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>>As some of you already knew, Andy’s best friend >>Derek stayed overnight last night. With it being >>summer, Derek will likely be over here often in the >>day to play with Andy and I am sure it will not be the >>last sleepover. Andy stays with me for a week or two >>at a time when his mother has to travel for work. He >>is towards the end of a two-week stay with me right >>now. >> >>In a discussion I had with Maria (in my Soaping and >>Spanking for Andy thread), we had spoken about >>bedtimes. I have always had firm bedtimes for the kids >>and gave them bedtimes up until right before they left >>for college. I know I have probably been more strict >>than a lot of moms, but I feel getting good sleep is >>very important and I also knew if I didn’t set a >>bedtime, even when they got to be older, then they >>would stay up longer than they should. >> >>That said, with my girls, especially my oldest, I >>never had to enforce it. At least when they got to be >>older. Only an occasional reminder needed that it was >>bedtime and spankings were rare. I never had to spank >>my oldest once she got into her mid or late teens and >>rarely in her early teens, period. But my son >>continued to argue about it well into his teens, and >>found himself over my lap still consistently for it. >>Andy has been much the same in that regards. It seems >>very much a boy thing! >> >>Where the spankings in this thread weren't a direct >>result of resisting bedtime, what they were told to >>stop doing (and didn't listen) was because they needed >>to go to bed. So it was related to it. >> >>Andy’s current bedtime for the summer is 10pm. But I >>do extend it for a couple of hours whenever he has a >>sleepover to midnight. I think that is completely >>fair. He doesn’t need to stay up to all hours into >>the night/morning to where he is sleeping half the >>next day, as well as throwing off his schedule. When >>my children had friends stay overnight, and now the >>same with Andy, their friends took on the same >>bedtime. And yes, I did get the “But my mom >>doesn’t make me go to bed at this time!” more than >>once. But I always have reminded them that while they >>are staying in my home, they will be following the >>rules I have set up, including the bedtime that is >>established. >> >>When I gave a quick rundown on the rules to the boys >>earlier in the day, including bedtime (I always do so >>just so it’s clear), I got the eye rolls and “Yes, >>yes, I know Mom.” responses. They weren’t done >>with any sort of attitude or sass, just when they get >>goofy. They were both in a good mood as it was earlier >>in the day, and in their mind, ‘had forever to do >>things’ and certainly weren’t thinking of bedtime. >> So I told them to get out of my hair and have fun. >> >>When it got near dinner, I decided to order pizzas and >>we all watched the latest Ms. Marvel episode. I >>haven’t watched anywhere near all of the Marvel >>movies or shows as the boys have, but they just love >>them. They have tried to explain the entire story to >>me more than once, something about stones and Tanos, >>but my eyes glaze over. They get frustrated. "Mooom! >>It's not that hard!" lol But I really like Ms. Marvel, >>Kamala is just adorable. :) >> >>Afterwards, the boys were left alone to their video >>games and played them all the way until bedtime. I >>usually do not allow video games to be played for that >>long, but it is another exception I make for >>sleepovers. >> >>At 11:30, I went downstairs and told the boys they >>should start wrapping it up soon as bedtime is in 30 >>minutes and they need to get ready, as well. Bedtime >>means bedtime, after brushing teeth, and in the past, >>changing if they need to. When they were younger, they >>wore full-sized pajamas, always of their varying >>superheroes or favorite characters (and they were so >>darling in them!). But now they just sleep in their >>underpants, which in themselves their tight bottoms >>are adorable to look at. Although they don’t parade >>around the house like they used to in their full pjs. >>:( The boys currently had on pajama bottom shorts and >>a night-shirt. >> >>Their shoulders slumped when I gave the announcement, >>but told me they wanted to finish the stage and then >>would shut it off. I told them as long as it allowed >>them to brush their teeth and be in their sleeping >>bags by midnight, they can finish their stage. >> >>What the boys have always done during the sleepovers >>is sleep downstairs in the rec room. We have a large >>amount of space in our rec room, so they have just >>thrown the sleeping bags on the floor and ‘camped >>out’. My children, before they had families, >>sometimes camped out with Andy and his friends and >>they loved it. Like having big sisters and a big >>brother. Andy and his friends encouraged me to do the >>same, back when he wanted to do everything with me and >>I was always "Mommy." >> >>We do have padding under the carpeting downstairs, but >>my days of 'camping out' on the floor are long over >>for this old Mom/Grandma, even a few years ago. I >>would start waking up with aches in places I never >>knew I had. >> >>But both boys assured me it would be turned off and >>furiously kept playing. However, 15 minutes later I >>still heard the game going on downstairs and went down >>once again. I told them, “You really need to wrap >>this up now.” They immediately whined “But we >>haven’t finished the stage yet!” I told them “I >>don’t care, it’s almost time for bed. You can play >>it again tomorrow morning.” They came back again >>with “But we’ll lose all our progress!” However, >>I just told them “You have 5 minutes. If it’s not >>off within that time, I will be coming down here with >>my hairbrush and will be putting it to use. Do you >>understand me?” >> >>With the title of my post, everyone here knows what >>ended up happening. I gave them their five minutes to >>shut that system off but could hear it still going >>from upstairs. I sighed, but went and retrieved my >>hairbrush from my purse and went downstairs as >>promised. When the boys saw me coming down the stairs, >>hairbrush in hand, I got the “Noooooooooooooo!!” >>from both of them. Then Andy rushing over to the >>console, “See, we are turning it off!” But I told >>him, “It’s too late, young man. You had several >>chances to stop playing, but you chose not to listen. >>Because of that now both of you are getting a sound, >>bare bottom spanking over my knee.” >> >>The "Pleeeeese noooooo!"s and "We didn't meeeean it!" >>started (that last one is my favorite, you didn't mean >>to not shut off the game system?) But I just took a >>hold of both of them, walked over to the couch, sat >>down and began to bare them. I then told them “Maybe >>next time when I tell you to turn off your game system >>and get ready for bed, you will do so.” At this >>point, Andy was already starting to cry and plead >>hard, saying he was “Sooo soorrry!” >> >>As I have said, Andy has always cried hard and pleaded >>and desperately before the spanking, no matter his >>age. With Derek, when I spanked him as a younger boy, >>he cried and begged hard during the pre-spanking >>baring. However, in more recent years, he has held it >>in more and gives more those lighter, crocodile tears, >>which what he was doing now. Although it was still >>very evident he was a very unhappy little boy at the >>moment. >> >>I bared Derek first, then Andy, removing everything >>from the waist down. Then I scolded both boys for a >>short while as they stood in front of me. I got into >>“Mommy” mode. “When Mommy tells you it is almost >>time to turn off your game, you need to take that >>seriously and make plans to do so. When Mommy gives >>you a specific time frame to turn it off in, you >>absolutely need to listen. It doesn’t matter if you >>haven’t ‘beaten the boss’ or if you haven’t >>‘reached the save point’. When it’s time to turn >>it off, you turn it off. Do you understand?” >> >>I could tell they wanted to make an argument. Probably >>something along the lines of how much time they would >>lose if they turned it off like that, but they decided >>not to (say anything). But I have heard it before, and >>my response has been something along the lines of >>“You may lose time in the game, time that you may >>view as valuable in being lost. But it doesn’t >>compare to the time you lose in real life, especially >>time towards bed, if you continued to play instead of >>turning it off. That game time can always be made up >>again. Time in life cannot.” >> >>But this time they only responded with a “Yes >>Mommy/ma’am.” Derek said “We’re really >>sorry!” and Andy indicated “We won’t do it >>again!” I smiled to myself on that last one. Where I >>know he meant it at the time, I also know almost >>certainly it won’t be the last time. >> >>I spanked Derek first and turned him over my lap. Andy >>just waited sitting in the chair off to my right, >>sobbing hard. The spanking for Derek was much the same >>as how I always hand spank. >> >>I spanked rapid fire and very hard from beginning to >>end. Where Derek is relatively quiet during the >>pre-spanking baring and lecturing with crying, that of >>course changed once my hand spanking began. His legs >>shot out, head snapped up and his arms flailed out in >>front of him, as he let out a loud wail and began >>bawling. As I continued to hand spank, he continued to >>let me, and the whole house, know how much it hurt. >> >>I knew my youngest (22) was still awake in her bedroom >>and where my husband was long in bed, slept like a >>rock. Being 2 floors down I hoped he slept through >>these spankings. But even if it did wake him (which he >>has from time to time), he would be able to get right >>back to sleep soon afterwards. I wish I had that >>capability! >> >>Derek was already well on his way through that >>“spanking time machine”, referring to me as >>‘Mommy’ and bawling and screaming like a little >>boy. “Ohhhhhh Moommyyy!! It huuuuurtssss soooo >>muuuchhh!! Pleeeeasee stooopp!!!” But of course I >>continued to spank. Where I felt the boys' behavior >>wasn’t serious and only needed standard spankings, >>they were of course still going to be sound and >>thorough ones, as a proper spanking always should be. >>And we weren’t too far into Derek’s hand spanking >>yet, however much he felt he “couldn’t take >>anymore.” >> >>When I finally finished with my hand, Derek was >>besides himself and had reached hysterics well before >>I had finished. But the hairbrush portion was even >>worse for him, as it always is for the children. Where >>I didn’t spank as hard and rapidly (all the way >>through) like I did with my hand, I still gave him a >>hard hairbrush spanking and administered my standard >>going back and forth between random swatting and then >>picking a spot and giving a good 4-6 rapid and harder >>swats in that spot. Those have always gotten the >>children screaming especially loud and hysterical, >>which was no different for Derek during his spanking. >>I spanked him for a good while, just like I did with >>my hand, and he let me know, with all his lungs, how >>much it hurt and how he “can’t take anymore!!!” >>a number of times, at least until it got to the point >>where he was crying so hard he could no longer speak >>legibly (happens during every spanking). Mary has >>referred to it as ‘spanking babble’, I very much >>agree! >> >>When I finally finished with the hairbrush, his >>bottom, sit spots and upper thighs had that standard >>crimson red mixed in with the periodic (and sometimes >>overlapping) black/blue oval markings from my >>hairbrush. >> >>The spanking for Andy was administered very much the >>same way and his response was also akin in his >>response. Each child has some unique differences on >>how they respond, but all of them are very much the >>same in how loud and animated they are on my lap while >>I spank. And Andy is definitely no different in that >>regards! >> >>I didn’t give corner time to the boys as we were >>near bedtime, but we did spend a good amount time >>after the spankings talking, while I comforted them. >>Where I am one of the moms that does enjoy having and >>viewing that bare bottom over my lap, one of my >>absolute favorite times is the post-cuddling >>afterwards, making them feel all better. They both >>cried, and hard again, during the comfort time. Saying >>how sorry they were, over and over. And much like Mary >>has said with her boys, my shirt was “soaked with >>tears and snot”. But I am just fine with that. >>Having a tear and snot stained top that you have to >>change/clean is standard practice in being a spanking >>Mom (or Grandma/babysitter). :) >> >>They are both still asleep now while I write this. But >>I can see them waking later and arguing whose spanked >>bottom is "worse". lol >> >> >>Sarah > >Another great read Sarah. What is it with boys & video >games? They should come with a warning, use at your >peril. lol I was a bit lucky in that both my boys were >not big fans of video games. But my nephews are & >tehre has been many a spanking for them & my sister >used to tell me it was the same growing up for them. > >Gee Andy should have known better. Both knew what >would/could happen with your warnings. You certainly >gave them more chances than I would have. I was hoping >that they both would behave particularly so that Andy >got spanked last week. > >Personally I am not a real fan of sleepovers, they >turn into spankovers more often than not. Just means >more work for me or my husband. > >Both boys really did earn these spankings Sarah. And a >proper spanking will always leave the culprit begging >& yelling for the spanking to stop & also leave them >with crimson cheeks & thighs if not a little purple >too. > >I do love the cuddling there after & yes, my shirts >end up having to be thrown in the laundry too. >Although it didn't happen yesterday because the boys >had to get to school, the boys will always cuddle up >next to me after a spanking or even gingerly 'sit' on >my lap, crying it out still naked & not caring about >that at all. Hugh& Aaron were the same growing up, not >so much the girls who wanted to get away quickly in >their teens but preteens they would stay with me for a >while. Now when Andy & Derek got spanked, were they >still naked with you during the cuddling? > >Did your daughter wake up at all do you know? > >Oh, I was never keen to get into a sleeping bag when >there were sleepovers here. My back didn't like hard >surface of the floor! lol
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