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'Why bare and why over the lap.' Doris, this is the age old question asked by children every where, why bare? And some moms, also from my older son and my daughter I am asked why over your lap, can you please not spank me bare and not over your lap.
My brother and I were always spanked bare over mom’s lap, I never thought about not being spanked that way, I didn’t think there was any other way than bare over the lap until one of my girlfriends in high school said she was only spanked bare for serious offenses, I brought this up to my mother and she said my spankings would stay the same.
As a mom here is why I have always spanked a bare bottom over my lap.
Bare? Because it is more efficient - you don't have to spank as hard to make sure it hurts. Because you can see the effect it is having and you don't "overspank" or "underspank". I can see the bottom and how the spanking is going especially when I want to attain a certain color/look before I am finished.
Spanking over clothing takes more effort to get even close the same effect as a bare bottom. It's supposed to be a punishment for the kids, not for the parents. Its also inconsistent depending on what they are wearing.
Also, it sends a VERY clear message to the child that he/she is being punished and that their parent is in control of them. It really makes the punishment a lot more effective because they really, really hate having their bottoms bared and going over the knee.