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Subject: Introductory Spanking


Author:
Berryblue
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Date Posted: 18:46:07 01/30/23 Mon

Welp, it took almost two years but I got spanked finally! I started chatting with a guy on Fet, didn't have much hope for the site but the convo actually went somewhere and we met at a local park after about a week of chatting. He told me multiple times he wasn't playing with me, I was very much playing with him however all's fun and games until you end up over the knees.
I didn't get any creepy serial killer or rapist vibes so decided to get a little introductory spanking in his car. He sat in the backseat and I went over his lap and he started spanking me with his hand. It started off pretty light over my sweatpants, I thought huh, this isn't too bad. I then made a few comments he did not appreciate and he started spanking harder, targeting my thighs as penalty swats. He then rolled my sweats down and started spanking me over my black boyshorts. The sting from the swats increased and the pain intensified, I started squirming as a result. He said stay still, I said I was trying and he said watch your tone, he put his right leg over mine and started rapid fire swats. He targeted my right cheek especially hitting multiple time in a row. I made comment of it and whined, ' You don't have to keep hitting in the same spot y'know.' He asked what was that as if he didn't hear me the first time... I repeated myself and he started landing harder swats on my right cheek! I tried to keep still but it was really hurting and I reached my right hand back to protect the assault to my right cheek! He said move your hand, I hesitated a bit and moved it to my left cheek... He was not amused. He grabbed my right hand with his left and held it at my side and spanked my bottom soundly until I was spewing apologies. "Who decides where the swats go." He asked, " You," I said "What was that?" He questioned. "I said you." I answered. He let go of my arm and his hand went to my boyshorts, instead if pulling them down like I thought he would he surprised me by pulling them up, with some force and started spanking my bare bottom. " That's not what I told you to say. Yes what?" He asked between swats, " Okay, okay yes sir!" I answered. "That's better," he said, " Now you're gonna count these next 25 swats to help you remember. Count and say I will refer to you as sir." 'Yes sir' was not in my vocabulary though begrudgingly I complied and counted out all 25 swats. My butt was really burning and my voice quivering by the end. I may have made a few more comments I thought he couldn't hear muttering under my breath which may have lead to him spanking me longer and harder than he would have otherwise.
Eventually he patted my butt and said you're all done, he sat me on his lap and gave me a hug. "I can tell you've never had a disciplinarian before, you think you're gonna listen better now?" I responded with a probably, apparently that was the wrong answer and he bent me back over his knee for about 2 dozen more hard swats ;-; then it was actually finally over. My butt was hot and throbbing, he spanked hard for just using his hand. He said you're lucky I didn't bring any implements that was honestly pretty light, next time will be much harder... And it was...

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Author:
Maddie
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Date Posted: 19:17:39 01/30/23 Mon

That's great Berryblue!! (even if it was a man).

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[> [> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 04:17:56 01/31/23 Tue

Lol, thanks Maddie.

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


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Clair
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Date Posted: 03:08:48 01/31/23 Tue

Berryblue, that is amazing! I'm so happy that you finally got what you were searching for.

I have some questions, of course you don't have to answer. Were there real reasons you were getting this spanking and did you discuss them before? It sounds like you got a REALLY good spanking, were you expecting to get spanked that long and hard for your first time? Did you have a safe word or a way to get out of it if you suddenly decided you couldn't take it, and if so were you tempted to use it? Do you feel any resentment towards him, especially after he turned you back over his knees for 25 more swats? You don't sound like the type of person who cries easily and have a real wall of toughness and pride built around you. Just an observation, but I don't see you too often letting your emotions show. Did you cry or come close to it and did you give up your resistence?
To be honest, you should probably get a spanking for meeting a man alone in a park for a spanking that you met on line a week ago, ha ha. How do you feel today, I mean emotionally? Do you feel the spanking (i.e. discipline) did you good, like do you feel like it turned your life around and you feel (a word I often see here and other research) cleansed? I have read that for a newby who gets a REAL spanking the first few times they have some bruises that don't go away for a while and your bottom is tender and sore for a couple of days, do you find this to be true?

I know that's a lot to take in all at once and I know we haven't corresponded a lot but I've read all your comments and kind of feel like I know you. I'm on the other side of the fence (although there is a part of me that craves the kind of discipline you got) and I'm hoping very soon I will have my virgin spanking experience from the disciplinarians perspective. I'm concerned about how my roommate will take it and her emotions. I really like her, in a plutonic sort of way (and perhaps sexually too) and I don't want to hurt her emotionally. I don't want her to hate me or fear me and for gods sake I sure tf don't want her to bring assault charges against me. I don't want it to be an arranged thing, I want it to be for real and somewhat spontaneous. I KNOW she's into spanking and punishment and she has a submissive personality, but even craving being punished and actually getting it can be two different things. God knows she's naughty enough to deserve a spanking and I think it would probably do her good to get one. I'm just concerned about her. Sorry to make this about me.

You have taken a HUGE step that probably most people like us just keep inside of themselves. Good for you! Do you think this will happen again and you will eventually be a lifestyler?

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[> [> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


Author:
Berryblue
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Date Posted: 04:16:55 01/31/23 Tue

Spanked for real reasons, yes there were a few. The main one for getting smart with him and to establish the dynamic, it was only an introductory spanking as hard as it may be.
Wasn't expecting it persay but then again my mouth probably made it longer 😅 He did give me a safeword before we started but I was not tempted to use it, was definitely not at the forefont of my mind.
Resentment, not at all, if anything I was pouting and sulking more after because I had to watch my mouth before him.
'You don't sound like the type of person who cries easily and have a real wall of toughness and pride built around you.' That is a good observation! I wouldn't say I showed no emotion, I was pretty animatied over his knees but I did not cry, my resistance probably grew in defiance haha.
Lol probably should, guess I should meet him for round two. I let my sister know somewhat of the festivities, at least know I was going out and meeting someone at said park without all the details.
I did hear of sub drop which I was worried about experiencing but emotionally I'd say I'm doing well! He made sure to check on up my well being right after and the next following days. It was only an introductory the punishment spanking was worse. I would say it kept me grounded, and better behaved :p at least towards him!
I did bruise a bit! Particularly from the same damn spots he was spanking over and over but nothing too bad. I was sore for the next 2 days.
Communication is key! If you know she craves punishment tell her you crave to punish her! Can't give much advice on the emotional aspect, I can't say going through and punishing her with spanking wouldnt hurt her emotionally. I would hope not and doubt it but who knows. As long as you take her wants needs and feelings into account which may not be as spontaneous I would think you would be fine.
Lol most definitely will, have known I'd be a lifestyler since I was 16!

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


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Clair
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Date Posted: 04:31:29 01/31/23 Tue

Thanks for answering. Oh, I thought this just happened last night.

What is 'sub drop'? I've never heard that term before.

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 10:06:36 01/31/23 Tue

Wouldn't really know how to explain it myself so heres this:
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=subdrop
Perhaps because I am not a sub hence the name lol.

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


Author:
Karl
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Date Posted: 08:33:26 01/31/23 Tue

Berryblue, I'm so happy for you finally getting what you've wanted for such a long time. But how was the actual experience of getting spanked in comparison with the expectation and fantasy of it that you had built up in your mind? And has it really been two years since you turned eighteen?

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 09:59:04 01/31/23 Tue

The expectation was met for sure, as for the fantasy welp wasn't a women so there's that lol.
I said almost two years, I turn 20 in May.

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Karl
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Date Posted: 12:51:10 01/31/23 Tue

You didn't find the pain factor of receiving an actual spanking to be too off-putting?

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 20:40:44 01/31/23 Tue

Hmmm kinda the opposite actually, I think your question would be better answered with my next installment. Y'know the saying a hard head makes a soft behind, it is very much true for me!

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Robert to Berryblue
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Date Posted: 10:05:54 01/31/23 Tue

Glad to hear your first experience went well BB. From what you describe it sounds like your guy has some experience as a disciplinarian. Do you plan to meet up again or maybe you have?

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 20:43:22 01/31/23 Tue

Yes he does! We have met up again, the spanking was much more intense. I will post about it once time allows!

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


Author:
Lesley
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Date Posted: 10:50:27 01/31/23 Tue

Hi Bb!!! Well congratulations, Sweetie! You are part of the red butt club now!! I’m happy that you finally got your wish.

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 21:01:18 01/31/23 Tue

A nice club to be apart of :)

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


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JD to Blueberry
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Date Posted: 14:17:45 01/31/23 Tue

CONGRATULATIONS, Blueberry!!!! That's OUTSTANDING!!!!

Good for you, glad you found someone SAFE!

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JD - SORRY! "Berryblue!"
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Date Posted: 14:19:15 01/31/23 Tue

My apologies!

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Berryblue
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Date Posted: 21:02:15 01/31/23 Tue

Safe and sane :)

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


Author:
Mork and Mindy
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Date Posted: 08:33:31 02/04/23 Sat

Dear Berryblue, Mork and I are so happy you have finally been spanked, almost (aside from gender) as you wished to be and that it appears to be a positive good experience for you.

One great thing about being 20 come May is you'll have many years ahead in which to enjoy -- sort of lol -- your new found friend; a well spanked bottom.

We look forward to reading the next installment.

With a warm hug, Mindy and Mork too

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[> Subject: Re: Introductory Spanking


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Cliff
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Date Posted: 12:16:39 02/22/23 Wed

Berryblue, Glad to hear you finally got your first. And extremely happy to hear is was a good experience. At least it sounds like it was.

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SJ
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Date Posted: 10:00:15 02/23/23 Thu

I seem to have not seen this thread before today, don't know where it's been hiding! Anyway, may I also add my congtratulations to you, BB, for no longer being a virgin spankee. It's about bloody time! I think you took a bit of a risk, but I'm pleased it worked out. I too look forward to the second instalment. Shame hyou don't have a cousin in the UK with similar interests!

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