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>>Margaret, >> >>There were some spankings here that were definitely >>needed, but I assume all three boys were well aware of >>the time they needed to be home? Mainly asking in >>regards to Theo? >> >>I ask this because of this line "the other 2 admitted >>they knew what time they should have been home & they >>said nothing to him." So I take it that meant Theo >>didn't know what time it was (due to he didn't have >>his phone)? >> >>But even if Theo did know they were late, from reading >>over your posts, he very much wants to fit in with the >>family and I am sure he did not want to be 'different' >>and leave the nephews to go home. >> >>However, I am guessing in the end with your talk with >>Theo, he made it clear with you and Steve that he >>wanted to stay, even though knew he had to be home? In >>the end, it is important he knows he has to obey you >>and Steve at all times. And if he willingly stayed >>late, then he deserved to be spanked. But I agree that >>his spanking was less than your nephews. And not so >>much because of their ages, as when you get to be >>teens, the severity doesn't need to differentiate all >>that much. Meaning, in my experience, a 14 yr old can >>take a sound spanking just as well as you would give a >>16 or 17 yr old. But, I do think peer pressure had a >>lot to do with Theo's spanking in this case and also >>it being his first one as well is good reason as well >>to take it a bit more easy. Either way, he still >>received a memorable spanking from his perspective! >>Good for you, and Steve, Margaret. >> >> >>Sarah > > >Sarah, > >The other 2 in this case was the younger nephew & >Theo. Granted, Theo didn't know what time it was. But >the sun had gone down completely about 5.45pm. They >were to be home at 6pm. They got home at 6.45. It is >probably true that Theo would have stayed with the >boys if he knew they were staying longer than they >should have. But he & the younger nephew didn't >inquire about the time. And the 2 nephews did not >answer their phones. Theo assured us that if he had >his phone with him, he would have answered it. > >You are right with the intensity of the spanking >though, he deserved less than the others, especially >as this was to be his first. But at his age, the >spanking shouldn't be that different than the other >teenagers, I agree in future. > >We have since had another talk with Theo about peer >pressure & especially with the nephews, he should do >what is right & not succumb to their wishes just to >fit in. Told the same to the nephews too. If their is >a problem he should call us too. Now in saying all >that , the 3 of them do not do a lot together anyway. >Theo is developing some friends of his own. A couple >of boys have visited here on weekends & all was good >with them. > >Yes, the spanking was memorable for him certainly & >for Steve & I too. Proud of the way he handled it & >all the aftermath too.
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