoughts on Justin's personal experience of spanking and desires for it. Justin, while you and I are a lot alike, there is one key difference in our spanking fetishes. You get off primarily on seeing or reading about other people (and in particular young women) being spanked. My fantasies on the other hand revolve very heavily around being on the receiving end of a spanking. My fetish has a decidedly submissive or masochistic focus. Yours doesn't have that. As you say yourself, it's more voyeuristic. (I do enjoy spanking pictures or videos too, but only when a woman is the spanker, and I tend to imagine myself in the spankee's position. So I'm getting a rather different type of thrill to what you do.) Ergo, it's not really a surprise to me that you didn't enjoy the experience you had with your dominatrix. It's not actually your thing. That said, it's also possible the dominatrix wasn't very good. There is a kind of "art" to spanking when it's being done for erotic purposes. I'm no expert, but from what I have read, a really good spanking that will give the spankee the right kind of thrills is one that starts fairly gently and gradually ramps up in intensity. So if your dominatrix was just spanking you hard from the get-go, she wasn't doing it right. (Unless of course, that's what you asked her to do.) Some dommes are simply not that skilled in their art. Others may be just plain sadistic and not actually care too much about their "subs". Certainly, if and when the time comes for me to get spanked, I would want it to be a bit "stop-start". A few light smacks to begin with, then a pause for some "lecturing" (or just to "check in" with me), then a sequence of slightly harder smacks, then another pause (involving lecturing, bottom massage, maybe some light pats), then another set of even harder smacks, and so on in the same pattern until either I or the lady spanking me calls time on it. I think in that way, I would be far more likely to enjoy the experience than if she just started walloping me hard from the outset (though once I'm past the first experience, I'll probably experiment with a few different types of spankings, including hard and fast, to see what works best for me). With spanking as with anything, you've got to learn to walk before you can run. That's why I want my first spanking as an adult, whenever I may get it, to be along the lines described above. Getting a hard walloping first time up is like trying to fly a plane without having had any training - you're almost certainly going to crash and burn. Again though, getting spanked is not a thing for you the way it is for me, Justin. As for your craving to be spanked in future, I think what you crave primarily is just accountability. You want some firm boundaries and consequences if you violate them. Spanking could give you that. But so could other things. Really, any other type of punishment that parents mete out to children could probably work. (That is also why, incidentally, I suggested to Rental Mom that she raise the possibility of other types of punishments with Amanda, if the latter's main desire is for simple accountability.) I think you could easily enjoy your spanking fetish AND have accountability in your life without actually being spanked yourself. That said, spanking could sort of help you in the sense that you don't get off on being spanked the way I do. But if you do want to go that route, seek a dominatrix or professional disciplinarian and not your parents. One last thing: have you ever come across a blog called Alex in Spankingland? I happened on it a few days ago, and I think it would be right up your alley. Alex is a professional spanking model. You have probably seen her in spanking videos you've watched. She mainly enjoys being spanked, but also likes giving them now and again. So she's pretty much a "switch". Alex is a very articulate young woman with a lot of very interesting observations. I especially enjoyed her account of her very first spanking, even though it was M/F (I like F/M or F/F). She writes a most fascinating account about her reservations before being spanked and the various sensations and emotions she felt during it. The man who gave her that spanking clearly did it right, because she has made a lifestyle and career out of spanking ever since! Anyway, if you haven't read it before, do check it out when you have some time. I hope I haven't been too forward with this and that these observations will be helpful to you. And now, back to our regularly scheduled thread. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Karin_ven Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:22:23 10/14/20 Wed I'm interested in hearing that dominatrix story. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:02:04 10/14/20 Wed We haven't really gotten into her spanking history. We will talk about it at some point. We have discussed what she can expect and she has heard and perhaps even seen the girls get spanked and Amanda understands what adult size means. She knows that when I do give her a spanking she wont be saying "Well, that wasn't so bad". She understands that she is not gtoing to want another. I believe she is, as you say well prepared. Kerin, I've read a lot of stuff on here in a very short time, but I believe you were in a very similar situation. Something I recall about a spanking apron. Intriguing. When you got your first spanking from your landlady, did she prepare you, did you know in advance of the inevitability, did she spank you bare, who pulled down the trousers? Or was it a spur of the moment complete surprise to you? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Karin_ven to Rental Mom and Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:00:10 10/15/20 Thu You are right the situation was simulacra. She didn’t prepare me and I knew what a spanking was. But feeling it or hearing it is differend. Yes she had a ritual with a apron and she bared me during the scolding standing in front of her. I had no problem with that, I knew spankings where given on the bare bottom for several reasons. Unlike some I didn’t feel embarrassed, she was a mom and a women so she had seen nude gorls before. Getting the spanking was much more painful that I had imagend. I cried my eyes out and I definitely never wantet another. So in that way it worked perfect, later I did everything to a boil another trip over the knee. Justin, I don’t really get your reaction on my we never spoke before, so perhaps you can explaine a little more. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:58:40 10/16/20 Fri Hi Miss Fran. Good to hear from you again. I'm sorry, I don't remember a lot about our conversations, but I know on a few occasions you reprimanded me, told me off and put me in my place. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:32:05 10/14/20 Wed I don't know if Amanda suggested it because she is curious and 'wants' a spanking. Maybe the thought turns her on. I don't know. I didn't just fly in from Tinbukto, I know such fetishes exist. I think it relies on she knows how I discipline my daughters, she knows that it's effective, she knows she is never going to find the kind of deal she gets here (practically nothing in rent, meals if she wants and a family atmosphere) and I'm quite certain she does not want her parents to know of some of the things she's been up to and now she's without a residence. I don't know what her parents would do about it and I don't know a lot about her family situation, but it's still not something you want to face your parents with. To be true, I wish I had four Amandas living upstairs. She helps out, babysits, the girls worship her, she interacts with the family, is usually bubbly and positive, I have grown to see her as if not a daughter, a niece or little sister. She does what 20 year olds do. She sometimes parties, drinks, smokes dope, gets loud, smokes cigarettes, but I don't think it's a habit, she procrastinates, especially with her schoolwork, she sometimes has an attitude. I'm sure all my other renters, past and present have done all of that as well. All of that is fine, but not in my house and not around my girls. What seperates her from others is she has made herself part of the family. The girls worship her. She has a great deal of influence on them and not only might they thinks those things are okay, they might be heartbroken to find out that she can be a bad girl. Most of the other tenants have done all of that but are a little more discrete about it and although my girls admire most of the young ladies who have been in and out, none have been as visible and as atached as Amanda. There is a part of me that is like "Well, she's just a 20 year old being a 20 year old" and overlook those behaviors, but I've overlooked them many times in the past year plus and it's taking a toll. What pisses me off more than anything is after our discussion, after threatening eviction and her suggestion, you would think she would be on her very best behavior, not leaving a joint under a notebook on her dresser. My girls are very respectful of our renters privacy, but they do hang out with Amanda and she is, not always, but usually tolerant of them and lets them hang out in her room. What would happen if one of them moved that notebook. Girl, what are you thinking?! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:11:24 10/14/20 Wed Hi Again Rental Mom, Your message is entitled having second thoughts, but nothing from what you say sounds like you are having second thoughts. At the end of the day you know you only have 2 choices, you either stick to your guns and kick her out, or you allow her to stay with the expectation that she is going to receive a very memorable spanking she will not soon forget. I can almost guarantee that a hard spanking given out of love and concern for Amanda, not to mention punishing her for all the rules she has broken will get through to her. Unless this girl is secretly a Spanking Model and you don't know about it (which is so unlikely it isn't even funny) then she will not enjoy being spanked one little bit. It will probably be far more painful then she realizes. Maybe she was spanked at home, but even then it has probably been a while and it is easy to forget just how much a spanking hurts until it is happening. Do you normally lecture and scold while you are spanking? Perhaps during the spanking you can extract some promises to never repeat some of these bad behaviors again, especially the ones you are extra concerned your daughters may emulate. If you do go through with this, I think you need to make things clear going forward that these behaviors will no longer be tolerated. Tell her your daughters look up to her as a kind of role model and you don't want them emulating her bad behavior. Tell her you care about her enough to discipline her not only this time but going forward as well. Yes, I will say it, she should know that you are not above spanking her again if needed. Hopefully you don't have to or if you do, hopefully not too often, but she sounds like a girl who needs some discipline in her life. A sweet friendly, kind girl for sure, but one that has been getting away with a bit too much for her own good. Yes, she is 20 years old and sometimes you need to be able to make your own mistakes, but you do have to think about your daughters as well and what her influence might do to them. If you do decide to proceed with the spanking and letting her continue to live with you, then you need to make clear how things are going to proceed moving forward. I really don't think you want to evict this girl, but if she is going to stay with you, the promise of future spankings may help curb some of her bad behavior, but you have to be ready to follow through. Continuing to look forward to seeing how this situation plays out. Best of luck!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:01:15 10/15/20 Thu Justin, what I mean about having second thoughts is, it's one thing to be so mad at someone you could beat their behind, you may sometimes see bad behavior from random teenagers and think "That girl needs her ass beat!" and being a mother and a single parent at that it's like a duty to spank your kids. It's not how I had originally invisioned parenting, and it may not be the best way, but with all things considered it works and is really the only logical option. But Amanda is not my daughter. Although we've become close and she's become in a way one of the family, she is just a renter. And she really is such a sweet likeable girl, lovable actually. The thought of paddling her butt until she can't sit down, which is what I intend to do is in one way appealing because she has certainly earned it, but it's not all that easy to hurt someone you're fond of. As I said before, she's really only doing what 20 year olds do. I'm pretty sure renters past and present have done them too and that's all good, just not in my house and not around my daughters. I'm sure the two other girls currently upstairs party and all the rest. Not sure about the one, she's an athlete and pretty health conscious but she may. The others don't ignore my girls, but they aren't as active with them as Amanda. My daughters like the other girls and perhaps admire them, but they idolize Amanda and she is a big influence on them. I'm sure that Amanda has been high or a little loopy when hanging with the girls or at dinner. The older two are 11 and 9 and although they're not exposed to a lot of that, even at that age they pick up on things. There's not a lot that gets past kids these days. One other concern I have is exactly what are MY motives. Regardless of whether Amanda has a desire to be spanked or she just sees it as a way out of eviction, I have to wonder what my own motives are being agreeable to this. I tell myself that it's her own suggestion, it seems a logical alternative, but lets face it, whether you are bi, gay or straight, male or female, have a fetish or not, the thought of having a cute bare bottom across your knees (who isn't related) to give a good spanking to is hard to pass up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:01:51 10/16/20 Fri It's amazing what kids know these days. I see it (or used to) at school all the time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:54:13 10/15/20 Thu I think she really wants to get spanked. I have had a spanking fetish all of my life and when I was about twenty I really wanted to get spanked. I didn't want to like it I wanted to know what it is was like. If I was boarding with you and occasionally heard your daughters get it I would be going crazy. Being spanked with kids hearing or other boarders hearing would not be optimal but sometimes you take what you can get. My concern is your other boarders. You should tell them that you have given Amanda three choices. behave, get booted out or get spanked when she doesn't behave. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Having Second Thoughts Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:26:36 10/15/20 Thu Thank you Bodack. Although the other renters aren't strangers, I'm not as close with them as I am with Amanda. If they happen to be there and aren't in their own world in headphones or earplugs in this house they will hear it. Spankings are loud and there's nothing you can do about it. they have all heard me spanking my daughters. If they wish to ask questions I'll be diplomatic, but I'm not going to tell them ahead of time. Maybe Amanda has a spanking fetish, I don't know, but I think it's more that she's looking for an alternative to eviction. She doesn't seem real thrilled about getting spanked. Either way, if she does I'm determined to spank the fetish out of her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:31:44 10/14/20 Wed Spankings at 20 are no fun, not real ones, but I feel they do a lot of good. You learn that what you did is unacceptable but it clears the air and for days or maybe even weeks you feel I guess you would say cleansed. I mean I just feel like after I get a spanking for days or even weeks after all my perspectives are clearer. I guess not everybody feels that way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:03:00 10/15/20 Thu I think you should stop beating around the bush and just give her the sound bare bottom spanking that she needs, wants and deserves. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:48:51 10/15/20 Thu In a way I really kinda envy this girl. No, not in a way, I DO envy this girl. The almost two years I was away at college I wished I had someone like Rent Mom or Fran or Karin or Louise kinda keep me in line and like protect me. I don't know if I'd really want a spanking, maybe, but I did miss my mom and sisters and the whole dynamics. I also knew at home if I got too far out of line I'd get it. That's actually kinda comforting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:29:39 10/15/20 Thu Don't worry Fran, I wont back out. How many last chances, I don't know, but this is the last. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:49:58 10/15/20 Thu And I did also miss my little sisters terribly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Consejo Author: Pau Spain [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:02:16 10/15/20 Thu Hi. Let me give you some tips. First of all, I think it's interesting that Amanda writes a kind of contract, in which she reflects on why she is going to be punished, and the acceptance, with her signature and consent. As she thinks she wants to play ... let's play seriously. Psychology is a very important factor in my opinion, so it would be nice if you remind him of his bad behavior, or that he will be punished, at the time of punishment, I think you should order him to wait for you in his room, or to the place of punishment, face the wall, with your hands on your head, until you arrive, which logically will be in about 10 minutes, so that she gets a little nervous. When you arrive, you will remind him why he is in that situation, and you will sign the contract and consent. A child is usually punished quickly and effectively, in this case, I think it would be appropriate to start gently, with the hand, with her dressed, and gradually increase the intensity, order him to take off pants, and continue with a good and hard spanking with his hand on her bare ass. To continue, you send her to the corner, so that she can rest and prepare for the second part, which will be with the brush (I think you said), I suggest 5 batches of one minute each, but they must be effective spanking, with a little break and conference between spankings. If he cries, you don't have to stop. At the end, you send her 10 or 15 more minutes to the corner, forbidden to touch her ass to relieve the pain, in which case, you go back to spanking her a little more. When the corner time passes, it is time for the aftercare. It is just an opinion and some advice. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Consejo Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:47 10/15/20 Thu The hairbrush on her bare bottom for one full minute done 5 times??!! Owie!! And thats after two thorough hand spankings (one clothed, one bare)??!! I mean, that might be something like I get and I still can't sit down the next day, but remember this only her first spanking, maybe ever. I think corner time and putting her hands on her head and all that might be a little much. I mean remember she's only a renter and it's not a spanking video. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Consejo Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:33:27 10/15/20 Thu Thank you Pau Spain. I doubt that it will be as theatrical as all that, but it will be a punishment and it will get the point across. Teresa, sometimes first spankings need to be worst spankings. Hopefully there wont be a need for a second. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:08:58 10/15/20 Thu This being a town centered around a university there are student rentals, homes converted into student housing, boarding rooms like mine, of course I know other women (and men) who own or manage these housings, many of whom are no nonsense and don't want their properties destroyed or a reputation of being frequented by law enforcement, I am quite certain that I would not be the only rental mom who has given a tenant a spanking. What are your thoughts? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:06:05 10/15/20 Thu If this were the sixties I would agree with you. I have my doubts about it happening today. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Paddle Packin' Mama [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:44:55 10/15/20 Thu If you think I'm going to allow college students to destroy my properties, make them a cop circus and act like a bunch of lunatics with my name attached to it you would be mistaken. I don't care if it's 1960, 1970, 1980 or 2020. I guarantee you, I'm not the only property owner who will not let that happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:13:14 10/16/20 Fri Good for you. Since they are at school they ought to learn a lesson. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: pau Spain [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:45:40 10/15/20 Thu would you do the same with a boy? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:52:17 10/15/20 Thu I think alot probably happens behind closed doors then we may realize, including college age kids being spanked by Renters. Before I came on here, I would never have believed the number of college age girls still getting spanked. It has only been with the time of being on here and chatting with real girls that still get spanked as adults that I nkw believe it does still happen today. Agree or disagree with it, you can't argue with results and even a lot of these girls would agree. I think a lot more college age kids still get spanked then we probably realize. It is a very strange world we live in. On one hand, it seems to be a society now largely opposed to spanking and yet what I read on here is that there are many parents still very much in favor of it, which I personally don't feel is such a bad thing. As you said yourself, how many times have many of us seen a bratty kid in a department store and thought "that kid needs a good hard spanking"? Alot I am sure. I don't personally have kids and don't know how I would feel about them if I did. I am not opposed to it, but I don't think I would get any pleasure out of doing it. As far as your own concern that you might enjoy to some degree spanking Amanda, I find this very interesting. You don't sound like someone who identifies as having a spanking fetish and yet you are concerned you might enjoy spanking Amanda. Perhaps a legitimate concern, however I would only be worried if you think you will go overboard with her punishment. I don't think you will go overboard and ultimately I still believe you still have Amanda's best interests at heart, which is what I think matters most. It is not like you are going to go around inventing reasons to spank this girl whenever you feel like. If you are hesitant to spank her this time, you aren't going to be eager to do it again. I had to laugh a little when you made the comment about spanking the fetish right out of her, if she does indeed have one. I don't think it works that way to be honest. Maybe if she is only a bit curious of what a spanking is actually like, then you can very quickly cure her of that. But if she is someone with a lifelong spanking fetish and identifies as a spanko, then I don't think you can spank the fetish out of her. But then again, I think it is highly unlikely that she has a spanking fetish at all. I think you are probably right, that the reality of a spanking probably frightens her a little bit and it should. Unless you are a spanking model, then the reality of a disciplinary spanking probably seems pretty unpleasant. Take it from the spanked girls on here like Victoria for instance (and thanks again for sharing your story Victoria) that openly admit to hating being spanked. I highly doubt this girl is going to enjoy being spanked. And as far as you are concerned, I wouldn't be overly concerned that you might enjoy spanking Amanda. You care about her too much to let that shape your decision making regarding her discipline. Besides a sense of satisfaction that you are in a way helping her to see her behavior as wrong is not really a bad thing. I have to trust you are going to do right by Amanda!! By the way, what kind of timeframe are we looking at here? How much longer did you give Amanda before you will make a decision? I hope you don't make her wait too much longer. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:20:34 10/16/20 Fri Thank you Justin. What I mean by spanking the fetish out of her is, if she thinks she's curious about what it feels like or she thinks she's going get enjoyment out of it she will change her mind very quickly. She may still have a fetish after I'm done with her but unless she's a straight up masochist she will find no pleasure. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:28:18 10/15/20 Thu I agree with bodack, i have my doubts for now a days, but it makes me wonder if there are any rental spanking moms in my area. I should be so lucky to actually find one! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: P.S. Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:53:30 10/16/20 Fri On my walks I go slowly and linger around the rentals to try to hear a spanking from the house. One day I will. I'm sure it happens. I KNOW it does, but my situation is a little different. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:39:11 10/16/20 Fri As I was winding down last night, work put away, lights dim enjoying a glass of wine Amanda sheepishly approached and sat down on the couch next to me. In almost a little girl voice she told me she's been really good and trying to change her habbits, promising to stay on the straight and narrow "So, this is just going to happen if I really mess up again, right?" "No sweetheart, this is going to happen." "But I've been really good. Can I please have a second chance?" "Sweetie, how many second chances do you get? How many second chances are we up to, a hundred already?" "But..." "It's an either or situation and don't forget, you are the one who suggested it." "So, there's nothing I can do?" "Yes there is. Maybe a damn good spanking will teach you to behave yourself, or at least do it more discretely." So, it's going to happen, probably this weekend. I don't want to set a date and time and I want to be calm and have a clear head when I do. I will try to pick a time with the least chance of embarrassment for her, but if the other renters happen to be there, so be it. If I try to find a time when it's just the two of us, it will never happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:07:38 10/16/20 Fri Wow!! Doesn't sound like someone that is looking forward to being spanked to me. Maybe she is having second thoughts and is afraid you are really going to spank her very hard. I would say that is all the proof that you need that this will be effective. At most Amanda might have a mild curiosity of what an actual spanking is like, but is now concerned that the reality may be more then she can handle. Just by the dialogue you have shared here, she does seem like a very sweet and dare I say it likeable young woman. Well, best of luck!! I hope this ultimately brings the two of you closer together. Please let us know how it goes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:41:02 10/18/20 Sun Makes it even harder to just get it over with. I'm getting myself in the proper frame of mind. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:52:51 10/18/20 Sun But look at it this way, if you gave her 30 days you'd have 30 days to back out. This way you just go in and paddle her butt and it's done with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:48:57 10/17/20 Sat Sorry, but I can't wait until she gets spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:34 10/18/20 Sun To be true, I can't either but probably not in the same way as you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:15:34 10/18/20 Sun Has it happened yet?! When?! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:37:52 10/18/20 Sun Very soon I suspect. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:53:42 10/18/20 Sun I hope we'll get a full detailed report. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:56:20 10/18/20 Sun Can I give you a tip? Pull her pants down first, let her stand there a minute, then pull her undies down. The drama of it makes a greater impression, trust me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:40:47 10/18/20 Sun The waiting to find out what happened is torture. I can't imagine what it's like for her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:50:52 10/18/20 Sun It's done. I'll have a report later. right now, put the kids to bed and have a glass of wine. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:59:51 10/18/20 Sun I look forward to that report! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:54:08 10/18/20 Sun Wishing you all the best Rental Mom!! Don't forget hugs afterwards, I think that is really important and considering how scared I am sure Amanda is, it will show her how much you care, but that comes after the hard spanking you are going to give her. I am sure you are just looking forward to getting it over with in a lot of ways. It will hopefully be a real turning point with your relationship with Amanda!! Again, best of luck!! I too look forward to how this plays out, not just the spanking part, but also how this will strengthen your relationship with Amanda. At the very least she will have a newfound respect for you and your discipline methods. Keep us posted please!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Report? Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:05:28 10/19/20 Mon Hey Rental Mom, Just wondering when we are going to get that report from you. I think we are all wondering how it went. I am also wondering what is the mood in the house today? Does it seem like you will be able put this behind you now and move forward? At least it is over with, that has to be a relief to both you and Amanda. Hope we get that report soon!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Report? Author: EggHead [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:32:43 10/19/20 Mon Thank you from me also for that report, Rental Mom. I have to admit, the way you spanked Amanda was kind of similar to how I myself would like to be spanked someday (albeit in a context of adult play). The only thing I wouldn't want is the hairbrush at the end! But otherwise, the quiet lecturing beforehand, the warm-up spanks through clothes, then the baring with more lecturing, hand spanks on the bare, more rubbing and lecturing, then more spanks (with hand and hairbrush), and the cuddling at the end, matches my "ideal spanking" almost to a T. I suspect that a lot of Amanda's discomfort would have been caused by the hairbrush. Although a hand, when used long and hard enough, can certainly cause a fair bit of discomfort on its own! I'm glad you stopped when you felt like you were going too far. It appears that she has learned the desired lesson and that the bond between the two of you has got closer. Hopefully her behaviour will be much improved from now on. It's also rather interesting how her spanking has affected your other guests! I guess they might be thinking that if you could spank Amanda, you could spank them. Your daughters' reaction was rather interesting too. I suppose they care quite a lot about Amanda and were feeling sorry for her, so maybe that's why they briefly treated you like Public Enemy No. 1. So will this be a one-off, or could it become a more regular thing? I suppose this is something you'll have to work out with Amanda in the coming days. Hopefully the spanking will lead to significant reform in her behaviour, especially around your daughters. But what if she starts slipping and setting them a bad example again? Hmm. Anyway, many thanks again for that report, and here's hoping for some good improvements in Amanda's conduct for a while. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:33:47 10/19/20 Mon All day Sunday I kept telling myself that today was the day. I don't want to say that I was psyching myself up for it, but I kept telling myself that I had to do it or it will never be done, she deserved it, she asked for it, she suggested it. It's one thing to say "Sure, I'll beat your butt in exchange for not evicting you" but it's another thing to actually do it. Especially when they are so sweet as Amanda. I didn't set a time, I just wanted to do it when I felt the time was right. At about 3:00 I decided it was time to get it over with. I grabbed my spanking hairbrush, went down and told the girls that I had to take care of something with Amanda. I had hoped to choose a time when most likely the other renters weren't home. I didn't do a room check, it didn't really matter, if they hear it they hear it and in this old house whether your on the first or second floor you're going to hear it. As a side mention, doors are usually open here. It's not a rule, but I just like to have an open door policy. I went into Amanda's room. She was texting or playing games or whatever on her bed. I didn't bother to close the door, tapped my spanking hairbrush and told her it was time. "Now?!" If not now, when?" "Can't it wait another time?" "Sweetie, we've been waiting for months. Lets get this over with." But, but, but." I sat on the bed. I had her stand in front of me and held her hands. The poor thing looked scared and in denial. So was I actually. I told her how the girls love her and that I think the world of her, told her all of her good points and then went over a laundry list of how we got to this point. We had a long talk, patly because it needed to be done and partly to hold of the inevitable. I had her restate that she is the one who suggested the spanking and that this spanking would be done my way and that it will not be over until I decide it is and had her restate that she agreed to this and that once it starts it wont stop until I am done. Then I carefully positioned her over my knees. It was quite different than spanking my daughters. I gave her a slap on her butt. "Ow." I think the sting of a real slap on her bottom surprised her. I gave her a couple more slaps on her bottom. "Ow, that actually hurts." I think I was getting through to her. I started getting my confidence, lecturing at times until I started really whaling my hand on her bottom. I could tell it was getting real for her too. I gave her a little break and rubbed before wholloping her bottom with my good old hairbrush. Even with her jeans on I think this was really getting through to her. I gave her another break with rubbing and lecturing before standing her in front of me. She put up quite a fuss when I unbottoned her jeans and really made a fuss when I started to pull her panties down, taking the tip on here. I think you're right. That method seems very effecrtive. She really was surprised when my hand came down on her bare bottom. I felt like her mother as I went to town on her bare bottom seeing it turn redder and redder getting warmer to the touch. I don't think she was as of yet full out crying, but she was making quite a fuss. I let her rub and rubbed her myself. We talked, I lectured. She was very contrite at this time. Boy did she jump when I smacked her bottom with the hairbrush. I feel like I might have lost it at this point because I was lecturing her and making myself mad while whollopping her but with the hairbrush and and she was begging and promising and crying her eyes out. I had to get control of myself. I put her in my lap. The poor little thing had snot and tears all over her face and I held her and cradled her just as if she were my own. I think maybe I went a little too far. I felt bad about myself but I felt such a I guess you'd say motherly feeling toward her. I told her that she was welcome to come down to dinner when she was ready. I was making her favorite lasagna. It just so happened that everyone was there at the time. The girls looked at me like I was the most horrible monster in the world. The 9 year old with her arms folded said "Did you spank Amanda?" I felt like the most hated person in town. I started to prepare to make the lasagna when one of the renters came down. She's a very private girl, so she doesn't make herself known too often, but she does play and talk with the girls and occasionally opens up and her mouth doesn't stop. "Is...is there anything I can do to help?" "How are you at chopping onions?" "Pretty good." So I had her start to dice an onion. She started telling me what a good student she is, she doesn't smike or drink or use drugs or do anything bad. She made herself out to be quite an angel. She may be an angel but she is no cook, so she suggested she play with the girls and went off to play a board game with them. The athlete came down, who is really independant and asked if she could have dinner with us. well of course everyone is welcome to have dinner with us. It turns out she has as much talent cutting onions and green peppers as she does with a soccer ball. As we were all at the dinner table Amanda sheepishly came down and the room went silent. All eyes were on her. As she carefully lowered onto the chair she whenced when her bottom hit the seat. I and others tried to make small talk. My youngest in her innosense said "She really got it." which got her an elbow from the oldest. It was kind of a tense dinner, but we did manage to hyave several conversations. I want to thank everyone for their advice and conversation. I wont be a stranger. This is a good group. I'm sure there will be further developments. If you have any questions I will try my best to answer. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:58 10/19/20 Mon Omg you left the door open! Being a tenant i would be very grateful to listen in but being Amanda i would have died of embarrassment! You think the other tenants think you might start spanking them? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:11:00 10/19/20 Mon Judging from the reactions from the other tenants and really my daughters as well, I think it made an impression on everyone. The quiet tenant who asked if she could help and insisted she was such a little angel etc. etc. I think did so because she wanted to assure that she would not be next. I know this sounds sadistic, but I think I'll use that to keep her in line and keep her on her toes. Hey, adults like to have a little fun too. I'm not sure about the athlete. I think she moreso just wanted to see Amanda try to sit. Bodack, this just happened last night. Amanda is usually the only regular at the dinner table. The other two come and go. I always leave a plate in case they want to heat it up later. I have the feeling we'll be having more regular 'family' dinners. I don't know if I mentioned but while I was having my alone time with my glass of wine late last night, Amanda sheepishly approached me, sat down (gently) next to me. I must have really done a number on her bottom because she appeared to be still in discomfort. She told me how sorry she was and said it wasn't just the disapproval of her parents if she got kicked out but even moreso she really loves the girls and loves being a part of the family and couldn't stand it if she had to leave. I almost cried, Amanda did and cuddled up next to me. I'll see tonight how everything is going and if there are any further developments. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:05:56 10/19/20 Mon That is so sweet Rental Mom!! I knew there was a good possibility that this would bring you closer together and I am glad I was right. This has to be one of the sweetest true tales of a 20 year old getting spanked and it seems strange but I would actually say it is kind of heartwarming!! You really have adopted a new daughter of sorts!! Are you glad you went this route and did not evict her? She obviously does not resent you in the least for the spanking you gave to her and if anything she might even feel closer to you as a result. Thank you again for sharing this rather touching story of a motherly love, discipline, and affection!! I hope Amanda will continue to be a part of your life for a long time, even after she moves out. She is far more then just a tenant now, she is a part of your family!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:30:19 10/20/20 Tue Rental Mom, how old are your daughters? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:40:11 10/20/20 Tue I have mentioned that throughout the thread, but I'm not sure that's important. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:32:43 10/20/20 Tue How old are your daughters? It would be interesting to know if there are a great difference of age with Amanda. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:51:02 10/20/20 Tue Dude, she has already told you she doesn't wish to answer that question! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:43:55 10/19/20 Mon So how have the other dinners been since then? Is it common for everyone to eat together. I am sure doors open or close the other tenants would had heard the spanking but they might not have heard the lecture about her behavior. BerryBlue says she would have died of embarrassment but that is part of a good spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:14:53 10/19/20 Mon Wow! Thank you very much for your report. My first two years away at school, this is what I missed and wished I could have, well maybe not the spankings but have kinda a family and like a mother's love. Will there be more spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: EggHead [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:37:53 10/19/20 Mon Arrgh, sometimes it's hard to reply to the right conversation string in a thread. I just posted a reply above that was really meant for this string and not a response to Justin's request for a report! My reply above was to Rental Mom's actual report. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:07:20 10/20/20 Tue What if the other room mates tell everybody at college? Just a thought I had. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:42:19 10/20/20 Tue I covered that at dinner that night. I told them what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, meaning what goes on in this house is nobody's business. It's also in the rules. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:57:44 10/20/20 Tue This is the first time I've gotten the chance to reply. I think you did a wonderful thing and it sounds Amanda is very grateful for you. I usually ask a lot of questions, but I decided not to pester you. I can be kind of annoying on here and people sometimes get mad at me on here. The quiet girl reminds me a little of myself. Do you think she's afraid you are going to spank her? Do you think her parents spank her? Would you like to spank her? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:03:45 10/20/20 Tue I have a lot of questions I would like to ask, but I think you and everybody else on here would get mad at me if I did. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Thanks for the Report Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:18:11 10/19/20 Mon I think you handled that wonderfully. I am so glad you talked to her first and the hugs afterwards, very important. As embarrassing as it probably was for Amanda, I am sure she feels a huge sense of relief now that it is over. She also knows you aren't kidding around when you discipline. It doesn't sound like you went overboard to me, especially when you consider how long this had been going on and it had to be a memorable lesson. But you also took the time to love on her and comfort her afterwards, which I think is super important. As I have said many times to you, I truly hope this will bring the two of you closer together. It will be something Amanda will never forget, that's for sure. It sounds like that glass of wine was well earned last night. Thanks for giving us the report and please, don't be a stranger on here!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:38:47 10/19/20 Mon Once again Rental Mom, I think you handled the situation wonderfully. It was not a pleasant task that you had to do, probably made all the more difficult by how sweet this girl is. I can understand why you had to have resolve to carry out the task and not give in to the temptation to let her off the hook, especially when you could see the fear in her eyes. Tough love is something we all need at times; something I could probably use a bit more of in my life personally. I am touched by how much love and care you gave to Amanda before, after, and even while you were spanking her. And you cooked her favorite meal too!! I bet some of the girls on here would actually envy Amanda's situation (Berryblue, I am talking about you). I have to say, I can identify with how your daughters felt after you had spanked Amanda. Whenevr my brother got spanked, even if it was something he did to me, I still always felt bad when he got spanked. I remember one time I kicked the wall because he got spanked and I was angry at my dad for doing it. You daughters probably think of Amanda as like a big sister to some degree, so they probably sympathized with what Amanda was going through, having gone through it themselves. It can be easy for kids to sometimes see their parents as the villian after they have been punished, even if deep down they understand you do love them. One thing kids can't understand is how difficult it probably is to spank someone you care about. As much as you know you are doing it for the right reasons, you still don't want to hurt those you love. One other thing I found interesting is the reaction of the other tenants, especially the one girl who thought it was necessary to list all the good things she does. I wonder why she felt the sudden need to tell you all these things. Do you think she was nervous that this discipline might not be limited to just Amanda. Obviously you haven't discussed such a thing with any of the other tenants, but you have to wonder if it was lingering on their minds. Well, let's hope Amanda can stay out of trouble for a while. I am sure she is none too eager for a repeat performance across your knees, now that she has experienced how unpleasant a spanking can be, even at her age. Again, hoping you will stay in touch with this group. I think you have made a great addition to this forum and I am sure we all want to know if Amanda has any more misadventures of going across your knees. Thanks again for sharing!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:43:55 10/19/20 Mon Envy yes, though I would never find myself in Amanda's situation because i would have never broken any rules in the first place. Or at least to the point where eviction would be considered. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:17:32 10/19/20 Mon Have you thought about telling Amanda she could come here, Rental Mom? I’m sure she’d be welcome, and it might make her feel better! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:25:09 10/20/20 Tue Eleonora, how does this fit in with you humiliation fantasies? I am quite confident the athlete has already told her teammates. The other girl I think is too afraid of being next to tell anyone. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:00:01 10/20/20 Tue I'm glad you mentioned the other girl. Last night she caught me alone and made a little nervous small talk. Then somewhat out of left field she told me that she doesn't drink or smoke and I work really hard at getting good grades. She said she tries not to break any rules and if she does she didn't do it intentionally. I had to cover my mouth to keep from laughing and tried to put on my serious face. I assured her that I knew she was a good girl. Then she sort of stammered when asking if she did happen to break any rules would she be in trouble. I paused for a long moment thinking about which way I wanted to play this. Do I tell her straight or do I have a little fun with her and put the fear of God in her. I chose the latter. "Um...it sounded like Amanda got a real good...spanking." "That's between me and her." I tapped her nose with my finger and walked away nearly pissing myself holding back the laughter. What would make you think the soccer player told her team mates? I certainly hope she didn't. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:30:04 10/20/20 Tue The reason I think the soccer player told her team is because I have worked with a lot of athletes and being able to put some one down and look down upon them as a group is common. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:36:48 10/21/20 Wed I wish you could give the other girls names.Not their real ones of course just a way to keep track of who's who. I wonder if the quiet girls wants to get spanked. If I lived there I would be going nuts thinking about getting it. I think your nine year old daughters reaction is funny. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:47:04 10/21/20 Wed Man, this thread is getting to be somewhat of a mess. I don't always love the format of this thread and find it can be too easy to miss things people say to you. So I wonder if Rental Mom will even see all of our comments when they get kind of buried. That being said, I too thought the 9 year old daughter's reaction to Amanda getting spanked was funny. She obviously views Amanda like kind of a big sister that she looks up to, so I am sure that hearing her get spanked must have been a bit unnerving for the little girl. It is only natural that kids will be angry after one of their siblings gets spanked and since they probably view Amanda this way, I am sure they weren't happy that it happened. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:03:21 10/20/20 Tue It took me a couple readings to figure out what you were asking. Like my glass of wine at the end of a busy day, this forum is my time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well Done Rental Mom Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:26:04 10/20/20 Tue Hi rental mom- I'm late to this party but have been able to discern that you are having a blast with all of this now that the spanking is behind you. And indeed why shouldn't you enjoy what has transpired. You admit you do enjoy exercising your authority when warranted and it is now clear that you have everyone there on pins and needles and have gained a new respect which should make your future quite interesting. It appears to me that everyone you have mentioned is now primed to understand that spankings could be in their futures if they break the rules and no doubt you can play with that knowledge and enjoy your new found role as the enforcer of the household as you ponder your own lustful musings that the spanking of your tenant has bought to the forefront, one that perhaps was somewhat buried another your recent serendipitous experience. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:26:40 10/20/20 Tue I love that you are making this other girl sweat a bit. She obviously didn't know the full story of why Amanda got spanked and I assume she didn't know of the possible eviction either. You have a bit of a sadistic side. I assume at this point there is no real possibility that you would spank any of the other tenants, but kind of fun to make them think there is the possibility. This other girl seems to be very nervous that she could possibly earn a spanking too. Kind of fun to keep her on her toes!! How is Amanda's mood today, by the way? Now that the worst is over is she returning back to normal. She sounds like such a sweet young lady. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:44:32 10/21/20 Wed How is Amanda? What thing about this? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:09:06 10/22/20 Thu I'll consider starting a new thread. I didn't originally intend to be a regular contributer. For now I'll just stick to this one. For me it would be more confusing trying to follow multiple threads. It's a good suggestion giving the other girls names and not their real ones in the long shot, very long shot that someone who knows might read this. I think the chances of that are about as great as winning the lottery. I'll try to answer some of your questions from above. In the days since, Amanda has been about the same. With the kids she acts as if nothing really happened and I think the girls just figure when you do something naughty you get a spanking, so they're not that phased by it. Amanda is pretty open and bubbly but in the past three days seems to be a bit more on her guard around me. Not quite so willing to let slip confessions. Of course it's a little awkward for me as well. I feel that I was given a choice, the spanking was justified and after all it was her idea, but I do feel a little, not sure what the word would be. I'm pretty sure Amanda and the quiet girl have talked about it. Not sure where the athlete plays into things. The quiet girl seems to have been profoundly effected by it. I don't know if it was hearing the spanking or just settling in after a couple months, but she seems to have come out of her shell. I don't know if she's afraid she might get a spanking or maybe she wants to be next or if it even has anything to do with the spanking at all. She has always been good with the girls, not quite like Amanda has taken to them, but she seems to be spending more time with them and she's been more open with me. Mostly to tell me what a good girl she is, lol. She's actually been a little, how shall I put this, clingy, almost to the point of annoyance. Again I almost pissed my self holding back laughter when I got home yesterday she practically met me at the door while Amanda was with the girls and said "After classes I studied vacuumed the whole house, washed the dishes and put them away." She looked so proud. She actually looked like one of the girls when they know they're in trouble. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:12:01 10/22/20 Thu It may just be that the quiet girl (who I will name later if I continue on here) just misses her mom and maybe hearing the spanking caused her to see me as sort of a surrogate, I don't know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:13:04 10/22/20 Thu I know that she does miss her mom because she calls her frequently. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:40:18 10/22/20 Thu Could also be that the sound of a spanking is familiar to her and made her feel more at home. Could be that I'm over thinking this and letting myself get a little too involved with the tenants. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:50:27 10/22/20 Thu It doesn't sound like the quiet girl and Amanda are really ready to be at college. It is a shame the you are expected to go right after high school. The quiet girl getting clingy seems like a potential problem. It's possible she just wants to be an old fashioned housewife. I have known women who are perfectly happy taking care of the house and kids and not working. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:03:55 10/23/20 Fri Let's call the quiet girl Leah. That seems like an appropriate name for her. Let me ask why you think she could be a potential problem? I don't see her aspiring to be a traditional housewife. She doesn't seem to have any interest in that. One other thing, I think you are wrong about Leah and Amanda not being ready for college. Aside from my home boarders I have other rental properties and I try to employ students at my office as well, so I know college students pretty well and Amanda and Leah seem like any other kid 18-24. I remember myself at that age too. Some are a little more independent than others, some put up the front that they are, but almost all of them get homesick. Yes, I do have a hairbrush just for spanking. I'm not too worried about Amanda growing too distant. If anything just the opposite over the past few days. It's hard to tell in a little under a week how it has effected her behavior. I don't want to give the impression that Amanda is a wild child. She just really doesn't cover her tracks very well. I just can't have her around the girls smelling of skunk and a few other things that most people her age do, but as she is so close to the family it's more obvious. It's really encouraging how Leah has come out of her shell since Sunday. She's more active with the girls and is spending more time with Amanda. They were friendly before but I would say they are becoming friends. I think Amanda is more tolerant of her than a friend. Amanda seems to like her alright, but does seem a little annoyed by her. Last night I was sitting on the couch after everyone was settled in when Leah walked in and sheepishly sttod in front of me. I asked if there was anything I could help her with. She asked what I was watching. I told her I wasn't really paying attention. "Can...can I sit with you?" "Well, I am working, but sure." "Oh, I'll be really quiet." So she tiptoed over and she sat next to me, then moved in right next to me. It was actually making me feel a little uncomfortable. She just sat there quietly for about a half an hour, might have said the show was interesting or something. So I pretty much finished my work and asked if there was something on her mind. She said not and went on to tell me she got her homework done and cleaned up her room. She said she had a test on Monday, so she would be home most of the weekend, but if I needed some help or something she would be willing. There was something she wanted to say, I'm quite sure. She made a little bit of small talk, might have mentioned the girls, might have mentioned Amanda. Finally she said she had better go to bed, I said I needed to as well, then she sat there a few more minutes. She said goodnight and got up, turned and said "If...never mind, goodnight" and sort of skipped off. I have no idea what that was all about. I think maybe she just misses her mom. Well, that's an update. I think I got all of your questions answered. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:26:05 10/23/20 Fri Do you think she is thinking of asking for a spanking? If someone is keeps talking about how good they are, then they probably aren't really that good. Maybe she needs to get something off her chest. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:37:24 10/23/20 Fri You are a very perspective young lady. That's sort of what I'm thinking. Or it could be the opposite. She's only 18 or 19 and seems rather naive about the real world and may think it's commonplace for landladies to spank their boarders and after hearing Amanda get her butt paddled she might be afraid if she slips up she will get a spanking. I can't imagine her doing anything too bad though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:51:25 10/23/20 Fri Has she slipped up before? If she talked to Amanda about it then she would know the reason you spanked her and unless she did slipped up to the point where you consider evicting her she shouldn't really have anything to worry about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:56 10/23/20 Fri Leah is a nice person and I don't think you will ever have any business trouble with her. She will abide by the rules very conscientiously. It may be a projection on my part but she seems like a spanko struggling with how to handle it and whether to admit it to you. She also knows that spankings work and that from Rental Mom, they hurt a lot. It would be good for her to have a real heart to heart with someone here on 243310! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:49 10/23/20 Fri That's my projection as well! The fact she came out of her shell after Amanda's spanking and becoming closer to Rental Mom is making me think she is trying to get closer to ask for a spanking. That's how I would do it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:19:07 10/23/20 Fri Bb, would you snuggle up to RM and elaborate about how good you are being? I think you will be more subtle. What Leah does seems almost too obvious; like saying to RM, "I am being so good! You won't have a reason to spank me!" RM should ask "Are you sure? As a friend's mom used to say, "A good spanking never hurt anyone!" [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:54:22 10/23/20 Fri It wouldn't be hard to see that I am a good girl! Or at least appear to be. I would most likely give subtle hints to my naughtiness if anything. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:25:34 10/22/20 Thu Yea, you getting too involved with the tenants does lend credence to my observation of "lustful musings." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:56:27 10/22/20 Thu You mentioned spanking hairbrush. So have one just for that? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:05:08 10/25/20 Sun So how did you end up with a hairbrush just for spanking? Is it kept in a different location. In your post about the spanking you said you starting getting mad but you didn't say way. I can't find the post now but did you say she was still sore at dinner Monday? If you have to spank her again how will you decide when it is time to stop? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:22:58 10/22/20 Thu I wouldn't worry too much about Amanda. It sounds like she had a fantasy fulfilled and it didn't quite go the way she thought it would. I wouldn't be surprised if she finds this forum on her own. Is Amanda behaving now? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:24:38 10/22/20 Thu Hey Rental Mom, Hope you do keep coming on here!! I have enjoyed your contributions. The firm loving way you handled Amanda's discipline was really touching. This other quiet girls reaction to the spanking and her attitude of trying to impress you all the time now is certainly an interesting development. I don't think this sound like a girl that wants to get spanked, if anything just the opposite, that she is doing everything she can to avoid any chance you would consider spanking her as well. It seems like she is going out of her way to impress you, as if to say "see, I am a good girl, no reason to spank me". It is quite funny actually!! No wonder you are having a little fun with it. As far as Amanda is concerned, I wouldn't be too worried. She is probably just being more cautious not to make any more serious mistakes. As long as you don't feel she is getting too distant, then I don't think you have caused to worry. Has anything more been discussed with Amanda of what the consequences would be if there is any more rules broken? What will you do if you discover another serious rule broken by her? I doubt this will happen anytime soon and hopefully you don't have to revist this issue, but I just wonder if you would spank her again if she seriously breaks the rules again? How much rule breaking are you willing to accept from her at this point before further action needs to be taken? Hopefully these are all questions that you don't need to answer any time soon!! It sounds like you made quite an impression on Amanda and the other girls, so hopefully that means going forward your rules will be more closely adhered to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:09 10/23/20 Fri Well done Rental Mom! I'm sure that both you and Amanda are relieved that the much needed spanking has finally been administered. I have a feeling that Amanda may have gotten more than she bargained for. I know you were concerned about being able to handle a 20 year old across your lap. Did you have any issues with that? Did you have to leg lock her at any point? I have a sneaky suspicion that this won't be the last time that Amanda finds herself bare bottomed across your lap. As far as Leah is concerned, it sounds like she misses the maternal nurturing that she got from her mom and is probably a little homesick.Young ladies her age usually put up a brave front but deep down inside she's still a little girl who needs her mommy. I agree that she has something to say to you and it will come out in due time. I'm pretty certain that she will end up across your maternal lap as well. I enjoy reading your posts. Hope to hear more from you soon. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:35:03 10/23/20 Fri Rental Mom How old is your oldest daughter? Does she have much difference with Amanda? When was the last time you spanked your oldest daughter and for what offense? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Jenna to rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:04:39 10/23/20 Fri i am glad you finally gave her what she needed as well as i'm sure in a small part at least wanted. you said before you had wondered if she had maybe seen you spanking one of your daughters and thought at the very least she had heard it because the house is the way it is. i was wondering if you spank your daughters in the same way you did her with the door open and do you in fact spank them in their room or rooms always or have you spanked in your room or even the Kitchen or living room possible at one time or another. and with said spankings was the one being spanked had their bare little fanny facing the open door. just wondering and good for you to give Amanda the correction she needs and it sounds like the shy one may be looking for a mother figure as well i have a feeling her mom may have done what you did with Amanda and is possible feeling a little home sick for the loving hand of mom well just a thought hope to here more its a great read for the rest of use. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:48:00 10/24/20 Sat I've been following but up to now have kept my mouth shut (for once). Sounds to me like darling little Leah has a crush. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:11:59 10/24/20 Sat I first want to make clear that I am not here to talk about my girls. Fatima, a crush? That's preposterous. I'm a woman in my 40's. Why would a little 18 year old girl possibly have a crush. She may have a crush on Amanda, that is very likely, but me? Don't be ridiculous. But on her being naive and a goody two shoes you are spot on. Firstly Berryblue, I do have a vacancy, lol. I don't know what Leah and Amanda have talked about. I know since last Sunday she has been more friendly with Amanda and they do talk. I would imagine she has asked questions about the spanking. Amanda has given me that look like "Please, rescue me from her" but she is very kind to her and doesn't seem to mind her company. She hasn't complained at any rate. Normally freshmen spend their first year or two in dorms, but her mother didn't want her in a dorm and definitely didn't want her in a student rental, but since this is my house and I am a mom we have a special arrangement. I'm not sure what you mean by 'slipped up'. She hasn't done anything naughty that I know of, if that's what you're asking and certainly no reason to evict her. I just think she's a very sheltered and naive little girl and not very wise as to the ways of the world. AQlfred and Berryblue, I am enjoying your conversation and speculations. I don't really know how a spanko acts. I suppose you all on here would have more authority than me. I have enjoyed a little play, but that's about it. I didn't miss it or yearn for it when my parental spanking days were over. So I really don't know anything about that or if Leah wants or doesn't want. That brings me to another point. I've never spank an adult woman before. I never spanked anyone but my own girls. There's never been any joy in that. I've never had the type of fantasies I've read about on here, not really. Sure, I have seen teenagers or had boarders that I thought could use a damn good spanking and even formed an image of it, but I wouldn't call them fantasies. Amanda's suggestion that as an alternative to eviction I spank her like my girls shocked me a bit and sent me for a loop, but in desperation and as I've grown to see her as one of the family it didn't seem entirely unreasonable. I admit that as hesitant as I was about it I did actually look forward to it, just a bit. I didn't do it for fun or to be vindictive, it was just business. I'm a little ashamed of myself to say that I didn't hate it and although I don't want to do it again, I sort of look forward should there be a next time. I know that sounds terrible. Bodack, Amanda is a wonderful girl. She's very sweet, great with the kids and willing to help with them always. She's always, or usually positive and uplifting, as anyone she has her moments. So I wouldn't say she 'misbehaves' necessarily, she does what girls her age do, she's just a little too open about it, a little careless. It's only been a week, but I would say she's a little more careful now. Fran, thank you very much for your input. I hope one day you get the chance to fulfill your wishes. Don't count yourself out. Remember, Colonel Sanders was in his 60's when he sold his first franchise. Yeah, I'd say she got more than she bargained for. She hinted that sitting in class the next day was no pleasure and seemed to be a little uncomfortable at the dinner table Monday night. I think the worst of it for her was my girls and the other roomers being there and both coming down to dinner to enjoy the show after. That had to be and I'm sure still is terribly humiliating for her. And the girls too, who look up to her as the big kid and somewhat an authority figure. I really think it was good for my girls to be a part of that. I was really a little surprised that I was able to get a full sized 20 year old over my lap. I had her lay lengthwise on the bed. She actually took it better that I thought. She squirmed, kicked and struggled but I did manage to keep a grip on her and I don't recall locking her legs. Do you really think that Leah will end up in the same position? What would make you say that? I haven't said much about Angie the athlete. She's the one who I would really like to get across my lap and give a shellacking to. Not for the same reason you all would, but she does have an attitude. She's not disrespectful to me or anything, it's just that superior, priveleged attitude that some athletes have. I was more of a bookworm in hs and college and didn't much care for the athletes. That may have something to do with it. Angie is more independent. She's more of a boarder than the other two or many of the others through the years. She comes and goes, stays mostly in her own apartment, doesn't fraternize much with the other two. The only problem is the other two have complained about her being slovenly. She leaves her dirty clothes laying around and doesn't really seem to care. Her room isn't the tidyest and, ew. Let's just say from the entries I've seen on here from Maddie, I think she would like her, lol. Well, I think that covers everything. If you have any further questions or there was something I didn't cover, ask away and I'll try to get those. Now, I think it's a nature trail experience with the girls and Amanda and Leah are welcome to join. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:50:27 10/24/20 Sat That is what i was asking. How old were you when your spanking days were over? I don't think it sounds terrible to look forward a bit if you have to spank her again, i know i look forward to reading should there be a next time! Not that I'm hoping or anything :3 [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:05:52 10/27/20 Tue Great post. Hope you have more updates. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:50 10/28/20 Wed I don't think her having a crush on you is preposterous. A lot of girls that agehave crushes and older men or women. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:26:14 10/25/20 Sun Rental Mom "I first want to make clear that I am not here to talk about my girls." First, you have already talked about spankings to your daughters. Not much, but you have spoken. How about Amanda? Has Amanda given you permission to share her story with you on an internet forum? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:13:02 10/24/20 Sat I don'y know if Amanda is a spanko or just found herself backed into a corner and saw a little girl spanking as a way out, but got more than she bargained for. I'm sure she never expected it to be so public. Good move, Mom. As for darling little Leah, it sounds more like she wishes to avoid a spanking but it sure sounds like a girl with a crush, maybe on both you and Amanda. That doesn't mean she's necessarily a lesbian. It sounds to me like a damn good spanking is just what the little goody two shoes needs. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:48:25 10/24/20 Sat Little Leah sounds very naive. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:51:26 10/25/20 Sun Rental Mom How often do you spank your daughters? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Thanks for the update Rental Mom Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:13:11 10/25/20 Sun Ok. First of all, to everyone else that keeps asking, can we please respect Rental Mom's wishes not to talk about her daughters on here. She clearly has no desire to talk about the details around her daughters spankings and we need to respect that. Let's not scare her off with constant pestering to share details about her daughter's spankings that she is just never going to share with us, and I for one am perfectly ok with that. Ok. Now that I got that out of the way, I have to say that I really enjoy your posts Rental Mom. You seem to have a very balanced view of spanking from a mother's perspective that I find refreshing. I don't imagine you go overboard with your own daughters, nor do I think that you went overboard with Amanda. As I said before this event may have changed the dynamics between you and Amanda and well even the other tenants, which I don't think is necessarily a bad thing. The curious things that have come out of this event is the other tenants reaction to you going forward. This Leah, shy girl, seems to have warmed up to you a lot. I wonder what is on her mind. Is she seeking approval from you, with always trying to be helpful and pointing out the things she has done that day. I also do wonder if there is something she either wants to confess to you or talk to you about. It seems to me like there is more she wants to say to you, but maybe she is afraid of how you might react. Hopefully she does get more comfortable and decide to share with you whatever is on her mind. Regarding the athlete, why do you want to spank her so much? Do you think you would find grounds to do so? She does not sound like she would be near as accepting of this kind of discipline as Amanda was. Will you talk to her regarding some of the things that has been impacting the other tenants and that she needs to improve some of her personal habits. And finally regarding Amanda's spanking. I find it very interesting that you did find some, shall we call it satisfaction, in spanking Amanda. Again, you didn't mean this to be vindictive, but more that you certainly didn't hate the experience (not something that Amanda would likely say about the experience). I don't think you are a terrible experience for feeling these things, as long as you don't let that control your actions, which I don't believe you will. In fact, I think you would be happy if you never had another reason to spank Amanda again. That would mean that it really got through to her. But more, that if she does give you another reason to spank her again, you would not be opposed to doing so, in fact a part of you might get a sense of satisfaction doing so. As Egghead has said time and again, spanking is very multi-layed and although you don't identify as a spanko, I think even you can see that there are many different faucets of spanking and an array of emotions and feelings that go along with both spanking someone and being spanked by someone. Remember that letter I shared with you about the girl that hated getting spanked, but found she enjoyed being the one giving the spanking. Now I am sure this woman, if she went on to have kids, did not get any kick out of spanking them. I can't help thinking there is a difference if you are spanking your own flesh and blood children and spanking someone that is not your own flesh and blood. Yes, to some degree you view Amanda as a kind of daughter or niece, but the reality is she is not your child, so feelings around giving her a spanking versus your own daughters would probably differ. Do you think if Amanda was your daughter, in this hypothetical scenario, that you would have felt the way you did about the spanking you gave to her? Would you have felt guilty if you did? Do you feel some kind of guilt over the feelings that a small part of you enjoyed spanking Amanda, or do you accept that as part of the package? I don't believe this will be a problem going forward. You seem to be much too level headed to let your emotions or feelings dictate your actions. Even the way you handled Amanda's discipline was very controlled and considerate of her feelings. And the love and care you showed to her after the spanking was over is a testimate to how much you do care. By the way, that walk you mentioned sounded really nice. Did any of your tenants join you on it? I am thinking of going for a little hike myself this afternoon as the fall colors are out and so beautiful right now. I love this time of year!! Can't get enough of those fall colors. Well, better sign off for now, I think we are having a big brunch, then I am going to hang out with my brother this afternoon. Thanks again for your posts of here Rental Mom!! I always look forward to them!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:41:57 10/28/20 Wed Rental Mom I hope you will keep in touch on here, even if it's not about spanking. This is a very interesting thread. I really like the way you care for your boarders. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:58:19 10/29/20 Thu We had a wonderful nature walk, my girls. Amanda and Leah. Stopped for a picnic, left no trash behind. The colors were inspiring. Other than that it's been business as usual. Sorry, nothing more to report. Halloween is coming. It's going to be different this year, but we'll try to make the best of it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:27:29 10/29/20 Thu I'll just add this. I keep a close eye on my other properties. I go all mom on them when I see 'misbehavior'. I will be making random appearences this weekend. I sent notes stating that there will be no parties or gatherings. I should have added 'Under penalty of a very sound spanking'. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:54:45 11/02/20 Mon Any further updates? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:38:54 11/03/20 Tue No new developments. None that would be of much interest here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Admission Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:18:59 11/04/20 Wed I have thought about that spanking a lot in the last 3 weeks. I saw it as a duty at the time, but I liked it and I would like the opportunity to do it again. I'm not sure if I would, but I admit that the thought appeals to me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Admission Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:39:27 11/04/20 Wed Lol...Very Interesting Rental Mom!! I don't get the idea you like spanking your own daughters. Why do you think you found some enjoyment from spanking Amanda? Was it just the satisfaction that she deserved it, or was there more to it then that? Do you also hope to get the opportunity to spank either of the other tenants? Or if you don't think that would become a reality, do you at least fantasize about? I find it very interesting that even though you would not identify yourself as a spanko, you still found some enjoyment out of spanking Amanda. Not that you would go out of your way to do it again, but there is definitely a part of you that hopes you have the chance. Well, you are certainly among friend here!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Admission Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:09:39 11/04/20 Wed Would you do it as hard? I can how at the time it was very stressful but looking back on it was fun. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Admission Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:09:06 11/06/20 Fri I don't really know. Obviously I've grown to like her very much and Leah as well as they become more a part of the family. I feel very protective of both of them, that feeling is growing. I want to see them succeed and be healthy and happy. Sometimes when you feel such attachment the mother comes out in you, or the mentor (and yes I have read about spanking mentors). Again, I'm not interested in spanking the same way most people on here are. I think I've always, even when I myself was in college seen girls up to misbehavior and thought "Oh, I'd love to get that girl over my knees and beat her butt". Since Amanda first suggested it and since I actually spanked her that authority part of me keeps coming to the fore and I confess, I like it. Even when I was in college myself I felt I was more mature and focused than others and took on the mentor role. I've always felt it my duty to mentor my tenants both in my own home and other properties. I've always been very accessible. Once again, I'm not a spanko and I'm not a lesbian, but there is something about this lovely, sometimes naughty young woman having her very nice bottom, both clothed and bare over my knees, having the authority to be in complete control, giving her a good hard spanking and being respected and loved afterwards. I know that may sound a bit psycho and to be honest I'm beginning to have my own doubts, lol. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Admission Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:54:40 11/06/20 Fri Some of the fantasies I have makes me doubt my own mental sanity. I hope it’s a sign of health to do so? I suppose that the real whackos don’t do it that often? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: To Rental Mom Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:08:50 11/06/20 Fri Nothing you have said sounds psycho to me. I have really enjoyed your fresh perspective on here. People are all built differently and you obviously matured much faster than a lot of other young people. And as a more mature individual you look around you and probably see many young people sorely in need of correction. I think it is probably easy for you to go into mom or mentor role very easily. My supervisor at work often admits to me that she sometimes slips into mom mode and starts giving advice. I actually really like that about her. As, someone who has been having some issues with my gut, having a supervisor that cares and wants to see you succeed and cares about your health problems is really refreshing. Your love and care for these girls has now just taken a new step into discipline, which maybe these girls need a bit of. Although you may see college kids today or even when you yourself were in college and think "that girl needs a spanking" or even "I would love to get that girl over my knees and blister her bottom", I believe that is just out of a sense of values and that some young people get away with far too much these days. I think you have one of the most balance and enlighten views on here. The only difference of how you thought in college and how you are now is that now you have had the opportunity to actually spank a college age girl that was not your own child. I don't think that is a bad thing. Your discipline of Amanda and desire to continue to be a mentor or parental figure of sorts comes from a place of love and concern and wanting to see these girls succeed in life. You even said, you feel protective of them, you won't do anything to harm them!! Believe that!! You are acting in their best interest just as you would if they were your own daughters. If you are concerned about the power you have felt by having this sort of influence over these young impressionable minds, I would offer that you probably have their best interests at heart far more than most others in their lives. And to conclude with a quote from the movie Spider-Man, "With great power comes great responsibility"!! Trust yourself, you won't abuse this power. And thanks as always for your perspective!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: To Rental Mom Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:47:42 11/06/20 Fri Your feelings seem perfectly normal to me Rental Mom. Although I never administered a spanking that wasn't truly deserved doesn't mean that I didn't enjoy being a disciplinarian.I loved the control aspect of it and being able to reduce a haughty, uppity teenager into a kicking, crying little girl. I felt exhilarated after administering a well deserved spanking. I also felt very nurturing and loving knowing that I was trying to keep my daughters on the right path. Yes, being in control and seeing how nervous they were before a spanking gave me a rush. Holding and cuddling them in my arms as they cried after the spanking gave me feelings natural maternal love and affection. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't be concerned about enjoying your role as a maternal disciplinarian. It's obviously something that you and Amanda both need and it's not unusual to be thinking about having her over your knees again. I still wouldn't be surprised if Leah ends up across your lap at some point as well. All the best Fran [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: To Rental Mom Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:33:44 11/08/20 Sun Thank you Fran. With that outlook you need one of those naughty college girls over your knees. I really think you should look into mentoring some of the local college girls and keep them on the right path too. If not a spanking, they need a lot of loving guidance. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:08:37 11/08/20 Sun Well, I guess I wont have to wait long. We've had a wonderful weekend so far. I have no idea what the athlete has been up to. Amanda and Leah both joined me and the girls shopping and a short nature walk. Beautiful Indian summer that we had to take advantage of. My oldest had episodes of not behaving very well, which I had to deal with later. As late afternoon wore on Amanda was getting ready to go out and the little shy girl had a friend over to play Yu-Gi-Oh or whatever kids are into these days. My oldest is also into whatever they were doing and kept pestering them. As a diversion I took the girls out for a bike ride. Unfortunately it didn't take her mind off of what Leah and her friend were doing. Surprisingly little timid, shy Leah even asked me to tell her to leave them alone. They didn't mind her hanging around, but she was being bratty. I tried to get the girls in an activity, but it didn't stop her and things escalated. Unfortunately I had to give her a good and well deserved spanking. About 2 in the morning Amanda came stumbling in, not a church mouse. It woke the older girls up, as well as Leah and her friend who spent the night. (as a humorous side note it was so cute the way Leah asked if her friend could spend the night. She really doesn't need to do that). It was fortunate that I was first up this morning as I found a pair of peed in jeans on the living room floor as well as a lighter. Not something I want my girls to see. I visited Amanda, she was awake but not in too good of shape, blanket half on in her underwear, two bottles of beer on the dresser. I'm surprised at how calm I remained. I sat on the bed and amazingly very calmly talked to her. Apparently she had trouble getting the key in the door, couldn't hold it and wet herself on the porch. One good thing is she didn't drive and her driver, according to Amanda was sober. Amanda took responsibility for her actions and was remorseful, so at least that's in her favor. "So I guess I got a good one coming." "I should say you do." She said that she is going to tell the girls that she did some very naughty things that they should never do and that I'm going to be punished for it. I told her that was a very good idea. I may let her recover today if she needs it and postpone the spanking until tomorrow night. But she's right, it's going to be a good one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:18:57 11/08/20 Sun And you know what? I'm looking forward to it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:15 11/08/20 Sun There is no problem with your looking forward to it. She is expecting it. Her real need is to want to change. A bit like the light bulb joke: How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb? ONE but the light bulb has to want to change! I suggest you give only half of the spanking she earned and tell her that when she really wants some help with her issues, she can have the other half of her spanking and NOT have it hanging over her. Don't hug her and love on her and suggest the slate is clean. She is clearly not really functional and needs to pursue her goals rationally. Leaving proof of her "accident" out for others to manage is totally not appropriate. I can see why you are concerned about your older (oldest) daughter trying to hang with Leah and gamer pal. That plot could thicken way too fast. Beware since the appeal of growing up to your daughter is enormous. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:55:48 11/08/20 Sun Sounds like it is well deserved to me!! At least if she explains her bad behavior to your girls, they will have a good idea of why she is getting spanked again. And there is nothing wrong with looking forward to correcting Amanda's behavior with a good hard spanking. You desire to punish Amanda comes out of a place of love and concern for her wellbeing. While I never came home that late, there were times I drove home after drinking when I know I shouldn't have. I wish I had a stern parental figure in my life to punish me with a good hard spanking when I did foolish things like that. Amanda is in good hands. I look forward to hearing how things go. Will this spanking be worse then the last one you gave her? Or do you feel like a repeat of the same kind of spanking will be enough to get the point across? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Beautiful weather!! Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:04:49 11/08/20 Sun I agree with you about this Indian summer. So beautiful!! Yesterday I raked and bagged up about 10 bags of leaves. Today I am hoping to go for a little hike. You have to take advantage of weather like this when you have it. All too soon, the weather will get cold and we won't want to go outside. Anyways, thanks again for the update!! Look forward to hearing how things go. Didn't sound like there was any doubt in Amanda's mind that she was going to get spanked again. Best of luck!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Nola [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:14:34 11/08/20 Sun When I did that I got an enema to clean the toxins out of my system. I'm not suggesting that, but,,,,well ya I am. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Busy Morning Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:14:29 11/08/20 Sun Oooh, this is an exciting weekend. So I have a question, did your daughter get spanked while Leah's friend was over? Could they hear it? What was her reaction and how did Leah react? Maybe her friend thinks that Leah gets spanked too. So Amanda wet herseld and just took off her jeans and left them in the living room? She must really have been drunk. Can't wait to hear about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Any Update Yet? Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:04:28 11/10/20 Tue Any update yet? Did you spank Amanda again? Don't keep us in suspense. How was she feeling on Sunday? As someone that has on occasion drank too much, I know that you can feel pretty crappy the next day. I remember a New Years Day I felt pretty awful the entire day due to drinking too much New Years Eve. Not fun, that's for sure. Well anyways, hope we hear from you soon and you give us a report on how things went. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Any Update Yet? Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:03:47 11/11/20 Wed I wont keep you all in the dark too much longer. When I find a little time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Any Update Yet? Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:30:23 11/11/20 Wed Sounds good. Looking forward to it!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Any Update Yet? Author: Eleonora [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:40:19 11/11/20 Wed I don't get the idea of drinking yourself wasted? It could happen to anyone by accident, but I have some friends who do it too often. It's not fun for them, and not for anyone else. To have some wine (or beer) is always fun, but not get dead drunk. Do you know if Amanda does that often? In that case she maybe needs some good advice, and not just a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Any Update Yet? Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:34:04 11/11/20 Wed I too agree with Eleonora that drinking like that is not good in a lot of ways. Excessive drinking can lead to both long term and short term health consequences. Hopefully this was a case of she was out with friends, got drinking and having fun and just kinda lost control a bit. I have certainly done that too. It can be easy when you are with friends to make dumb decisions and once alcohol is involved you aren't really thinking too well at all. Like you have said Rental Mom, she is a 20 year old college girl doing what college girls do. Hopefully she will be open to some guidance from you so this kind of thing doesn't happen again. Maybe she needs to get some of this rebelliousness out of her system. It is just good that she has someone who cares about her wellbeing looking out for her. By the way, do your tenants have a curfew? Was that one of the broken rules? Or was it more the fact that she had been drinking and smoking that were the most concerning? Anyways, looking forward to getting the story when you have a chance. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Any Update Yet? Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:46:35 11/12/20 Thu Oooh, I've missed a lot. I can't wait to read your report mam. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:01:07 11/12/20 Thu This spanking was very different than the first. Everything about it. I know HOW to give a spanking, I have spanked my daughters hundreds of times, but giving someone a spanking who isn't my daughter was a new one. I was unsure of how that could be done and especially an adult naughty girl. I had so many questions and I thank the good folks on here for helping me answer those, at least in theory. I was probably as unsettled and unsure and filled with dread as much or maybe moreso than Amanda. This time though I was prepared and admit looking forward to it. I'm not too sure Amanda was. I want to first answer a question that was raised. I didn't spank Amanda for drinking. What she does with her own body is her business. I have grown to care about her physical and mental health as I and the girls have grown quite fond of her, but if she wants to destroy herself, that's her business. What she was punished for, especially since she is such an idol to the girls is stumbling in dead drunk at 2 in the morning waking everyone up, leaving her pee soaked jeans and a lighter in the living room for anyone to find and making it abundantly clear, even to grade schoolers that she went out and got as drunk as a skunk. That as well as other behaviors and rule bendings that led up to it in the past couple of weeks. Amanda was not in very good shape Sunday, so for that and other reasons I put it off until Monday. I really didn't want my girls to hear her get spanked a second time, but I wanted them to know that she had been punished for her behavior. I didn't care one way or the other if the athlete was there. As she's not so to speak a member of the family I would prefer she wasn't, but, maybe it's the devious side in me, I wanted Leah to be there. I'm not sure why, maybe I wanted to get her the thrill to hear and possibly peak at Amanda getting spanked (I have the feeling that she's fascinated by it and maybe it even turns her on, who knows) and also the devil in me wanted to put the fear of God in her. So Monday afternoon I was in and out hoping to catch the two of them home alone and I was fortunate to catch them hanging out in Amanda's room. With my spanking hairbrush behind my back I asked Leah to go to her room because I wanted to speak to Amanda alone. It was a precious moment seeing her stiffen up, her eyes grow wide and slip out of the room. I will say it gave me a little bit of joy to see the look of defeat in Amanda let a deflating balloon. Like she thought she might have gotten away with something but knowing the long arm of the law had caught up with her. As I had said I was prepared for this one and am a little ashamed to say looking forward to it. I wasn't messing around with spanking on jeans. I sat on her bed, had her stand in front of me and (as was suggested on here) pulled her jeans all the way to her ankles, looked at her shaking my head for a couple of minutes before pulling down her panties. I lectured her standing there from the moment she signed the lease to the present then guided her over my lap. (p.s. I had and have the feeling there were peeping eyes). I am not a lesbian or a spanko, but there is something about having a young adult bottom staring up at you over your lap. I wanted to make this a memorable and regretable experience for Amanda. I was determined that this was going to take a long, long time. First I rubbed her bottom and stroked her hair (with an occasional spank) and told her what a wonderful girl she is, how the girls worship her, listed a shopping list of all of her good points and achievements. Then came the bad part. All of the naughty behaviors she has (spanks were becoming a little more frequent) the bad examples she gives to the girls and some of her bad behavior as her first spanking wore off and the night before of her wild night. "Now you're going to get your spanking young lady." I started spanking slowly and methodically seeing my hand print on her bottom and becoming pink. I spanked her like that for a couple of minutes and stopped to rub and lecture. Then another couple of minutes, then another and another increasing the frequency of spanks each session. I'm not sure how many one to two minute sessions, but it was several and by that time her butt (and thighs) were fire engine red and I could actually feel the heat. I must say she took it very well. "You didn't think that was your spanking did you? I haven't started with your spanking." My hand was stinging and numb by this time and then I gave her the kind of spanking a naughty girl deserves. This certainly got a reaction from her. I had her stand facing the opposite wall as I examined my handiwork and I must say, that bottom looked hot and sore. I told her to stand there until I got back. I made a point of not looking at the door and announcing that I was leaving just in case Leah needed to make a quick get away, because I had the felling she might be peeping. I casually walked in her room to ask if she would like a sandwich. Flame me if you will but I got a kick out of seeing her look like the little frightened girl in that horror film. "No mam, no mam. No thank you mam." I walked around downstairs, checked on some things, put on an old shirt, tried to give Amanda some time to cool down and let things sink in before heading back up to her room. I gave her a paddling with my hairbrush she will never forget. When I was done she was bawling like a baby and I'm certain she regretted her behavior and ever even thinking about this alternative. I cradled her in my lap and let her just cry her eyes out. Now you understand why I put on an old shirt. I didn't want to give you a hastily written report, so sorry for the delay, but I wanted to sort of detach myself and let it all sink in before I wrote. Now, you can all tell me what a devious mean bitch I am. I think I deserve it as much as Amanda deserved to be punished. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:59:26 11/12/20 Thu You Devious Mean Bitch!! LOL...I am totally just kidding!! I thought you might be disappointed if no one said it though. I am not serious in the least though. I don't think you are a bitch or mean spirited at all. I actually really enjoy your perspective on here and I am sure I am not the only one. You didn't make Amanda misbehave and break your rules and she clearly understood that to break them after her first spanking would mean being spanked again. Would you say that this spanking was worse then the first one you gave her? I can understand your need to take time to digest what happened and detach yourself from it before giving us a full report. It sounds to me like Amanda will seriously consider whether such behavior is worth it in the future. Did Leah know you were going to spank Amanda ahead of time? Even if Leah isn't a die hard spanko, there is no way that something like this would not be the least bit interesting to her. I mean, it is not every day you would get the opportunity to see or here a 20 year old girl get spanked for real. I have to admit to being extremely jealous of Leah in that situation, because that is honestly my ultimate fantasy to witness a girl being spanked. Spanking videos are not the same as the real thing and I am sure this must have made a very big impact on Leah. It sounds like Leah and Amanda are getting to be closer friends. I wonder how many questions Leah has for her after her spankings. I am sure she can't help but be curious. I wonder if Amanda is regretting her decision to ask to be spanked instead of kicked out. Somehow, I doubt it. While I don't imagine she enjoyed being spanked even one little bit, I am sure she knew she deserved it and she probably feels like she is forgiven now that she has been spanked. One of the things I have seen consistently on here from almost all of the spanked girls on here is that they don't like being spanked, but understand that they deserve it and it is done for their own good. As much as I am sure Amanda hated being spanked again, I am sure she understood she deserved it. At the end of the day, she will likely be much better for it. As much as you found some pleasure in spanking Amanda again, I do not believe you did it with cruel intentions, but to discipline and correct her behavior. Thank you for your very detailed report, this is turning into quite the interesting situation!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Gantard [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:29:06 11/12/20 Thu Two questions and a comment: Did Amanda follow up on her promise to tell your kids that she had done some naughty things and deserved to be punished for them? How has her demeanor been since her punishment? You suggest that Amanda’s behavior had started to deteriorate before the 2 am incident. Would it be sensible to agree with her to meet on a regular basis to discuss her behavior and, if warranted, head off a more severe discipline by taking care of her misbehavior after each session? Of course, you may prefer waiting for the misbehavior to rise to a level to justify what occurred on Monday. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:14:53 11/13/20 Fri Hello Gantard. #1, She did talk with the girls on Sunday. I don't know if she told them exactly what she had done, In a way I hope not, but I'm pretty sure they know. I don't know if she told them what her consequences were, but that there would be consequences. #2, I don't know if 'submissive' would be the right word, maybe cautious. She was still whincing when she sat down on Tuesday and by Wednesday her bottom may still have been sore, but she has been rather cheerful. Funny thing, I think the most profound effect has been on Leah. In her effort to act more mature in the past few days she is becoming more childlike. I know that since the beginning she has admired Amanda, since the first spanking and especially this last one it appears to be becomming more like worship. I think she's in love with Amanda. I suspect they played 'show me' Monday. Since the last spanking she has been almost waiting on Amanda, "Oh, I'll get that for you." She has been very helpful with the girls and me as well. I know this is a little devious, but I'm enjoying watching it and perhaps taking a little advantage of it. After putting the girls to bed last night I did something I very rarely do. I invaded a renter's space. I visited her as she was already getting into bed and talked with her, in essence I tucked her in. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:35:18 11/12/20 Thu Wow mam, you are really good. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Bill (Happy) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:50:11 11/13/20 Fri The more i read Maddies and Rental moms accounts of things the more i am reminded of our experience with Alison and how that relationship evolved over the months and years . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:29:38 11/13/20 Fri Why is that sir? I have forgotten. Alison was a stinky girl who didn't wipe and didn't take baths, right? I guess that part, yeah. Doesn't Amanda or Leah wipe? I missed that part. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Bill (Happy) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:14:43 11/13/20 Fri It's the overall dynamic Maddie . Someone taking control . Sexually emotionally and physically . You of all people should understand it . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:10:24 11/14/20 Sat Well, it's different though because I don't think Rental Mom is the way we are and the renters don't seem like the same as Alison. I think maybe Leah sounds kind of like me. And it does sound like she's in love with Amanda. I think I would probably be in love with Amanda too, except that she drinks and stuff. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:30:22 11/13/20 Fri Just curious, that I had to ask you. If you had the chance, would you spank Leah? It sounds a little like she is a little envious of Amanda, because you treat Amanda almost like a daughter and differently from Leah. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Second Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:42:49 11/15/20 Sun Carrie, you make a very good observation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Leah's Curiosity Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:24:02 11/13/20 Fri The more this situation develops, the more interesting it seems to get. I look forward to how things continue to develop. I wonder if you are correct about Leah, does she have a sort of crush on Amanda? It is funny how Amanda's getting spanked is what has brought Leah out of her shell. Is she fascinated by spanking or at the very least intrigued by Amanda getting spanked at her age? Not something that happens every day. I wonder if she has any curiosity to find out what a spanking feels like herself. She probably is too scared to get spanked by you, but maybe she would ask Amanda to spank her a bit at some point, just to see what it is like. Maybe I am completely off base here, but it is kind of exciting to think about. Ahh, college girls; oh to be sweet and innocent, well mostly...lol. Please keep us appraised as to how this situation develops. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Amanda [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:30:55 11/14/20 Sat Does Amanda know that you are telling these things on an internet forum? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:32:11 11/14/20 Sat Sorry, I make a mistake. Last post is mine, not Amanda. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:40:15 11/14/20 Sat Why does that matter? I think the lady said it's an assumed name and gave no location so who is going to know? Duh. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:40:57 11/15/20 Sun Agreeing with Maddie. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:53:50 11/15/20 Sun With Covid running rampant the university may shut down after Thanksgiving going totally virtual. The athlete has indicated that she will not be returning after Thanksgiving break. Amanda is staying and not going home for Thanksgiving. That leaves little Leah. If she does go home for the holiday I have reservations with her returning. There is a possibilty that she may stay and not go home for Thanksgiving. These are decisions and observations I don't think anyone wants to face, but we have to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:47:43 11/17/20 Tue Same here too. My family is doing Zoom. My mom may come for a visit. My gf may or may not go home, if she does, Kailey has trepidations about her coming back. The whole World sucks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:35:09 11/19/20 Thu Had people been serious about this we may all be gathering for the holidays. Now, back to the subject at hand, any further updates, Rental Mom? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:31:44 11/20/20 Fri Ya, everything is messed up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:19:24 11/21/20 Sat Sorry, not much to report. The athlete has gone home and will likely not return. We have to work something out with her lease. Amanda will be staying here. I'm in touch with Leah's mother, we talk frequently. They are having a small family gathering and assures me that all precautions will be taken and it will only be immediate family. I'm sure everything will be fine. My other rentals have had residents in quarantine, but none so far have tested positive, thank God. Not all will be returning and I know this makes me sound like a meanie, but I'm sorry, if they don't return I can't release them from their lease. They will still be responsible for the rent. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:18:54 11/22/20 Sun That doesn't make you sound like a meanie, mam. Even the university is saying 'No refunds'. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:14:24 11/25/20 Wed You wouldn't think I'd complain about this, but with two of the ladies gone it's too darn quiet here even with three screaming little girls off from school. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:49:02 11/25/20 Wed Do your daughters know you gave Amanda a second spanking? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:45:12 11/26/20 Thu If they don't know for certain I'm sure they have a pretty good idea. Her second spanking was private (except for Leah's peeping eyes), the girls weren't there, but Amanda did tell them that she had done some naughty things and would be consequences. I don't think she offered any details of those consequences. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:18:35 11/27/20 Fri I was just thinking she was having trouble sitting at dinner and the kids noticed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:24:59 11/29/20 Sun It will pretty soon be time to wake up the girls for an all out effort to clean up the house, Amanda has promised to help as well. We will be entertaining Leah's mother on Leah's return. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:45 11/29/20 Sun Will you be asking for permission from Leah's Mom to spank Leah if she gets in trouble? My friends Mom takes in College students and their Parents must give permission to be spanked if they misbehave. If the Parents say No, then they must find another place to live. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:11:47 12/02/20 Wed Of course I didn't ask permission to spank her. there really hasn't been much reason to, even if she were my own daughter. She's a pretty good kid as far as I can tell. No, we just talked. Carrie, please tell more about your friend's mom. Perhaps you can ask her to come on this board. It would be interesting to talk to her. School is only in session for a couple more weeks before finals. All virtual, so staying at school is an option. Everyone's tests have been negative so far, thank God. It's getting pretty close though. I have a couple of renters who were not able to go home because they were in quarantine. If they did go home they would have to stay. The athlete will not be returning, at least until January, maybe not then. Justin, yes I think Leah was very happy to be back with Amanda and the girls, the girls were excited too, Amanda a little less. I think Amanda was enjoying not being idolized. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:16:54 12/02/20 Wed Hi Rental Mom, My friends Mom had six children, five are married now, so she has five empty bedrooms. She was very strict with her children and until they married she had know problem in spanking their bare bottoms with her wood paddle. My friend is the only one home now so her Mother decided to rent out the bedrooms since they live close to a college campus. Before she takes in a border, she meets the the girl and her Parents, (usually it is just the Mother). She lays out her requirements for the girl if she wants to live there. Rules such as, their room must be clean and tidy daily, they must take turns in cleaning their bathroom daily, they have a curfew, and their is no partying in the house. She then tells them that they get one warning and after that they are spanked on their bare bottom. Spankings are done in private, but every one can hear the spanking. The Mother and daughter must agree and both sign a form. My friends has said that her Mom has only had to spank twice in the four years she has been renting. Before you ask, yes my friend still feels that paddle also. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:51:29 12/03/20 Thu Rental Mom, Does that sound like something you might want to try? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:39:58 12/05/20 Sat Is this true? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:32:40 12/05/20 Sat Maddie, yes this is very true. Maddie the two girls that were spanked were friends, they were two hours late from curfew. They were freshmen and 19 yrs old. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:44:11 12/05/20 Sat In what world do you live in where this actually happens? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Jealous or just wondering Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:15:53 12/05/20 Sat Hi Berryblue, Are you jealous of these girls situation or just wondering? It does seem all to surreal for sure. I have just come to realize that there are probably areas in the states and maybe even in other parts of the world where this is still happening, it just isn't talked about all that much. With most of the world being more liberal these days and opposed to spanking their children, it makes sense that people aren't exactly broadcasting that they still spank their even teenage kids or sometimes even other people's teenage kids. It is probably the exception rather then the norm, but I don't doubt the validity of these stories, they just seem strange to us that are not experiencing it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jealous or just wondering Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:01:34 12/05/20 Sat Berryblue, a couple of months ago I would have thought the same thing. In looking back over the past couple of months I still wonder that. Sometimes I have to convince myself that it really did happen, twice at that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Jealous or just wondering Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:57:42 12/05/20 Sat I wouldn't say jealous per say it would depend of the character of the spanker for me to be jealous of anything but I am very curious. I don't doubt the validity either, I believe it happens but where! It's not like im asking for a geographical location but just in a general sense. I mean in a fantasy sense it sounds like a dream come true but in real life it seems to good to be true. Based on my demographic I cant see it happening, Carrie said she is from a small town christian population and so its normal to her but to the rest of us its strange! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:51:56 12/05/20 Sat I live in a small town, population 1200 in the southern part of the United States. There is one Christian school K-12 and a small junior college in the town. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:47:59 12/05/20 Sat Ah Southern, makes sense. That's a really small town, my highschool has a bigger population than that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin to Berryblue and Carrie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:09:12 12/05/20 Sat Agreed Berryblue, it does seem surreal, but not out of the realm of possibility. I know for both you and I it does seem like something out of a spanking story, in fact I have read stories with almost this exact premise of a religious community where spanking is widely accepted and practiced well beyond the years then is common for most people. So, at first I may have taken this with some skepticism, but I now have come to regard it as true. It definitely seems surreal to those of us not growing up in these kind of communities. Something straight out of the 1950s to be honest, but I don't know that it is a bad thing. As someone that personally craves discipline and accountability, there is a large part of me that wishes I was in a community like that, where I could turn to either my parents or maybe even other trusted authority figures of correction when necessary. It certainly seems like an out of place kind of community in 2020, but I think more people would probably benefit from growing up in an environment such as this. I have to believe it is as much about being a loving community that wants to see their young people succeed as much as it is about using spanking as discipline. They just happen to have more old fashioned ideas when it comes to discipline and I really don't see that as a bad thing. Anyways, that is my 5 cents worth on that topic...lol [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:20:55 12/06/20 Sun You have described our Christian community perfectly. To tell the truth, even tho I hate to still get spankings, I would not want to live any were else. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:07:52 12/06/20 Sun Hmm...very interesting Carrie. It sounds like a very close community. Like I said, I am sure that this community is strongly grounded in Christian values and traditions. I bet there is a strong emphasis on teaching the Word of God in your church there. It is also likely a community where you know a good portion of the town. I guess also since it is such widely accepted that most parents still spank even their older teenage kids, then no kid needs to feel like they are being singled out. I wonder, would it be harder for you to accept being spanked if you didn't live in a community where it was the norm? If you lived in a community where most of your friends were being grounded and you were the only one being spanked, would it be more embarrassing and harder to accept then? I know that getting spanked is no fun regardless, however there has to be some comfort knowing it happens to most of the youth in your community. But tell me, would a parent be looked down upon in your community if they did not spank their kids? Since it is so widely accepted there, would it be viewed as going against the community values? Although this board is all about spanking, so that is primarily what we all talk about on here, I have to believe that your life is full of so many good things too Carrie. You are smart intelligent and funny, I do believe that. I also have to believe your mom loves all of you a lot. Although maybe harsher than what Berryblue and I have experienced or are privy too, I have to strongly believe your mother's discipline is designed to help you become the best person you can be. Honestly you are very fortunate to have such a loving and close family and such a close community!! I too love my family a lot. Things are definitely different here then they are where you live and I guess that is not a bad thing. I have to believe we are all placed on this earth, where we live for a reason. Hopefully if you ever decide not to live in this community after you move out and start your own life, you will remember what you have learned and the values and discipline you have learned will stay with you. Thanks for replying to me Carrie. I have missed you. I know this may not be a return to you talking to me. I don't know if you are still angry with me or if you have forgiven me yet or not. And I don't want you to keep chatting with me if it will result in you getting into trouble with your mother. That is the last thing I want. Regardless it was good to hear from you and I am glad you are doing well!! Hope we can keep chatting!! I promise to be respectful and honest with you going forward. Ask me anything you want. But if you cannot keep talking to me, I understand and still wish you all the best. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:54:38 12/06/20 Sun Justin, I am sure there are some families that do not spank their children. All the kids that I know are spanked at least up in to their high school graduation. I have friends that are in college living at home and are still spanked. Our Pastor is a well educated man, and a very religious man. He feels that as long as the child is living under there Parents roof and are supported by them, they must obey their Parents, and if not, they should be disciplined as a child, which is spanking. That is how Mom is raising us. You are right, I do not like getting my bare bottom blistered with the paddle. I know she only does it because she wants me to be a respectable woman. I know she hates to spank us and I know she loves all of us, just as we all love her. Now to your question. I am not sure how I would react if we lived in a large community and was still getting spanked. I am not sure if Mom would be raising us the same way as she is now living in a big community. I was never mad at you Justin, but just very disappointed in you and in some ways I still am. I am only answering you now because of the nature of this post and question. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:35:24 12/06/20 Sun I must take issue with you on one thing, Justin. One of my pet hates is people who "blame" spanking or corporal punishment on religion. The Bible says, blah, blah, blah..... The Bible(s) says many things, most of them contradictory, so to pick on certain portions to suit your desires is surely wrong. I realise this may not be your personal view, you may be merely reporting on what you see. I suppose the question is whether spanking still has a place in the 2020s. I agree with you that it probably depends on particular communities. Your question to Carrie about how she'd feel being the only one spanked in her community is very pertinent. There is no doubt that some of the spankings described here would be considered way OTT in most parts of the world. I read from time to time that a parent or teacher has been hauled into Court for giving a spanking and causing "redness or a bruise". If that were extended, our site would not exist, as most parents here would be in jail! That said, I'm not anti-spanking as such, it probably does have a place, especially among consenting adults, and I certainly can't argue with adult daughters (or in your case son!) who are consensually spanked or would like to be. OTOH, I still maintain my belief that some parents or people in authority use excessive spanking to satisfy their own desires. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Justin to SJ Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:40:41 12/06/20 Sun I am sorry SJ, it has never been my intention to offend anyone on here. What I was saying was primarily directed at Carrie, but I should have been more sensitive that everyone on here can read my posts. I never post with the intention of offending anyone. And I was certainly not looking to take a stance on what the Bible says about spanking, because even within Scripture arguments could probably be made both for an against spanking. Honestly this is a whole huge topic that I for one am not qualified to tackle. I for one am a Bible believing Christian, but that doesn't automatically mean that I would one day spank my kids should I have any. I myself was spanked by my Christian parents, but nowhere near what you read on here on what a lot of these girls get. 6 to 10 smacks on my clothed bottom would have been about it and that stopped around 13 to 14 years old. Now, I am also not saying that these girls on here are being mistreated, because I don't think that is the case at all. Different parental backgrounds lead to different views on consequences and discipline. As far as what the church or Christianity as a whole believes about spanking; I think you would find there are just as many books and well-read Christians against spanking then there are those in favor of it. I think it still has to be a decision by the parent or parents. And it absolutely must be done with love. If you told me you knew people who were abused by their parents with excessive spankings by their "Christian parents", I would not debate you on this. Humans are flawed, and Christian or not we all make mistakes. I guess I am reminded of the verse in Scripture that says, "Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. All this to say, that I do not believe the Bible would condone abuse of children. In fact I can find other places in scripture that would also support this. Have people used the Bible to support their own beliefs that hitting children in an abusive way is right, yes most definitely. I am sure some wife or women abusers would say they were doing what they did because they thought God would look favorably on this action. My point is, people are flawed, even or maybe especially Christians. My own reading of scripture has only led me to see how flawed I really am and how much of in need of a Savior I am. When Christians have a holier than though attitude, as if they are better than you, that really bothers me. We are all flawed, broken people. Some people may have things more together then others, but at the end of the day, none of us is perfect. You are correct though, the Bible should never be used for an excuse to hit or abuse others, children or otherwise. I know within my own church their are different beliefs on corporal punishment. I cannot forget one the last Mens Breakfasts I went to at our church. I overheard one of the men there say that he and the previous Pastor of the church had once had a disagreement on spanking. The Pastor having used it a few times on his own son and this other gentleman being against spanking kids. I think what he was really against though, was that the Pastor had talked openly from the pulpit about using spanking on his own son. This other gentleman said that this could be a strong endorsement of spanking, something of which you probably shouldn't endorse from the pulpit. Sorry for the long winded reply. I hope you are not further offended by anything I have said here. In all honesty, I probably should just keep my mouth closed on this whole topic. I am not looking to start any kind of argument at all. Again, my message was primarily aimed at Carrie, since I know her community is a primarily Christian based community. I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone else with my comments. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Justin to SJ Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:24:43 12/06/20 Sun Hi again SJ, I hope we can still have a healthy discussion. I always want to respect others on here and it has never been my intention to offend anyone. My own feelings about spanking are very complicated. I was spanked as a kid, but that is in the past and I hold no ill will to my parents for it. But now today, I have a bit of an obsession with spanking, I will openly admit it. Do I blame these obsessions' on my parents and their use of spanking on me? Absolutely not!! I don't actually think my spanking interests started until my teen years, after my parents had stopped spanking me. Now, could the interest been there before that, maybe but I certainly don't blame my parents for these desires. Would I have a spanking fetish now if I wasn't spanked as a child? Maybe, then again maybe not...it is really hard to say. I know there are many spanking models for instance that were spanked growing up, but just as many that were not spanked growing up. So you cannot say that spanking your kids would directly lead to a spanking fetish or not. If that were the case that everyone that was spanked as a kid developed a spanking fetish, then our community would be millions not thousands. I admit I often struggle with the moral implications of having such desires, enjoying reading about girls being spanked, watching spanking videos. Should I delight in the suffering of others? Probably not. If you were to ask me right now if I would want these desires to be taken away from me, I would probably say no. While a part of me recognizes that maybe life would be simpler if I didn't have these desires, and I could move forward and have a life with a wife and kids one day, where these thoughts don't plague me. But the truth is, I don't want to be without these desires. I feel like they are so much a part of who I am today, that if anything I want to embrace them even more. I want to find a healthy outlet with a partner, someone I could share these desires with in a healthy consensual relationship. I would like to experiment with both spanking and being spanked and I just want have the chance to experiment in a healthy relationship with someone else who is also into this. So yes, my own feelings on spankings are very complicated. I even realize that my desires may go against what the Bible says, but I will be the first to admit, I am not the perfect Christian. I just know that I have these desires, for whatever reason, and I honestly don't want them to go away. Would I one day use spanking on kids, if I were ever to have any? That is a super tough question. I do know that Michael Masterson who owns and operates the Real Spanking Network group of sites does not advocate the spanking of children. Now that was kind of surprising to me, the first time I read this. But upon closer examination, I completely understand it. I am not sure of the exact reasons he doesn't spank his own kids; if it is just because he personally doesn't believe in it, or if his own strong spanking desires have led him to conclusion that he doesn't want to subject his own kids to this kind of treatment. I have watched hundreds of his videos and that is not the impression I would get from him. But obviously he recognizes the difference between fantasies and using spanking on discipline on real kids. And as much as the discipline that you see in such videos is no doubt a real spanking, you always have to keep in mind it is consensual. What you are viewing at the end of the day is paid actresses or spanking models being paid to be spanked on camera for our enjoyment. Yes, it is quite possible some the scenarios they present might closely mirror some real life situations. I just find it interesting that the owner of one of these sites does not believe in using spanking on his own children and I think I respect him all the more for that. Well, I think this has been a rant and really off topic at that, but once again, I am always happy to have a healthy discourse with anyone on here and I realize we do not have to agree on everything. As long as we keep things respectful, than it is all good!! Good Day to you SJ!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Leah's return Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:08:29 11/30/20 Mon Hello Again Rental Mom, How did Leah's return go? Did you have a good visit with Leah's mom? Will both Amanda and Leah be there until the Christmas break? How long of a break do they get for Christmas? I am sure Amanda was probably glad to have Leah back, sounds like those two are becoming fast friends. I have to wonder if Leah mentioned anything to her mother about Amanda getting spanked. Probably not, but one has to wonder. Did you get lots of help with cleaning the house up before the visit? It sounds like Amanda is a pretty good helper. Hoping to hear how your weekend went with the visit from Leah's mom and Leah moving back in. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Something New Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:49:58 12/14/20 Mon I'll try to write later. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:17:05 12/14/20 Mon Wow...that is a real tease for us. Way to keep us in suspense...lol. Can't wait to hear about this new development, whatever it is!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:49:07 12/16/20 Wed When I get some time to write, I will. I had to give Leah a spanking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Veronica [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:01:51 12/16/20 Wed Rental Mom I know you don’t know me, but I look forward to reading the spanking you gave Leah. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:23:13 12/16/20 Wed Ok. Now, you are really leaving us in suspense. I hope you get the chance to tell us all about it today. I didn't honestly think that would be something that would ever actually happen in reality, as much as we might want to fantasize a bit about it. I am very intrigued what Leah could have possibly done to earn a spanking. I hope you get the chance to share the story with us soon!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Kelsey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:07:47 12/16/20 Wed Rental Mom, looking forward to telling us about not just Leah's spankings, but any other spankings you have administered since your last post on who had been spanked. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:27:02 12/16/20 Wed Hi Rental Mom. it's good to hear from you. I hate to say I told you so.......but I told you so! I knew it was only a matter of time until Leah ended up over your knee. Looking forward to hearing the details. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Something New Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:03:45 12/19/20 Sat Yes Fran, you called it. Now it's your turn. I think it's time for you to pass your wisdom on to a college student in need of guidence. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Suspense is killing me Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:44:12 12/18/20 Fri Wow Rental Mom, You really know how to keep us in suspense. With one short sentence you have all of us waiting on pins and needles to hear all the details. I just can't imagine what Leah would have done to earn a spanking. She seemed to be going out of her way to prove to you what a good girl she was. I guess even good girls can earn a spanking once in a while. Here's hoping we get the details today!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:52:22 12/19/20 Sat Sorry to keep you in such suspense. This actually happened last Thursday afternoon. The girls were at school, I was in the living room catching up on work and Amanda was puttering around the house, doing laundry or something, not sure, but she can be such a good elf. Amanda entered with a stack of papers in her hand and a concerned look on her face. "Um, I think you should see these. This is kind of important." She had found them hidden in a drawer, I didn't ask why she was in Leah's drawers nor did I care. There were several parking violations and letters from the campus police requesting payment. One other item was an essay that that the teacher had written on something like "In the future, if you have an issue with the way I teach the class, please see me privately. Please do not voice your objections during class" "If she doesn't get these paid, she may not be able to sign up for classes next semester." Amanda's demeanor was not that of a rat telling on her friend, but one of real concern. Amanda and I talked it over and I decided the best thing to do was to call her mother. I'll put it this way, her mother did not take the news very well. Tbh, I felt like I had done something naughty. Of course I can't remember the conversation verbatim but she said she knew how I had handled Amanda's misbehavior, I don't recall if she said the word 'spanking', but I felt like I had been busted. It was a very strange feeling. "If she were here I would tear her butt up." I felt bad for little Leah because I sensed that she was not mincing words. She asked me if I would treat her exactly as I would Amanda or my girls. I think I stammered and stuttered and didn't readily agree, but sort of reluctantly agreed to give her a good spanking. So we ended our conversation and Amanda and I waited for the little cherub to get home. Apparently she had been out Christmas shopping. She bypassed us to put her things away and came into the living room very chipper. I felt terrible for her because she seemed about as cheerful as I had ever seen her to be met with Amanda and my concerned faces. "Leah, we have to talk." She had a look of terror when I showed her the papers. She stared in disbelief before tears and then hysterics. The poor little thing acted as if she had been caught in a murder. Amanda added that she had to take care of these things or she wouldn't be allowed to enroll in classes next semester then she comforted her little friend. Through her hysterics I was able to discern that she just parked for a few minutes, found the ticket, she wasn't able to pay it and didn't know what to do, it happened a few more times, the letters started coming and she just thought it would go away. There was also some incoherent explanation about what happened with her teacher. I think Amanda was more concerned about that than I was. Again we called her mother. I chatted first then past the phone to Leah. Her mother must have ripped her a new one. I asked Amanda to take her out of the room so I could finish the conversation with her mother. She would wire me the money to pay her fines and asked me to discipline her just as I had Amanda. She had calmed down a bit. Her face and hair and shirt were wet with tears and snot. The poor little innocent thing looked as though she was resolved to meet her fate. I will admit I felt a tinge of excitement. I have often wondered what turning her little bottom over my knees would be like. She's such a sweet little thing and knowing that I was about to spank her little bottom until she was unable to sit was not as appealing as it was in my fleeting thoughts, but it was definitely something that could not go unpunished and I had promised her mother. I very calmly and reluctantly explained the gravity of her actions and what was about to happen. I asked Amanda to leave us alone, but Leah requested she stay. As was suggested here and as I did with Amanda I pulled her jeans down first then her underwear (Maddie, don't even ask). By this time she was ready to meet her fate and seemed to almost willingly go across my knees. I gave her a series of spaced out slaps. I was surprised that her reactions were much more compliant than Amanda. As her little bottom reddened I didn't feel like I could complete the task before me, but I had to call in the mean part of me and rationalize that this had to be done. I asked Amanda to get the hairbrush and while she was gone I built up my confidence and as her mother said 'tore her butt up'. Amanda petted her back and hair and held her hands as I 'tore her butt up' with the hairbrush. I am ashamed to admit this and I don't know what got into me, but she by this time was kicking so wildly and almost kicked me in the face, without even thinking and I have never done anything like this before and as if it was out of my control I pushed my finger up her butt until she could calm down and lectured her. I know that was wrong and I am ashamed and embarrassed by it. It worked however. Finally, I told her that the last series would address her behavior with her teacher. She blubbered that the teacher had said something that wasn't factual and she corrected her and they had a bit of back and forth right there in the classroom. I asked her what some other alternatives would have been, then I told her that after her spanking she was to sit on her sore bottom and write her teacher an email of apology. Then I proceeded to paddle her for that infraction. To tell you the truth I was shocked by the colors and heat radiating from her bottom. We huddled. The poor little thing just clung to me crying and snotting and unbelievably thanking me and I think she said "I love you" I'm not sure about that but that made me feel very strange. Amanda took her to her room to comfort her, or whatever they did. The rest of the day she had that ashamed puppy look, but seemed very cheerful. The girls were already home when Leah sat down uncomfortably to write the email of apology. Children are very perceptive. I'm sure they knew. While Leah was composing the middle one went over to her and asked "Did you get in trouble?" Leah just nodded. "Did you get punished?" Again Leah nodded and my girl gave her a hug. Life went on as usual after that. Leah will be going home for the holidays today and will be returning after the new year. Her fines are paid and she has apoligized to her teacher and we move on. From the tone of her mother I'm guessing that little Leah is going to have a little trouble sitting over vacation. Sorry for the delay in my report. It has been hectic. Happy holidays to all on here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Eleonora A [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:37:08 12/19/20 Sat Amazing! Do you think word will get out? So that spanking moms like Leah’s will try to have their daugthers living at your place? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:40:18 12/19/20 Sat Ha ha ha. Well, I do have two rooms available. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:43:11 12/19/20 Sat Thanks for the report on Leah's spanking. Sounds like she has a strict mom that doesn't let her get away with things either. But she sounds like such a sweet girl. Everyone makes mistakes, some more costly than others. My own unpaid speeding tickets caught up with me and added up to almost one thousands dollars. Not fun, but they are paid now. Of course I didn't have to worry about getting spanked for them, although I almost wish I had have been. It was very irresponsible not to just pay them in the first place. Anyways, here is hoping that you and your family have a safe and joyous Christmas season and a Happy New Year!! Hope we will still hear from you in the New Year!! Best Wishes!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:16:57 12/19/20 Sat Hi Rental Mom, Just a few questions if I may. Did you read my response to you per your question on how my friends Mom gets Parents permission to spank her boarders? Three of the girls were all spanked together right after they returned from Thanksgiving break. All the girls will be living this weekend and not returning until the middle of January. If I remember right Anna was spanked twice and Leah once, will you continue to spank them when they return after the holidays? Will you let your new boarders know that they could be spanked if they do not follow your rules or their behavior is out of control? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:11:16 12/20/20 Sun Thank you Carrie and interesting questions. I don't plan on spanking new boarders, should there be new boarders. I have two vacancies now. At this point I haven't been actively trying to fill them until the next school year. I never intended to spank the two boarders I have. You may recall that Amanda is the one who suggested it. I'm not secretive about spanking my daughters, so it's pretty much common knowledge to anyone who lives here or their visitors. Leah was the result of her mother almost insisting on it knowing that I had spanked Amanda. As I said before Leah talks to her mother daily so I don't know if she told her mother back when it first happened or just over Thanksgiving. When I called her mother the last thing I thought of was getting permission to spank her. It is understandable and I think we have all done it where we do something not thinking and get a ticket and it snowballs and the fines get bigger and bigger and the hole gets deeper and deeper. I wasn't thinking about her being punished at home and certainly not by me. Frankly I would have loaned her the money to pay her fines. Since I do frequently talk to her mother I just felt she should be aware of this so we could resolve it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:12:21 12/19/20 Sat Putting your finger up her butt was way wrong and meets the definition of rape in most states. You should have just held her until she calmed down. Maybe next time you need to do spank her you could do it on FaceTime with her Mom watching. I think it was Karlee who posted something like that. Do you think Amanda enjoyed helping out? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:43:59 12/20/20 Sun I know, I know. I don't know if I'd go so far as calling it rape, but it was just something in the moment, I don't know what I was thinking. I recall reading on here that someone had done that, it may have been in the recesses of my mind. When you have the sole of a rubber boot flying at your face it changes your perspective. It worked however. As for your suggestion... Did Amanda enjoy helping out? That I couldn't say. She sure didn't put up a protest when Leah asked her to stay. She never tried to stop it or suggest that maybe Leah had had enough. I think that Amanda brought the secrets to my attention out of pure concern. I don't think she had any intention on setting up Leah to get a spanking. But, then again. In the past week some questions pop up in my mind. I know that Amanda and Leah have become very close since Amanda's first spanking. Almost like hero worship. Amanda takes it in stride, but I know she finds it a little annoying at times. To Amanda's credit she has never been mean to Leah that I know of or told her to buzz off. I know, or suspect that the girls have talked about the spankings. I just can't help but wonder what she was doing in Leah's drawers. I assume she had done her laundry and was putting it away. I suppose that could earn Amanda a spanking for not respecting privacy, which is a house rule. I have spanked my daughters for that very thing. Was Amanda looking for a reason for Leah to get a spanking? Even more along the lines of tin foil hat conspiracy theories, is it possible that in her hero worship and curiosity did the girls set this up. I'm sure I'm overthinking this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Random Visitor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:14:57 12/20/20 Sun I don't believe you're overthinking this at all. All of the possibilities you mentioned could be the case. The most shocking part of your post was your comment, "I didn't ask why she was in Leah's drawers nor did I care". That wasn't in keeping with someone who has mentioned a few times that there rules you expect your boarders to abide by. I'm a little surprised that you haven't started to care a bit more about that aspect of the story since last Thursday. It sounds like Leah could have been envious of Amanda after seeing the intensity of her spanking and knowing that Amanda and you had a more intimate relationship. I don't mean intimate in the romantic sense, just a closer bond. Maybe she did some things that would result in her possibly getting a similar spanking and a similar tight bond. Maybe they were done consciously or unconsciously. I would bet that if anyone was looking for Leah to get spanked it was more likely Leah than Amanda. But hey, I'm not ruling out Amanda, or the two of them working in cahoots. Maybe a subtle mix of conscious and unconscious, intentions on both their parts, both selfish and concerned for the other. Glad to hear you're thinking this over. Maybe Amanda at some point over the holidays will open on what she was doing beforehand and what she knows about how Leah felt about the spankings she had witnessed. Then again if I was Amanda, considering how she likely discovered those papers, I probably wouldn't be too forthcoming... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:51 12/19/20 Sat Hi Rental Mom, In your post above you said, "I am ashamed to admit this and I don't know what got into me, but she by this time was kicking so wildly and almost kicked me in the face, without even thinking and I have never done anything like this before and as if it was out of my control I pushed my finger up her butt until she could calm down and lectured her. I know that was wrong and I am ashamed and embarrassed by it. It worked however." I think, like the spanking itself, this was something between two consenting adults --- no indication Leah objected then, or since. Did Leah, or Amanda say anything about this afterwards? You say 'it worked however,' and it might set your mind at ease to talk to both Leah and Amanda about it, note it worked, and say it may be needed again and if so do either of them have anything to say about it? Will they accept if you deem necessary? If they agree I don't think you have any cause to be ashamed, or embarrassed, about what happened with Leah. However, while the apparent consent of Leah to be physically punished by you. her cooperation, may not meet the standard bodack thinks it does I think you were skating close to the edge and the discussion I've suggested above would be good to have. Mindy P.S. I hope this doesn't lead to diverting this thread. Rental Mom's shame and embarrassment and bodack's comment seemed to me to need some balm in the case of Rental Mom and an alternative take in the case of bodack. Now that bodack and I have had our say hopefully we can leave the propriety, or not, of what happened and move on to either Rental Mom responding to talking to Leah and Amanda, if she likes that idea, or back to discussion of the spankings at her house. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:07:18 12/20/20 Sun Thank you Mindy for setting my mind a little at ease. Neither have said anything about it. I know the girls talk. Amanda is very open and doesn't hesitate to speak her mind or speak up for others. I'm pretty sure if Leah was offended or felt violated by it she would have told Amanda. I'm not sure if Leah would speak up, but I'm certain if she would have complained to Amanda I would have heard about it by now. I'm not excusing it, but so far it doesn't seem to be an issue. Maybe the best thing to do at this point is just to let it go. I don't know, I feel more comfortable talking to Amanda one on one so I may ask her. Again, that's not something I would ever had done, not something I had ever intended to do. It may just have been that in my subconscious I remembered reading that someone had done that to calm their punishee down. I don't remember who on here said that, but after the fact I recall reading that. It might be best just to let it go at that. Thank you again Mindy for your comfort and perspective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:11 12/20/20 Sun Hello Rental Mom, You are in a far better position to know what should, shouldn't be said to Leah or Amanda about the insertion. I'm still of the opinion though it is not a case of letting sleeping dogs like so much as something that is better dealt with than not. I'd approach it in a totally positive way and likely with Amanda. In private with her my conversation would be something like, "Amanda, while there's just the two of us I want to talk to you about the spanking I gave Leah. She was kicking so hard I poked her in her bottom to settle her down. I'd heard, or read once that this was a good way to get someone's attention and settle them down. I think you'd agree it worked with Leah. I've been thinking that if necessary it might be something I'd apply when spanking you. I'd like to get your thoughts on it. Do you think a bottom poke might get your attention and help you settle down if you needed settling down while I'm spanking?" I think this sort of conversation, not suggesting anything necessarily wrong with the poke you gave Leah, but still putting it on the table and asking Amanda for her thoughts, will, I expect, further set your mind at ease. If you do speak to Amanda I hope you'll report on how the conversation goes. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:02:46 12/20/20 Sun You are so smart Miss Mindy. I think what you suggested is perfect. Because if she makes it sound like she's ashamed it will sound bad. Do you think that if Leah was pissed about it and complained to Amanda that she would say something? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:07:41 12/20/20 Sun Impossible for me to say, Maddie ... we'll have to wait and see what, if anything, Rental Mom does from here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Sue (UK) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:44:16 07/11/21 Sun I'm assuming the reason Leah calmed down when she's had a finger up her mudchute for a minute or two was delayed-shock at the loss-of-bodily-autonomy implications of what had just happened. It would have made more sense as a punishment if her mum's finger was slicked with soap, or dipped in liquid glycerin, or some substance that would impel Leah to expel some "evil". Btw: We shouldn't flatter the far-right infiltrators on this page, the ones who equate it with rape, by arguing with them, pretending they can even be communicated with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Anne (Curious) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:43:16 12/20/20 Sun And so it begins . From a purely maternal spanking to something more fulfilling and intimate . Leah's . I love you comment hinting at a far more intense emotional feeling and Amanda taking her to her bedroom for more private consoling . Or whatever ? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:15:02 12/20/20 Sun Anne, I think you may be reading a little too much into this. I think Leah's "I love you" if that is in fact what she murmured along with "I'm sorry" and "Thank you" and "I wont do that again" in a forgiving hug christened with tears and snot was just a motherly thing. Understand that this is a shy girl who doesn't easily make friends away from home who sees Amanda, the girls and myself as a family. Did Amanda do more than comfort? It's possible and even likely, but none of my business. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Bill to Rental Mom . (curious) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:14:07 12/20/20 Sun When Alison was scrubbed and spanked by Marysia . I asked her what the hell she did that for . She could have landed herself in a world of trouble . She could only explain it as her mothering instincts had taken over and it felt right taking charge of Alison . I think subconsciously she saw Alisons need to be taken care of and mothered and also taken care of in an intermate and loving way as well . It was as if they were reading each others minds . I wish Marysia was still with us and i could find out a lot more as the more i read of your post the more i wonder about why things happened with us . You knowing without thinking that penetrating her anally would calm her down and Marysia's nursing her at her breast had the same effect [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:58:04 12/20/20 Sun I'm sorry that Marysia is no longer with you, sir. I wish I could make you feel better about that. That is a beautiful name. Was that her real name? I've never heard that before. I don't understand though. Did she scrub and spank Alison without your permission? I thought you had spanked her before and maybe scrubbed her. Did she not want to take a bath or had she just not had one in a while? How long had it been since she had had a bath? What did she smell like? You don't have to answer that. Did she stick her finger in Alison's butt or just let her suck on her boob? I'm not allowed to suck on my GF's boob just yet, but I have sucked on a girl's boob (not lactating) and I really liked it. I can feel my GF's boobs, but only through her clothes. I really like that too. I really like it when Kailey cradles me after she blisters my butt and I really like it when my butt is sore and she tucks me in. So I can understand the act of nursing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Bill to Maddie . (.Happy .) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:53:26 12/20/20 Sun Yes Maddie that was her real name . It wasn't a matter of permission just her mothering mother goose thing kicked i . Alison had been with us for about 3 weeks before this happened and Marysia thought she would just be helping out a shy young girl . Neither of us had any idea just how dirty she was until that moment. Neither of us had spanked her or even intruded on her privacy up to then . Marysia said what she did felt right taking over that way and totally natural when she started nursing Alison during the cuddles after . Alison never complained or refused to go along with things . As i said there seemed to be some sort of telepathic link between them that way . Even with the diapering and babying it was all so maternal and loving . Even being masturbated by Marysia while getting boobie . As i said before . This didn't just happen overnight . It was months evolving and learning . I was never the dom kind of guy but i had to take on my share of parenting Alison which included spanking and diaper changing . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:44:52 12/20/20 Sun Thank you mam for that wonderful and colorful report. It might have been me who you read about getting a finger up my butt as punishment or to settle me down, but other people have said that too. I don't think it's a big deal. She might have liked it, I do. I don't like it when Kailey does it hard or yells at me when she does it. Did you get poop on your finger? You don't have to answer that. And that other thing you told me not to ask about, o.k. I wont, but now I'm really curious. You can profer that information if you'd like. There must have been a reason you mentioned it, but you don't have to say anything. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:12:42 12/20/20 Sun This reminds me of an episode of 'Beaver' (no pun intended). Beaver responded to this record club where he got a free record for joining and could cancel at any time. They kept sending him records and then they sent him bills and it just snowballed. He hid the letters in his drawer (like Leah did) and then he owed a lot of money and didn't know what to do about it (like Leah). It can happen to anybody. It has definitely happened to me. I did something like that when I was a teen. My mom didn't spank me, but she should have. I've done other things like that and Kailey wasn't as easy as my mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: KD [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:39:11 12/20/20 Sun I think big girls should get spanked when there bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: KD's Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:42:37 12/20/20 Sun I'll remember this when you're 21. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Justin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:22:49 12/21/20 Mon Ouch KD!! Be careful what you wish for!! Honestly though you are right. Better a spanked bottom from a parent who cares, then cold indifference then one who doesn't. A spanked bottom from a loving parent never killed anyone. I am a 36 year old man that still lives at home with his parents and I have done things that I wish my parents did spank me for. A spanking hurts and is no fun while you are getting it, but after it is over you can move on. It also acts as a reset of sorts and can help you get over the guilt of what you have done. You are very mature KD to see the value in a spanking even as an adult. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:44:01 12/21/20 Mon Oh Rental Mom......my heart skipped a few beats as I was reading your beautifully detailed account of Leah's spanking. Obviously she was no stranger to being over the maternal lap and you should be very flattered that Leah's mother trusted you to administer some much needed bare bottom discipline to her daughter. Like you said, it sounds like Leah will have another very sore bottom over Christmas break. If she was kicking that wildly, I would have simply locked her legs with my right leg. Of course it's easy for me to say because I wasn't the one spanking her. Personally, I see no problem with putting your finger in her bottom. If that's what felt like the right thing to do at the time, then so be it.I am no stranger to taking rectal temperatures and giving suppositories so I know how it can have a calming effect. I'm still curious as to why Amanda was snooping through Leah's stuff in the first place. I think there's more to that story. From what you described, Leah accepted her punishment well and isn't holding any grudges. I'm certain that this won't be her only spanking from you. Again, thanks for sharing and Merry Christmas to you and your family. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:31:04 12/22/20 Tue Fran, I'm flattered and honestly still can't get over the shock of being asked to spank someone elses daughter. I spanked her lengthwise over the couch so I'm not sure locking her legs as you duggested would work. Fran, who have you given rectal temperatrures and suppositories to? To be honest, I think you are wasting a lot of love and wisdom by not mentoring young girls. You seem to have a lot of knowledge in both common sense and giving a good spanking. I think there are a lot of girls Leah's and Amanda's age who would benefit from your wisdom and caring. Just saying. I really think Amanda was just doing Leah's laundry. She does things like that. If she took that opprtunity to, say learn a little more about Leah, So be it. I know, that's pretty much breaking one of the cardinal rules, but can I really punish her for doing the kid's laundry? Jenna, short answer, I would say that Amanda is more of a 'bucker' where Leah is more of a squirmer. I wasn't really trying to get a 'beaver shot'. I pretty much had my mind on business. I suppose it's possible that her mother may have done as I did or perhaps used suppositories during punishment. I have heard of that, it's not something I've ever really considered. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:44:10 12/26/20 Sat Hi Fran. You said you had never given a spanking, but you said you know a lot about giving suppositories. Who did you give suppositories to? Anyway, you said you would like to mentor and spank college girls, but you think you're too old. That is so not true. When I was away at college before I transfered to the local university because I missed my mom and kid sisters, I used to talk to this older lady. I liked her very much and valued her advise. I don't know if you would call them fantasies, maybe so, but I would have appreciated her mentoring me and when needed spanking me. I tried to bring up the subject of spanking, first to find out what if she had ever spanked anyone, find out her thoughts on it and eventually pitch the idea of her turning me over her knees when she felt it necessary. I missed the structure and comfort and being held accountable at home. I just never had the guts to push it. Then I moved back home. So long story short, I think there are probably a lot of girls out there like me who would be grateful of knowing someone like you, even if it didn't involve spanking, and even if it did. I hope I didn't offend you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:01:00 12/26/20 Sat Miss Fran, Teresa is spot on. You've given me some verbal spankings. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Jenna to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:22:06 12/21/20 Mon thanks for that up date. i don't think it sounds like it was a very big deal to her since nothing seemed to be said i do have a couple ?'s about it one did she seem to resist you doing it since i take it you had no lubrication on your finger and secondly while she got across your knee to be spanked how much did she expose to you as far as having her legs spread apart and arching her back so that her little cheeks spread apart to expose her little strawberry or did it just happen more during the spanking from her kicking. and was she more exposed than Amanda had been. not sure if she has left yet but from the sounds of it she will be getting a couple spankings from her mom one soon after getting home and possibly a second before coming back to your house. i would simply as Leah if her mother tore her bottom up as she put it when she was spanked growing up and what all happened when she was spanked and you don't know possibly her mother did the same as you did so she never thought anything of it. does Amanda kick as wildly as Leah or not so much and you did say Leah seemed to take her punishment a bit better than Amanda did. i think you are doing the right thing something to think about when both of the girl return home i would not be afraid to monitor both of their temperatures when they return. and i would simply ask each of them in private if they had there own thermometer and how it was used at home i have a sneaky feeling you might be surprised at how Leah's was taken at home just a hunch and i to feel that this won't be Leah's only spanking from you. and i think Amanda might be having a warm red bottom when she gets home as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Mindy Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:02:13 12/22/20 Tue Mindy, I loved what you said. There was no reason to even paraphrase. I practiced it verbatim and had a moment alone with Amanda. "Amanda, while there's just the two of us I want to talk to you about the spanking I gave Leah." The last 4 words caused her to smile and straighten up with interest. "She was kicking so hard I poked her in her bottom to settle her down. I'd heard, or read once that this was a good way to get someone's attention and settle them down." She smiled and nodded and seemed alert and interested. "I think you'd agree it worked with Leah. I've been thinking that if necessary it might be something I'd apply when spanking you. I'd like to get your thoughts on it. Do you think a bottom poke might get your attention and help you settle down if you needed settling down while I'm spanking?" Although Amanda looked a little uncomfortable she smiled almost alluringly and said "Oh, it would certainly get my attention." She paused a while not changing her demeanor, shrugged and said "Well, your house, your rules." That was pretty much it. I didn't know where to go from there and after a few moments of silence life went on as usual. It's not something I would normally do and not something I intend to do again, but at least my mind is at ease. Everyone here has been so helpful and thoughtful. Thank you very much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:04:47 12/22/20 Tue I'll try to reply to others later. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:17:20 12/22/20 Tue Rental Mom, I am just curious, why are you reluctant to spank your boarders, when they are under your care? It sounds as if Anna and Leah are spanked by their Parents for their behavior. Given that Leah's Mom has given you permission and Anna has given you permission, I see no problem with spanking their bare bottoms when needed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:09:47 12/22/20 Tue >why are you reluctant to spank your boarders, when they are under your care?< Wouldn't you be? I'm quite certain that Leah is spanked at home judging from the conversations I've had with her mother and just knowing Leah. Her mother is very protective and a bit more 'in her business' than other moms I've dealt with. That and her reactions when I spank my girls and especially Amanda. Of course that was before she insisted I spank her. That was something I never expected. I'm not sure about Amanda. I've only spoken to her mother a few times. She doesn't sound particularly strict. When you live in a house where three little girls are commonly spanked and the sound travels like a cathedral I guess it just becomes a way of life. With her I just think it made sense as an alternative to eviction. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Alaina [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:33:59 12/22/20 Tue Hi Rental Mom, I know you acted at the spur of the moment when you put your finger in Leah's butthole , but don't feel guilty. You mentioned that you asked Amanda about how she feels about butt fingering during spanking and she said she agrees it's a great method to calm the spankee down. I too agree. The only risk is getting poop on your finger, unless the girl is sparkling clean in there from bathing. Like Maddie asked, did you experience this with Leah? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:59:05 12/23/20 Wed Gee thanks Alaina, I was really hoping no one would notice that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Alaina [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:28:03 12/23/20 Wed If you hoped nobody would notice that, why did you bother mentioning it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:39:41 12/23/20 Wed Idk, I guess I do some stupid things. Did you see I started a thread for you? I hope you respond. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:02:21 01/16/21 Sat Well no, I wouldn't say she was sparkling clean. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: To Rental Mom ... Re: Advice Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:03:23 12/22/20 Tue Thank you for your message above on your conversation with Amanda. I'm glad you brought it up. I always think while there can be a risk to bringing things into the open, there is usually a bigger risk in not. You might now want to consider talking to Leah about it, and if I might be script mistress again ... "Leah, I spoke to Amanda about the spanking I gave you and I want to tell you what I told her. When I was spanking you, you became quite agitated, which isn't a surprise, or unreasonable when you're being spanked. However, you kept it up and to get your attention, settle you down, I poked you in the bottom which got your attention and you settled down. I told Amanda a it worked so well if she ever needed settling down I'd likely poke her and I wanted her to know that. Do you think you'll be able to better control yourself if I ever had to spank you again?" I'm sure you'll be able to tell from her answer to the question if there are any lingering problems with what happened. Your conversation with Amanda makes natural for you to bring up. From your conversation with Amanda I'd say 90% there wasn't a problem with Leah, but better to be sure. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: To Rental Mom ... Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:04:03 01/16/21 Sat Thank you very much Mindy. you sound like you have experience in these matters. I think I will just let it go with Leah unless she brings it up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Rental Mom ... Re: Advice Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:33:24 01/18/21 Mon There is no right/wrong approach, Rental Mom, just a question of what might work best, and even then the key word is 'might.' No guarantees. You are closest to the action and so your decision will be the most likely best. Best wishes to you for 2021. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fatima [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:31:12 12/25/20 Fri You're doing great Rental Mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Fran Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:30 12/26/20 Sat I hope you find my reply to yours above. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:49:01 12/26/20 Sat Rental Mom, I think every thing you've done is great. I don't think it's a problem that you put your finger up Leah's butt. It doesn't sound like a problem. I think if it were, she might not say anything to you, but would say it to Amanda and she would. But she didn't so it doesn't sound like it's anything to worry about. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:46:18 12/28/20 Mon To Rental Mom and Teresa.......thank you both very much for your kind words and I will take your advice to heart. Teresa, I don't know where you got the idea that I never spanked anyone. I spanked my two daughters until they graduated high school at 18. They were also the recipients of rectal temperatures and suppositories. There were a few times when they tried to fake sick to get out of going to school. Of course the rectal temp proved them wrong and also left their bottom completely bare for a well deserved spanking! Rental Mom...I mostly spanked on the living room couch and when I had to lock their legs I would simply slide their legs off the couch and put my right leg over theirs. But, we all have our own methods and I respect that. Looking forward to the next chapter of Amanda and Leah! Wishing everyone a happy and healthy New Year! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:06:11 12/29/20 Tue How did they react to suppositories? Were they inserted with a red hot butt? Did you use them as punishment? Did you make them hold them in? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Fran1587 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:16:32 12/30/20 Wed I'm sorry to disappoint you Maddie, but I never used suppositories for punishment. I used them mainly for health reasons. Glycerin suppositories were used for constipation or to just clean them out occasionally. I also used fever suppositories when they were younger. I suppose they reacted like anyone would if something was being pushed into your bum. I would hold it in with my finger for a few minutes until it started to dissolve and then they had to lay there quietly for another 5-10 minutes. There were a few times when they got them in a red, sore bottom, especially if they refused to cooperate. I hope I answered all of your questions Maddie and I hope that you have been behaving yourself young lady. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:17:09 01/02/21 Sat Yes mam, you answered my questions. Yes mam, I am behaving very well even though my girlfriend is still with her parents. Would you like to give a girl a spanking and suppositories and maybe an enema? What else would you like to do? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Keara [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:09:43 01/04/21 Mon I haven't read this entire thread, so forgive me if I'm repeating what others may have said. As far as I'm concerned, your both consenting adults. If your both interested and willing, create ground-rules, establish and expectations, safe words, etc. a second thought is about your girls. I did read how old they are, but it may be confusing to them if they hear you spanking a "grown up". [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Jenna to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:12:10 01/04/21 Mon when do the girls get back do you wonder if either or possibly both got spanked when visiting their mothers over the Holiday Season and are you still going to see what Leah's thoughts are on her Poke and from the way it sounds Amanda i believe is fully expecting to be poked i bet the next spanking she kicks up a storm i might be wrong but i have a feeling I'm not. i figure between a week and two weeks you will have spanked both of them again. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Jenna to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:09:44 01/14/21 Thu so has Leah gotten back from Christmas and have you had to spank either of them again. if so what happened this time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:07:53 01/16/21 Sat Thank you very much Keara. I appreciate what you're saying, but I don't think it's at all confusing for my girls. If anything I think it reinforces the idea that there are consequences to your behavior, regardless of age. They seem to take it well in stride. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:13:12 01/16/21 Sat Sorry it has taken so long to get back with y'all. No, there haven't been any spankings given since (not to adults, anyway) although I've come close a couple of times to turning Amanda over my knees. She's been back since shortly after Christmas, Leah returns today. I very seriously doubt that Amanda got spanked on her visit home, but I'm quite certain Leah has. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Carrie to Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:52:05 01/16/21 Sat Rental Mom, Will you if need be spank Amanda and Leah for their behavior.? What about your daughters, have you spanked them since the holidays? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:16:45 01/17/21 Sun So, the best I can do for you is Leah came back this weekend. I had a very nice visit with her mother. She's a very nice lady. As she was at the door she faced me, my 3 girls and Amanda with Leah facing just in front of her. Her parting was "And if Leah gives you ANY trouble whatsoever...you know what do do." ending with a slap on her behind. Leah gave an awkward smile and turned as red as a tomato, the poor little thing. All 3 of my girls mouths were hanging open. The athlete will not be back. The university will be unexpectedly starting face 2 face, which means I have a room here available and a few other rental openings. Not sure how I'm going to handle this if I rent the vacant room. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:39:39 01/18/21 Mon How embarrassing to get even just one swat in front of other people, especially kids. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:34:56 01/20/21 Wed Oh my. She got a slap on her bottom by her mom in front of everybody?? No wonder she turned red. So i guess what she meant was you're going to be giving Leah a lot of spankings. Any yet? Please keep us informed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Advice Author: Antonio [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:08:11 06/30/23 Fri Do you still spank Leah and Amanda? I think it is not right. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]