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Subject: Kink in College? Author: Berryblue [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 23:18:59 03/26/22 Sat I recently got in contact with friend I went to middle school with, we hadn't talked in years. We live in different states and as we're catching up she was telling me about how college was going and how the campus is really diverse as she said she saw posters for shibari (Japanese bondage) to give as an example. Are they like bringing kink into college? My mind was swirling! If they start offering spanking classes sign me up!!! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:10:58 03/27/22 Sun There are all kinds of clubs and support groups on campus, not all sanctioned by the university, some are, of all types of subjects and interests. I don't think I've ever seen any Japanese bondage clubs, but there may be. I KNOW I never saw any spanking clubs or I would certainly have belonged to it. But there is a lot more diversity on campus. I've met a lot of people in LGBTQ+ clubs and being part of rainbow theater. I know you're not necessarily gay (maybe bi) but you should look into that in college. I'm sure there are community groups in your town, you just have to dig them out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:46:20 03/27/22 Sun I've seen things like Hentai clubs on campus, but I think they lean more towards just anime. I think still most people are just too afraid to be open about spanking, not wiping, enemas or whatever. Ha ha, can you see a 'not wiping' club on campus? And even though, like being LGBTQ those things are not necessarily or exclusively sexual, but more emotional and more about lifestyle, there is still a big taboo on those subjects. I think in just the last 10 years LGBTQ has made huge strides in acceptance; we've still got a lot more work to do, but it's a lot more open than when I was in high school, but I think it's going to be a lot longer before people, even in more diverse groups and sometimes especially in more diverse groups, that someone can just openly say "I emotionally need spankings" or just "I'm into spankings" and waaaaaay longer before someone can openly say "I really don't feel the need to wipe my ass". It took me a long, long time before I could admit that even on here. And when I did I was lambasted for it. I kind of hinted at it on here, but couldn't just come out and say it. actually it took the concerned moms and a few kids on here who said "Yeah, I do that." before I felt brave enough to actually admit it. You still have to be careful, even within specialty groups like LGBTQ for instance, how you admit even more specialty interests. You would think they would be more accepting of things like spanking, but I've found that's not necessarily the case. I don't mean to go on rambling and raving and getting all personal, but I've been in relationships, or sort of relationships where I admitted or hinted that I was into spanking or some other kink I have and either being gay or bi-curios they took that opportunity to abuse me and take advantage of me. I've never really been in a spanking or BDSM club, but I know people who are (obviously) and who have been to the parties and stuff. That kind of thing doesn't really appeal to me. I think they're kind of dirty and I think it would be just like anything else in life, I would feel like an outcast and on the outside of the circle. O.k., I'm rambling. I'll stop there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 03:00:44 03/27/22 Sun Not to keep rambling on, but on the subject of LGBTQ+, I think it's encouraging that there are groups in high schools now and even in middle school, so there's growing support for those like me (at least in that regard). Even some of the kids at the school I work at are pretty open with it, even 10 and 11 even 8 year olds. When I was in grade school I knew I was lesbian. I went to a private girl's school, but even at that I knew I was gay. I was attracted to other girls, I fell in love with other girls. Kids are like that, girls would hold hands and even kiss, but there is a difference and I knew it. I had no interest in boys. I didn't really understand it and there was nobody I could talk to about it. Spanking is rampant at the school. Kids are always slapping each other's butts, even mine, which as an adult and as a teacher is pretty annoying, but I'm sure that's just a kid thing and that doesn't mean there's a bunch of little spankos running around. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Teresa [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:54:52 03/27/22 Sun I haven't seen anything like that, but I'm not really into clubs on campus. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Jenna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:52:52 08/03/22 Wed You can find things off campus even if it is students the party like my boyfriend and I favorite naughty school girl party it is in a off campus home of a student . Neither my boyfriend and I got spanked growing up but discovered we are spankos in college . The public schools my boyfriend and I I went to in Georgia paddled but our parents did not give permission so we got detention instead . So it is fun for him to play a principal and me a school girl . [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:45:41 08/03/22 Wed How did you and your boyfriend discover you were spankos? I knew since i was in middle school but the interest has always been there from a young age for me. Do you ever wish you were spanked instead of given detention? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: O.H.M. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:19:22 08/03/22 Wed Hey BB, I am going to copy/paste your comment and repost it as you if need be while I delete that creeps weird ass comment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Kink in College? Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:21:17 08/03/22 Wed Mhm, I mean i'm not one to kink shame, but wtf does branding have to do on a spanking forum lol. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]