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Subject: My absolute biggest reason why I stopped spanking! 😭😭😭

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Lucy to everyone!

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Date Posted: 11:11:17 01/23/23 Mon

Hi everyone! 😘😘😘

I am a 37 year old mom who is diagnosed with very mild autism! I stopped spanking my precious girks around two years ago and even though my Swedish neighbour had a lot to do with it my biggest reason is this! 🙄🙄🙄

Most pro spanking parents are WAY too strict, old fashioned, harsh and almost lack the ability to have fun or unlock the inner child within them! 😭😭😭

I have mild autism and one of the way my autism affects me is I am like a child myself! I dislike adult television and I dislike violence in movies and I LOVE television aimed at a younger audience such as Disney animated movies or cartoons! I played with toys until I was 15! I have always been very childlike and pro fun! Yet I got spanked by my mom as a child when I misbehaved so I became pro spanking and even interested in spanking!

I LOVE children cause I am like a child myself so I do not believe in strict parenting! Strict parenting is something that puts me off spanking straight away and immediately turns me against spanking! 😭😭😭 Children are innocent and a precious gift to us all so why be hard on them or expect them to behave almost like robots with no emotion? It is cruel not to let children be children! That means time to play, be silly, have fun, get excited, use their imagination to the fullest and just be a kid and that means a happy fun childhood! 🤗🤗🤗

Yet many parents in the pro spanking community act like they came from the 1800's basically old fashioned and strict with no understanding of how a child thinks or sees the world! 😭😭😭 I am like a big kid myself so this kind of strict parenting makes me upset and turns me away from any interest I have in spanking! 😭😭😭

Over the years I have asked multible times "can you be pro spanking WITHOUT being strict" and I often get answers like I am strict and loving at the same time! 😭😭😭 That puts me completely off spanking cause strictness makes me feel anti fun, pro work all the time, no playtime, super grumpy and just work, work MORE WORK and that is not who I am! Even if that is not what strictness means I still see it that way! 😭😭😭 I will repeat that to let it sink in! "I still see strictness as anti fun and pro work nonstop even if being strict dies not mean that I still cannot help but see it that way" 😭😭😭

If a pro spanking parent answered once saying "you are not strict at all and you can spank without being strict for sure" I would probably of not became so much against spanking! 😭😭😭

My ideal perfect pro spanking parents would be Peter Pan and Wendy Darling! 🤭🤭🤭 Like me Peter Pan is very childlike so he is not (my view of) strict so if he spanks it is a spanking without the sterness that most pro spanking parents have! 🤗🤗🤗 Peter Pan and Wendy Darling are my ideal pro spanking parents! 🤭🤭🤭

God bless!
Your friend forever Lucy!

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[> Subject: To Pamela Jane! 🥰🥰🥰
Author: Lucy to Pamela Jane! [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:13:25 01/23/23 Mon Hi Pammi Sweetheart! 😘😘😘 Please show this to your daddy and you read it to as it is why I keep leaving! 🤗🤗🤗 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]