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Subject: Re: Spanking Friends or others outside of Family

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Date Posted: 22:03:34 07/24/22 Sun
In reply to: Janet 's message, "Spanking Friends or others outside of Family" on 11:39:46 07/24/22 Sun


I want to welcome you to the group, as well. I think you have noticed already we have a lot of great moms here that also share in your belief and use of spanking. Mary does a wonderful job moderating the group, keeping it safe here from unsavory elements. I know you will enjoy your time.

To answer your questions, I have spanked other children than my own many times over the years. While my children were growing up (they are grown now), I did have shared spanking privileges with a number of their friends mothers, so there many instances I spanked friends of my children over the years. I did also spank my nieces and nephews while they were growing up. As my sisters did the same with my own children. But like my children, all of my nieces and nephews are all grown now.

I also have babysat often, especially since most of my children moved out on their own. And I only will agree to babysit as long as I have permission to spank. Currently I am babysitting three children in the summer. A 5 yr old boy, 10 yr old girl and 15 yr old boy. And all three of them keep my lap relatively busy, especially the 5 and 10 yr olds.

Some may think the 15 yr old is a bit old to be babysat, but our relationship is a bit unique as I also view and love him very much like a son. You may have seen me bring him up in some of my posts, his name is Andy. But I have sat for him in the day Monday-Friday this summer while his mom works and all year round he sometimes stays with me 1-2 weeks at a time when his mother has to travel for work. I have been babysitting (and spanking) Andy since he has been 8 yrs old. I have also known, and spanked, his best friend Derek almost as long (although with nowhere near the same frequency).

And finally, I am also a grandmother that spanks when needed. Usually when I am babysitting my grandchildren, but there have been times I have also spanked them during visits or family gatherings. I have 5 grandchildren. Three girls (9 yrs, 2 1/2 yrs & 6 months) and 2 boys (4 yrs & 6 months). Of course the only two I have spanked are the oldest two, as they are the only ones of proper spanking age so far.

But to answer your question on if I think it's ok to spank another child than my own, I think you know I believe that to be yes. Just because they are not my own, doesn't mean they need it any less, or that spanking do them any less good. As long as you have permission to do so, I most definitely feel it is ok. And as I said, I actually will not babysit unless I have permission to spank.

Also, I am much like Mary where I have not allowed friends of my children to sleep over if I do not have authority to spank. I believe having consistency of (same) discipline is important between the children, never mind I feel spanking being the most effective.

Janet, for your last question, I have never had issues spanking in front of others if the child decides to misbehave in front of them. I have never been a mom to take a child to another room to spank just so it can be done in private. They are of course more embarrassed when I have spanked them in front of others, but I have always reminded them it was their misbehavior that put them here in the first place. It was in their complete control not to be spanked, including in front of whomever was there. All they need to do is behave. They of course have never liked that response.


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Re: Spanking Friends or others outside of FamilyJanet09:05:51 07/25/22 Mon

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