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Subject: Re: 3 spankings last night here

Margaret to Sarah
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Date Posted: 04:40:12 08/23/22 Tue
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Re: 3 spankings last night here" on 06:27:17 08/22/22 Mon

>There were some spankings here that were definitely
>needed, but I assume all three boys were well aware of
>the time they needed to be home? Mainly asking in
>regards to Theo?
>I ask this because of this line "the other 2 admitted
>they knew what time they should have been home & they
>said nothing to him." So I take it that meant Theo
>didn't know what time it was (due to he didn't have
>his phone)?
>But even if Theo did know they were late, from reading
>over your posts, he very much wants to fit in with the
>family and I am sure he did not want to be 'different'
>and leave the nephews to go home.
>However, I am guessing in the end with your talk with
>Theo, he made it clear with you and Steve that he
>wanted to stay, even though knew he had to be home? In
>the end, it is important he knows he has to obey you
>and Steve at all times. And if he willingly stayed
>late, then he deserved to be spanked. But I agree that
>his spanking was less than your nephews. And not so
>much because of their ages, as when you get to be
>teens, the severity doesn't need to differentiate all
>that much. Meaning, in my experience, a 14 yr old can
>take a sound spanking just as well as you would give a
>16 or 17 yr old. But, I do think peer pressure had a
>lot to do with Theo's spanking in this case and also
>it being his first one as well is good reason as well
>to take it a bit more easy. Either way, he still
>received a memorable spanking from his perspective!
>Good for you, and Steve, Margaret.


The other 2 in this case was the younger nephew & Theo. Granted, Theo didn't know what time it was. But the sun had gone down completely about 5.45pm. They were to be home at 6pm. They got home at 6.45. It is probably true that Theo would have stayed with the boys if he knew they were staying longer than they should have. But he & the younger nephew didn't inquire about the time. And the 2 nephews did not answer their phones. Theo assured us that if he had his phone with him, he would have answered it.

You are right with the intensity of the spanking though, he deserved less than the others, especially as this was to be his first. But at his age, the spanking shouldn't be that different than the other teenagers, I agree in future.

We have since had another talk with Theo about peer pressure & especially with the nephews, he should do what is right & not succumb to their wishes just to fit in. Told the same to the nephews too. If their is a problem he should call us too. Now in saying all that , the 3 of them do not do a lot together anyway. Theo is developing some friends of his own. A couple of boys have visited here on weekends & all was good with them.

Yes, the spanking was memorable for him certainly & for Steve & I too. Proud of the way he handled it & all the aftermath too.

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