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Subject: <3 Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'

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Date Posted: 18:09:29 05/30/21 Sun
In reply to: Cherie 's message, "Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'" on 20:01:17 05/28/21 Fri

>My sister, sister-in-law and I have all been asked
>this question from our children and I have also been
>asked by a couple nieces and nephews, "why do you
>always spank me on my bare bottom?”
>My first answer is, because that is the way I was
>spanked and that is the way I will always spank you,
>no matter how old you get to be, and you should see
>their faces when I said that. I also tell them,
>because that is the way I want to spank, I know how
>much it hurts.
>I don't tell them this, I also very much enjoy the
>feel and the unmistakable sound of my hand spanking
>their bare bottom.
>When I bare my boy’s bottom for their spanking or
>when I spank one of my nephews or nieces, it is a task
>I perform only with them positioned over my lap so as
>to maximize the embarrassment factor in my actually
>witnessing their bottom's transition from clothed to
>bare. I feel it is one of the most potent features:
>the embarrassment attached to the methodical, maternal
>baring of a backside.
>I do lower their underpants/panties methodically. They
>can still expect to have his or her underpants or
>panties taken down for a session over my lap no matter
>how old or big he or she is. Embarrassment is a
>byproduct of being spanked bare not the reason or
>focus. I believe it shows that I am in charge and I
>can and will bare their bottom and spank.
>As I have said before, this is something I got from
>another spanking mom of 2 boys years ago and never
>forgot it, “a boy's underpants are the dividing line
>between the desperate retention of his delusions of
>autonomy and the harsh reality of his behavioral
>accountability.” Who better to take them down than
>his mom who most likely taught him to pull them up.
>When starting to spank as a mom I never gave any
>thought to it nor did my sister, I have never spanked
>any other way but a bared bottom ‘over my lap’ I
>heard it referred to as the time honored position.
>Sitting, legs opened just enough, turned to the left
>just enough so that they are face down with the couch
>or their bed underneath them. Pulled forward as well,
>pinning their right arm to their lower back with my
>left forearm pressed against their back, I have them
>under control and they can struggle. I have no trouble
>with my newly turned 16 year old Steven controlling
>him he still fits nicely over my lap.
>Even with my older and taller son Aaron I am able to
>control and spank him over my lap which to me is the
>only position to use when spanking, no matter what
>age. What I did with him starting back in the
>beginning of August 2020 when I spanked, I learned on
>this forum, I sit back enough on his bed or couch and
>have him get his hips over my lap with his upper body
>and legs supported on either side by his bed or the
>couch, there were two occasions with my oldest who is
>now 18 when he was 17 that when I spanked with my hand
>I could control him, but I had to move forward
>dropping his legs down and lock my right leg over both
>of his when spanking with my brush as he is kicking

You're very much a mother after my own heart, Cherie. I rather think you might be familiar with some of my writing from years ago on "Mister Poll." I know I always enjoy reading your posts on topics like this.

Here's a brief homage to our shared devotion:
"The taking down of underpants is an action that resonates beyond the actual baring of the buttocks. As distressing as it surely is for an older child to be stood in front of the parent and strategically bared below the waist, having to then lie bare-bottomed across the parental lap - not for any sort of medical procedure, but rather, for the purpose of receiving a good, sound spanking - is a devastating repudiation of the adolescent's own presumptions of maturity. Because there now is no last, desperate clinging to concealment and the trappings of pseudoadulthood. The child's bottom is completely bare and subject to parental scrutiny that is never as keenly felt so long as the gluteal cleft remains hidden from view. There, literally, is the dividing line between an over-the-knee spanking's superficial wounding of juvenile pride and the serious, heartfelt separation from the image of adolescent independence that is part and parcel of an over-the-knee spanking on the bare bottom."

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Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'Cherie to Gretchen07:33:22 05/31/21 Mon

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