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Subject: Re: Our vacation (and spankings)

Sarah to Margaret
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Date Posted: 18:59:15 08/12/22 Fri
In reply to: Margaret 's message, "Re: Our vacation (and spankings)" on 08:09:02 08/12/22 Fri


No, my husband and Chloe stayed back with the van. Whenever I've had to spank at a rest stop, I only have brought the children that are going to be spanked. Where I do feel children seeing a spanking is good for them in keeping them well behaved (or improving their behavior), as well as a good reminder on what can happen with them, I feel it is best to take just those needed to the picnic table.

If I spank Andy first (like this most recent time), I will normally put him in the corner if we are at home. In this situation, I didn't bother with a 'corner', as there really wasn't one to put him in, so I just had him stand near the picnic table while I spanked Derek. Andy is always crying hard when I am spanking Derek (or one of his friends), whether his spanking has happened already or not. If he is still waiting for his spanking (going 2nd), he is of course bawling loudly, as well as even pleading, because he knows he is going to be next.

But he also cries hard if he was already spanked because of course how much it hurts (rubbing his bottom and thighs furiously). However, even if Andy isn't spanked, he is still upset when he sees his friend spanked. Andy has always been a sensitive boy, and unless I am spanking Derek due to doing something 'to' Andy, I know it's somewhat difficult for Andy to see Derek spanked. He doesn't cry 'hard' if Derek just earns a spanking, but I've seen tears stream sometimes. He is most certainly upset and feels sorry for his friend and he also does his best to plead for Derek, as well. I honestly think it's darling. :)

I have heard the same as yourself and Steve, in that my spankings are longer, and/or harder, and worse than they get at home. I've heard it from Andy and Derek, as well as other children I've babysat and from friends of my children (back when I spanked them).

Margaret, that is wonderful with Theo. I am so happy to hear that he he is getting along with the boys now, you couldn't ask for more in that regards.

Andy has been doing fine this week, he isn't following me like a shadow, as he was basically doing for the entire holiday (as was Derek). But both boys have behaved well this week. Listening right away when I've asked or told them to do something and being quite the politeful and helpful boys.

But where the black/blue ovals are almost non-existent now and they haven't had difficulty sitting for quite awhile, I know the spankings are still clearly in their heads and why they've been behaving so well. I am sure it will only be a matter of time before they need to go over my lap again. I completely agree with Mary in that reset button needs to be hit every so often. But until that happens, I am going to enjoy their behavior while I can.

I am sorry, I thought I had explained about Hector in my post about our trip. Hector is 12 yrs old and my youngest sister, Stacey, has been babysitting him for a number of years now. He has gone up with us on the summer family holidays on quite a few of the years.


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Re: Our vacation (and spankings)Margaret to Sarah02:07:09 08/15/22 Mon

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