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Subject: Re: Bruises and aftercare?


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Lea
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Date Posted: 20:09:23 08/27/22 Sat
In reply to: Jenny 's message, "Bruises and aftercare?" on 03:14:24 07/01/22 Fri

When my parents spank me with hand, is hurts a lot, but I mustn't put anything on my ass after the proper spanking.
But after a proper belting my ass burns as Hell and I really must put come creme on it.

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Rainy
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Date Posted: 19:55:13 09/25/22 Sun

Do not put lotion. A spanking is for a purpose partly to suffer pain after the punishment.

Rainy

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Lea
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Date Posted: 17:23:17 09/26/22 Mon

But how to endure that pain?

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 09:32:00 09/29/22 Thu

After my husband gives me a corrective punishment, which is usually his leather belt, sometimes a paddle or cane, I have to go stand in the corner for at least 30 minutes facing the wall to reflect on my punishment and what I can do to be better. Not saying to stand in a corner but after your punishment if you are laying in bed try to relax breathe and reflect on why you were punished and how you can do better to avoid future punishments. Unfortunately I am not allowed to put any lotion or cream on my bottom after. I did that once and my husband took me back down to his study and repeated the punishment but doubled the number of swats and licks. As I had trouble sitting all that week I took note to never apply anything to my punished button again.

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Rina
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Date Posted: 18:23:01 09/30/22 Fri

Girls are not allowed to put the lotion or something else on their bottoms after spanking.
They also mustn't wear panties for 12 hours at least.
So, young lady, lay and sleep on your tummy.

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 06:39:32 10/03/22 Mon

Believe I always sleep on my stomach after a corrective punishment from my husband. After hes done Im to satay naked from the waist down so he can admire his handiwork and for it to be more painful to sit for me.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 07:39:49 10/04/22 Tue

You, Ashley-91, qualify or describe some of your spankings as corrective punishments. I can see why your guy wants you to keep feeling them for a while. How do you regard them?

Do they really improve you as a person? That is, do you welcome and appreciate the behavior modifications that the spankings are intended to produce? If so, then maybe he has a point; the longer you feel the tingle and smart, the more helpful it will be to you.

The problem with the above theory is that we are hard-wired to do our best to avoid pain! So, any soothing activities such as rubbing or cooling or adding Pond's cream are very tempting! Not reaching around to rub is fantastically hard to manage. Many of us earned a second round! Perhaps the rational knowledge that the discomfort is genuinely educational and beneficial can help a bit.

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 07:06:33 10/05/22 Wed

Hi Alfred, I regard them as needed and consensual corrective punishments. I was disciplined by parents until I was 18 so it wasnt foreign to me. They have really improved me as a person, Ive matured a lot in our marriage and I think the lapse in discipline in college years attributed to the wild streak that started and was there when we were first married. I welcome his punishment and agree its supposed to have a lasting effect so that is why I dont seek aftercare and instead focus on what I need to do better in the future and that helps relieve the soreness in my bottom, just a little, lol.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:05:06 10/11/22 Tue

Greetings Ms. A-91:

Does your maturing mean that now you don't need corrective punishments? If so, are the fun-ishments or non-corrective "punishments a good enough substitute? Or do you still need the real thing?

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 18:01:20 10/11/22 Tue

Hi Alfred,
Even though I am maturing I still need a corrective punishment once in a while. I also receive weekly maintenance which Ill admit blurs the line a bit between fun-ishment and non-corrective punishment.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 22:23:13 10/11/22 Tue

Hello Ashley-91!

Weekly Maintenance is a lot! But it is good to have reminders scheduled. That way you have no temptation to deliberately engage in brat conduct just to get spanked. And no awkward sessions with hubby having to say Please spank my bare bottom!

How intense are those maintenance sessions? What does your husband use on you? Are you bb over his lap?

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 06:36:34 10/12/22 Wed

Hi Alfred, yes weekly maintenance was a game changer for us. My husband administers it in our bedroom instead of his study where corrective punishments occur. It consists of a firm otk spanking on the bare, followed by a few each of his belt, paddle, and cane as reminders. Corner time and lecture before and after then ending in a warm bath and fun in bed. This really clears my mind and starts my week of well.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:26:02 10/13/22 Thu

Great idea. Use a different room for the "corrective" ones.

That allows you to keep them totally separate.

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Ashley-91
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Date Posted: 10:35:44 10/14/22 Fri

Yes it is very effective, zero intimacy associated with corrective punishments down in his study, hes all business.

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Alfred22
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Date Posted: 08:36:10 10/15/22 Sat

Got to love the phrase "the business end of the paddle" since it refers to the part that lands on a naughty bottom. As Ashley-91 notes, when her husband is providing "corrective" punishment, he is "all business!" My emphasis with the exclamation point.

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