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I have decent-sized hands, but mine are not thick or wide. They are more long and somewhat narrow, as well as having long fingers. Some of my friends have told me I have good 'piano' fingers. Although I can't play the piano worth a darn. lol However, I have found in having longer fingers do help in wrapping around bottom cheeks and outside (or inner) legs when I swat, as I use my full hand to smack a naughty backside.
I do not concentrate just on their bottom cheeks, but will also smack their sit spots as well as upper thighs. Those are all included as part of a standard spanking. I have always felt giving long, hard and thorough spankings are extremely important. And the best way to give a good, thorough spanking is spanking for a good while. The children have always complained that I "spank forever!" or were scared that I "would never stop!" And that is completely fine with me. I know I give long spankings and I do so for the reason I stated above, to give a good, thorough spanking.
For a normal spanking, I will start with my hand and normally finish with an implement. Although with my grandson AJ, as we just started spankings with him recently, of course I am only using my hand.
But the implement will vary depending on the age of the child. My wooden spanking spoon for the younger children (up to around 7) and hairbrush starting around 8 yrs old. I always begin my spankings with my hand.
My hand spankings are always administered rapid fire and quite hard. I do move my hand around and am quite random on where I smack. I could give 1 swat in one location or 3-4. I will swat anywhere, as I mentioned above, from the top of their buttocks all the way down to their upper thighs. All of it is WELL reddened when I finish my hand spanking. The redness is also intermixed with periodic ridging due to areas where certain areas maybe received more attention/larger amounts of repeated smacking of my hand.
When I go to the implement, I will go back and forth between brisk, hard swatting and then picking a spot and giving a good 4-6 rapid and harder smacks in that one spot. And then I will go back to random, brisk swatting for awhile, pick another spot, and so on. Choosing those spots really gets the children loud and hysterical, especially if I choose the location on their upper thighs. But I don't stop the spanking until I feel the message has been sent and they receive what I feel is an appropriate punishment for their misbehavior.
Much like the other moms, when I am finished, their backside is a glowing, stop sign red. There is always some marking, as well, even with standard spankings. But that is just going to happen when spanking long and hard and using a solid, wooden implement (which both my spanking spoon and hairbrush are). And the children are of course crying buckets of tears and snot. It just seems to never end! But all of the above is the end result of a good, proper and thorough spanking in my home.