Name (required):

  Expression ^{(Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help)}

  E-mail address (optional):

Type your message here:
>Margaret, > >Cuddling/rocking the children in a rocking chair isn't >something I've been hiding, just something we've never >really talked about on the forum until now. Besides, I >don't use the rocking chair with regularity after I've >spanked. As I said, it's really only with the younger >children so they can sit on my lap. A majority of the >time we will cuddle and comfort on the couch, or >sometimes with the older children, they have wanted to >go upstairs to cuddle and talk, as they want to do it >in private. > >Oh my, another spanking for Jordan in the same day! It >is something I have had to do before, but it has been >a long time, quite a number of years. And it primarily >only has happened with the little ones. But the second >spanking for Jordan was very well needed, Margaret. >Apparently his trip over your lap in the morning was >not enough and he still needed that 'black cloud' (as >Mary puts it so accurately) blown (spanked) away. > >I am not one to put down a pillow for additional >comfort as I want it to stay with them as much as >possible, a good reminder. But as you said, he was >still a very sore boy. > >Margaret, have you and Steve always shared the >spanking duties relatively equally? Or would you say >you spank more often than he does? Have the children >hated/feared a spanking more from either of you? > >You may have read in one of my posts awhile back, but >I have been the sole disciplinarian (spanker) for many >years now. My husband tried spanking not long after we >were married. He did not spank his daughter (my >stepdaughter at the time-now middle daughter) before >we were married, but he wanted to have a united front. > >However, we both realized relatively soon that this >wasn't going to work out that well, there was a large >disparity in his spankings to my own. I knew he really >did not want to spank at all so we both came to the >agreement I would handle the spankings from then on. >And I was fine with that, as I would rather have >consistency with all the children than to force both >of us spank and sometimes they receive spankings that >just weren't effective. Besides, he always has been >still a united front when discipline has been needed, >he has always supported me when a spanking is needed. >There was no 'running to Daddy'. Which I feel was the >important thing. > > >Sarah
Choose Message Icon: None :-) Happy >;-) Wink :-D Joy :} Smirk <:-} Innocent ☮ Peace >:) Mischief B-) Shades <3 Heart |O Yawn <:P Sick >:-( Angry :~( Sad ? Question *!* Alert (!) Idea [Info] Info Oo. Talk [ View Emoticons ]

Notice: Copies of your message may remain on this and other systems on internet. Please be respectful.