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Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Jea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:19:15 12/14/21 Tue In reply to: Mom 's message, "Is this normal?" on 06:35:58 10/10/21 Sun I would be concerned if she was trying to get her teen babysitter to pull down her pants and spank her. I wouldn't be concerned about this at all. I hope you feel comfortable about posting on here more. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:10:45 01/15/22 Sat I don't think 10 is too young to leave her at home by herself for just a little while, like when I need to run to the store for something. I think she's old enough to handle things by herself for a little while. What do you think about that? Too young? So the other day I tried an experiment of sorts. I told her I was going to the store for a little while, but I actually didn't actually leave. Sure enough in hardly no time she had the bathbrush, pants down across her bed, door wide open spanking her little butt. I guess it's nothing and I'm not really all that concerned about it, but it's just kind of surprising. I don't know if she's experimenting or exploring her sexuality, again it seems pretty young or maybe she's ashamed of something and feels she needs to be punished and is afraid to tell me, I don't know. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:10:12 01/15/22 Sat I would more think, she wants to get rid of guilt. You asked earlier, if you should stop; or keep spanking her, like normal. I said, that stopping; most likely is the worst thing to do. Also saying, that you should spank a bit longer; & harder, than ya have. Have ya spanked since you first caught her? Did ya spank her harder &/or any longer? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:38:33 01/15/22 Sat When I was ten i, like most of my friends were alone a lot. Of course I am sixty-five so things have changed. As far as your daughter spanking herself I think there are other things to worry about. I started spanking myself when I was that age. The difference was I was never spanked and I was and still am curious about the sensation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Mandy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:31:31 01/16/22 Sun Well your interest in spanking, as an adult. Has very little to do, with if one was spanked; for real as a child, or not. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Frank [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:57:27 01/17/22 Mon Mom, you sound like a very open-minded parent. Just leaving your daughter to continue spanking herself is clearly one do-no-harm option. Another option would be to speak to her about it in a non-threatening way, and to offer to spank her whenever she feels the need for a spanking, even if she hasn't been misbehaving. My guess is that she is spanking herself because for whatever reason she feels a need to be spanked. From what I've read from various other people, and from my own experience, it seems that self-spanking doesn't really work that well. I think that response would be very generous and accepting on your part. And I think your daughter would appreciate it. And it would help the two of you to maintain a closer mother-daughter bond. Let us know what yyou decide, and how the situation evolves. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Random Visitor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:08:30 01/17/22 Mon It all sounds pretty normal to me, maybe a touch unusual, but still normal. Many adults who have a spanking fetish tell similar anecdotes, whether they were spanked or not. But I wouldn't even call it experimenting with sexuality, at that age it sounds more like a fascination with an intense experience, and so that's where she's focusing her imagination from time to time. I can't imagine that she wants to talk about it. And I don't think there's any reason to suppose that she feels the need to be punished. No ruling it out but there's no reason to think that's the case instead of the more likely possibility of an interest in the subject. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: Lesley to Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:15:01 01/18/22 Tue Hi, Hmmmm, so is she really smacking her butt or tapping it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Is this normal? Author: hervee (to Mom) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:13:04 10/02/22 Sun Hello Mom , In families where corporal punishment is used, it is indeed not uncommon for children to reproduce these situations in their games or in their dreams (fantasies). It's normal and it's especially true when the hormones start working For instance when I was young, my teen sisters often played "punishments" I often participated in these games where, naked (or half-naked) they had role-play (inquisition, punishment in the harem, ...) during which they tied one of them to the bed or the beam of the barn, inflicted humiliations, corrections with the whip or nettles etc... Nothing very violent but it was the pleasure of creating a climate and experiencing certain sensations [ Post a Reply to This Message ]