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Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate

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Date Posted: 11:26:30 12/17/22 Sat
In reply to: Clair 's message, "Re: I'm going to spank my roommate" on 05:25:55 12/17/22 Sat

There is nothing wrong with you. We all have a dark side hidden from the public and your darkness is hardly extreme when you view the world at large and what is going on that is really dark and extreme. Spanking, while not mainstream, is certainly not an uncommon fantasy. Indeed, many couples enjoy the playful side and moderate pain. So we are talking about degree here not the act itself.

I understand you really want this to happen and that you wish to be the disciplinarian, ideally it seems to the point of tears on her part. Something approaching a total power exchange. That can indeed be quite erotic. But as I stated in my last reply you need to build to it. So you have to feel her out (no pun intended), raise the topic of spanking, get her to acknowledge she could do better and get her to ultimately agree to the spanking. If you are even remotely creative and use the influence you have, which is considerable in the circumstance, you should be able to lead her there. Then once she consents there is no actionable assault because one can consent to assault. Boxers do it all the time. So far as corner time do consider it if you make it to the spanking stage. It will reinforce your dominance and her submissiveness. You want her to response to you being in control and so imagine a future where you simply tell her to go stand in the corner to await her spanking. Again, start off carefully. You need not go fully nudity at the outset. But wouldn't you quite enjoy that level of authority over her?

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