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>Sarah, >That may have been a little misleadingly worded on my >part. I warned him, and when he kept moaning and >squirming and not behaving, I gave him a look, and he >got the message that he was going over my knee once >again. At dinner, he made a show of bugging all of us. >Even his brother Jan rolled his eyes in annoyance. >Marek sometimes likes to be an actor, dramatic or >comic, he puts on his show. >I always administer a second spanking only when I >think it's important and necessary. At that moment I >thought he needed it. > > > > > >>Ivana, >> >>I assume this was a chore Marek has been given before >>and was already well aware on how little, or in this >>case, too much water is needed. As long as the >>children are clearly aware what and how it needs to be >>done, then I completely agree a good, sound spanking >>is needed when they do a poor job at it. >> >>It certainly sounds like Marek most definitely needed >>one in this situation, as well. I would have done the >>same, Ivana. >> >>When you said you 'dried him off a bit', I assume you >>left the all-important bottom and thighs wet? As I >>think all of us can attest here, administering a sound >>and thorough spanking on damp bottom sends the message >>even more clearly. >> >>Ivana, I first want to say I am in support of >>follow-up spankings. A child continuing to act up >>afterwards has been an extremely rare situation for >>me, I can't remember the last time it's happened. But >>I have given a follow-up hand spanking when it has. >>But I also have administered follow-up spankings when >>the kids have misbehaved away from home, which I >>consider more serious misbehavior, and I will give a >>follow-up hand spanking once we get home as a >>reinforcement and let them know how disappointed Mommy >>was with their misbehavior, especially if I had to >>spank at church. I also have given follow-up spankings >>when they have misbehaved at another home or earned a >>spanking under someone else's care. >> >>But as for this situation with Marek, I am curious, >>but why did you end up giving the follow-up spanking >>if you indicated he "got the message" after your >>warning look? I am not trying to be critical, just >>trying to understand where your thoughts were going. >>But I think since he did receive your message from >>your warning, a follow-up wasn't needed. >> >>That said, I wouldn't stop using follow-up spankings, >>because as I said I do support them and feel they have >>their place, but from the information I have been >>given here, I don't think it was needed. >> >> >>Sarah
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