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Subject: Spankings for Derek and Andy


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Sarah
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Date Posted: 09:40:34 07/01/22 Fri
 As some of you already knew, Andy’s best friend Derek stayed overnight last night. With it being summer, Derek will likely be over here often in the day to play with Andy and I am sure it will not be the last sleepover. Andy stays with me for a week or two at a time when his mother has to travel for work. He is towards the end of a two-week stay with me right now.

In a discussion I had with Maria (in my Soaping and Spanking for Andy thread), we had spoken about bedtimes. I have always had firm bedtimes for the kids and gave them bedtimes up until right before they left for college. I know I have probably been more strict than a lot of moms, but I feel getting good sleep is very important and I also knew if I didn’t set a bedtime, even when they got to be older, then they would stay up longer than they should.

That said, with my girls, especially my oldest, I never had to enforce it. At least when they got to be older. Only an occasional reminder needed that it was bedtime and spankings were rare. I never had to spank my oldest once she got into her mid or late teens and rarely in her early teens, period. But my son continued to argue about it well into his teens, and found himself over my lap still consistently for it. Andy has been much the same in that regards. It seems very much a boy thing!

Where the spankings in this thread weren't a direct result of resisting bedtime, what they were told to stop doing (and didn't listen) was because they needed to go to bed. So it was related to it.

Andy’s current bedtime for the summer is 10pm. But I do extend it for a couple of hours whenever he has a sleepover to midnight. I think that is completely fair. He doesn’t need to stay up to all hours into the night/morning to where he is sleeping half the next day, as well as throwing off his schedule. When my children had friends stay overnight, and now the same with Andy, their friends took on the same bedtime. And yes, I did get the “But my mom doesn’t make me go to bed at this time!” more than once. But I always have reminded them that while they are staying in my home, they will be following the rules I have set up, including the bedtime that is established.

When I gave a quick rundown on the rules to the boys earlier in the day, including bedtime (I always do so just so it’s clear), I got the eye rolls and “Yes, yes, I know Mom.” responses. They weren’t done with any sort of attitude or sass, just when they get goofy. They were both in a good mood as it was earlier in the day, and in their mind, ‘had forever to do things’ and certainly weren’t thinking of bedtime. So I told them to get out of my hair and have fun.

When it got near dinner, I decided to order pizzas and we all watched the latest Ms. Marvel episode. I haven’t watched anywhere near all of the Marvel movies or shows as the boys have, but they just love them. They have tried to explain the entire story to me more than once, something about stones and Tanos, but my eyes glaze over. They get frustrated. "Mooom! It's not that hard!" lol But I really like Ms. Marvel, Kamala is just adorable. :)

Afterwards, the boys were left alone to their video games and played them all the way until bedtime. I usually do not allow video games to be played for that long, but it is another exception I make for sleepovers.

At 11:30, I went downstairs and told the boys they should start wrapping it up soon as bedtime is in 30 minutes and they need to get ready, as well. Bedtime means bedtime, after brushing teeth, and in the past, changing if they need to. When they were younger, they wore full-sized pajamas, always of their varying superheroes or favorite characters (and they were so darling in them!). But now they just sleep in their underpants, which in themselves their tight bottoms are adorable to look at. Although they don’t parade around the house like they used to in their full pjs. :( The boys currently had on pajama bottom shorts and a night-shirt.

Their shoulders slumped when I gave the announcement, but told me they wanted to finish the stage and then would shut it off. I told them as long as it allowed them to brush their teeth and be in their sleeping bags by midnight, they can finish their stage.

What the boys have always done during the sleepovers is sleep downstairs in the rec room. We have a large amount of space in our rec room, so they have just thrown the sleeping bags on the floor and ‘camped out’. My children, before they had families, sometimes camped out with Andy and his friends and they loved it. Like having big sisters and a big brother. Andy and his friends encouraged me to do the same, back when he wanted to do everything with me and I was always "Mommy."

We do have padding under the carpeting downstairs, but my days of 'camping out' on the floor are long over for this old Mom/Grandma, even a few years ago. I would start waking up with aches in places I never knew I had.

But both boys assured me it would be turned off and furiously kept playing. However, 15 minutes later I still heard the game going on downstairs and went down once again. I told them, “You really need to wrap this up now.” They immediately whined “But we haven’t finished the stage yet!” I told them “I don’t care, it’s almost time for bed. You can play it again tomorrow morning.” They came back again with “But we’ll lose all our progress!” However, I just told them “You have 5 minutes. If it’s not off within that time, I will be coming down here with my hairbrush and will be putting it to use. Do you understand me?”

With the title of my post, everyone here knows what ended up happening. I gave them their five minutes to shut that system off but could hear it still going from upstairs. I sighed, but went and retrieved my hairbrush from my purse and went downstairs as promised. When the boys saw me coming down the stairs, hairbrush in hand, I got the “Noooooooooooooo!!” from both of them. Then Andy rushing over to the console, “See, we are turning it off!” But I told him, “It’s too late, young man. You had several chances to stop playing, but you chose not to listen. Because of that now both of you are getting a sound, bare bottom spanking over my knee.”

The "Pleeeeese noooooo!"s and "We didn't meeeean it!" started (that last one is my favorite, you didn't mean to not shut off the game system?) But I just took a hold of both of them, walked over to the couch, sat down and began to bare them. I then told them “Maybe next time when I tell you to turn off your game system and get ready for bed, you will do so.” At this point, Andy was already starting to cry and plead hard, saying he was “Sooo soorrry!”

As I have said, Andy has always cried hard and pleaded and desperately before the spanking, no matter his age. With Derek, when I spanked him as a younger boy, he cried and begged hard during the pre-spanking baring. However, in more recent years, he has held it in more and gives more those lighter, crocodile tears, which what he was doing now. Although it was still very evident he was a very unhappy little boy at the moment.

I bared Derek first, then Andy, removing everything from the waist down. Then I scolded both boys for a short while as they stood in front of me. I got into “Mommy” mode. “When Mommy tells you it is almost time to turn off your game, you need to take that seriously and make plans to do so. When Mommy gives you a specific time frame to turn it off in, you absolutely need to listen. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t ‘beaten the boss’ or if you haven’t ‘reached the save point’. When it’s time to turn it off, you turn it off. Do you understand?”

I could tell they wanted to make an argument. Probably something along the lines of how much time they would lose if they turned it off like that, but they decided not to (say anything). But I have heard it before, and my response has been something along the lines of “You may lose time in the game, time that you may view as valuable in being lost. But it doesn’t compare to the time you lose in real life, especially time towards bed, if you continued to play instead of turning it off. That game time can always be made up again. Time in life cannot.”

But this time they only responded with a “Yes Mommy/ma’am.” Derek said “We’re really sorry!” and Andy indicated “We won’t do it again!” I smiled to myself on that last one. Where I know he meant it at the time, I also know almost certainly it won’t be the last time.

I spanked Derek first and turned him over my lap. Andy just waited sitting in the chair off to my right, sobbing hard. The spanking for Derek was much the same as how I always hand spank.

I spanked rapid fire and very hard from beginning to end. Where Derek is relatively quiet during the pre-spanking baring and lecturing with crying, that of course changed once my hand spanking began. His legs shot out, head snapped up and his arms flailed out in front of him, as he let out a loud wail and began bawling. As I continued to hand spank, he continued to let me, and the whole house, know how much it hurt.

I knew my youngest (22) was still awake in her bedroom and where my husband was long in bed, slept like a rock. Being 2 floors down I hoped he slept through these spankings. But even if it did wake him (which he has from time to time), he would be able to get right back to sleep soon afterwards. I wish I had that capability!

Derek was already well on his way through that “spanking time machine”, referring to me as ‘Mommy’ and bawling and screaming like a little boy. “Ohhhhhh Moommyyy!! It huuuuurtssss soooo muuuchhh!! Pleeeeasee stooopp!!!” But of course I continued to spank. Where I felt the boys' behavior wasn’t serious and only needed standard spankings, they were of course still going to be sound and thorough ones, as a proper spanking always should be. And we weren’t too far into Derek’s hand spanking yet, however much he felt he “couldn’t take anymore.”

When I finally finished with my hand, Derek was besides himself and had reached hysterics well before I had finished. But the hairbrush portion was even worse for him, as it always is for the children. Where I didn’t spank as hard and rapidly (all the way through) like I did with my hand, I still gave him a hard hairbrush spanking and administered my standard going back and forth between random swatting and then picking a spot and giving a good 4-6 rapid and harder swats in that spot. Those have always gotten the children screaming especially loud and hysterical, which was no different for Derek during his spanking. I spanked him for a good while, just like I did with my hand, and he let me know, with all his lungs, how much it hurt and how he “can’t take anymore!!!” a number of times, at least until it got to the point where he was crying so hard he could no longer speak legibly (happens during every spanking). Mary has referred to it as ‘spanking babble’, I very much agree!

When I finally finished with the hairbrush, his bottom, sit spots and upper thighs had that standard crimson red mixed in with the periodic (and sometimes overlapping) black/blue oval markings from my hairbrush.

The spanking for Andy was administered very much the same way and his response was also akin in his response. Each child has some unique differences on how they respond, but all of them are very much the same in how loud and animated they are on my lap while I spank. And Andy is definitely no different in that regards!

I didn’t give corner time to the boys as we were near bedtime, but we did spend a good amount time after the spankings talking, while I comforted them. Where I am one of the moms that does enjoy having and viewing that bare bottom over my lap, one of my absolute favorite times is the post-cuddling afterwards, making them feel all better. They both cried, and hard again, during the comfort time. Saying how sorry they were, over and over. And much like Mary has said with her boys, my shirt was “soaked with tears and snot”. But I am just fine with that. Having a tear and snot stained top that you have to change/clean is standard practice in being a spanking Mom (or Grandma/babysitter). :)

They are both still asleep now while I write this. But I can see them waking later and arguing whose spanked bottom is "worse". lol


Sarah
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Replies:
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Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyCandace10:40:19 07/01/22 Fri
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyMary11:20:00 07/01/22 Fri
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyIvana11:54:54 07/01/22 Fri
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyStephanie17:10:40 07/01/22 Fri
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyMargaret20:46:09 07/01/22 Fri
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyCherie07:47:51 07/02/22 Sat
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyAmanda J.10:01:41 07/03/22 Sun
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndyMaria B.04:13:33 07/04/22 Mon
Bedtime spankings can be helpfulMarkW13:29:19 07/11/22 Mon
Re: Spankings for Derek and AndySavanna17:15:37 07/17/22 Sun

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