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Maddie
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Date Posted: 02:46:20 03/27/22 Sun
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Berryblue
's message, "Kink in College?" on 23:18:59 03/26/22 Sat
I've seen things like Hentai clubs on campus, but I think they lean more towards just anime. I think still most people are just too afraid to be open about spanking, not wiping, enemas or whatever. Ha ha, can you see a 'not wiping' club on campus? And even though, like being LGBTQ those things are not necessarily or exclusively sexual, but more emotional and more about lifestyle, there is still a big taboo on those subjects. I think in just the last 10 years LGBTQ has made huge strides in acceptance; we've still got a lot more work to do, but it's a lot more open than when I was in high school, but I think it's going to be a lot longer before people, even in more diverse groups and sometimes especially in more diverse groups, that someone can just openly say "I emotionally need spankings" or just "I'm into spankings" and waaaaaay longer before someone can openly say "I really don't feel the need to wipe my ass". It took me a long, long time before I could admit that even on here. And when I did I was lambasted for it. I kind of hinted at it on here, but couldn't just come out and say it. actually it took the concerned moms and a few kids on here who said "Yeah, I do that." before I felt brave enough to actually admit it.
You still have to be careful, even within specialty groups like LGBTQ for instance, how you admit even more specialty interests. You would think they would be more accepting of things like spanking, but I've found that's not necessarily the case. I don't mean to go on rambling and raving and getting all personal, but I've been in relationships, or sort of relationships where I admitted or hinted that I was into spanking or some other kink I have and either being gay or bi-curios they took that opportunity to abuse me and take advantage of me. I've never really been in a spanking or BDSM club, but I know people who are (obviously) and who have been to the parties and stuff. That kind of thing doesn't really appeal to me. I think they're kind of dirty and I think it would be just like anything else in life, I would feel like an outcast and on the outside of the circle.
O.k., I'm rambling. I'll stop there.
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