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>Janet, > >I want to welcome you to the group, as well. I think >you have noticed already we have a lot of great moms >here that also share in your belief and use of >spanking. Mary does a wonderful job moderating the >group, keeping it safe here from unsavory elements. I >know you will enjoy your time. > >To answer your questions, I have spanked other >children than my own many times over the years. While >my children were growing up (they are grown now), I >did have shared spanking privileges with a number of >their friends mothers, so there many instances I >spanked friends of my children over the years. I did >also spank my nieces and nephews while they were >growing up. As my sisters did the same with my own >children. But like my children, all of my nieces and >nephews are all grown now. > >I also have babysat often, especially since most of my >children moved out on their own. And I only will agree >to babysit as long as I have permission to spank. >Currently I am babysitting three children in the >summer. A 5 yr old boy, 10 yr old girl and 15 yr old >boy. And all three of them keep my lap relatively >busy, especially the 5 and 10 yr olds. > >Some may think the 15 yr old is a bit old to be >babysat, but our relationship is a bit unique as I >also view and love him very much like a son. You may >have seen me bring him up in some of my posts, his >name is Andy. But I have sat for him in the day >Monday-Friday this summer while his mom works and all >year round he sometimes stays with me 1-2 weeks at a >time when his mother has to travel for work. I have >been babysitting (and spanking) Andy since he has been >8 yrs old. I have also known, and spanked, his best >friend Derek almost as long (although with nowhere >near the same frequency). > >And finally, I am also a grandmother that spanks when >needed. Usually when I am babysitting my >grandchildren, but there have been times I have also >spanked them during visits or family gatherings. I >have 5 grandchildren. Three girls (9 yrs, 2 1/2 yrs & >6 months) and 2 boys (4 yrs & 6 months). Of course the >only two I have spanked are the oldest two, as they >are the only ones of proper spanking age so far. > >But to answer your question on if I think it's ok to >spank another child than my own, I think you know I >believe that to be yes. Just because they are not my >own, doesn't mean they need it any less, or that >spanking do them any less good. As long as you have >permission to do so, I most definitely feel it is ok. >And as I said, I actually will not babysit unless I >have permission to spank. > >Also, I am much like Mary where I have not allowed >friends of my children to sleep over if I do not have >authority to spank. I believe having consistency of >(same) discipline is important between the children, >never mind I feel spanking being the most effective. > >Janet, for your last question, I have never had issues >spanking in front of others if the child decides to >misbehave in front of them. I have never been a mom to >take a child to another room to spank just so it can >be done in private. They are of course more >embarrassed when I have spanked them in front of >others, but I have always reminded them it was their >misbehavior that put them here in the first place. It >was in their complete control not to be spanked, >including in front of whomever was there. All they >need to do is behave. They of course have never liked >that response. > > >Sarah
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