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Subject: Re: Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?

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Date Posted: 07:01:04 07/06/22 Wed
In reply to: Maureen 's message, "Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?" on 06:26:45 07/06/22 Wed


Nice to see you again,

I have been asked this so many times over the years and we have seen it on this forum, "how do mom's control your child and older children before and during a spanking? What if they fight you? I understand resisting some what, some hesitation, having to be pulled along but they will learn not to resist too much when told to "come here" or being taken to where they will be spanked if they did they received a more serious spanking. But if they truly fight the one that is going to spank then there is no respect or love and a big problem in that household.

I started from the first time I spanked, teaching respect for me and the spanking procedures, I spent time explaining to them what was going to happen and why, what I expected of them, I have also told other children that have been under my care the same things.

I have taught them it is up to the one that is going to be spanked to be accepting their punishment (no matter how much they don't want too) no matter how scared they are, they do as much as can be expected considering what is about to happen to them. It is a part of the spanking process, it is also a life's lesson, this is a part of life, there are consequences.

The punishment from the beginning of when I started spanking was if they put up a struggle before their spanking, interfering with being bared. I would give another hand spanking an hour after their spanking, they learned quick and were very respectful of a loving mom and one that they knew was the boss, they also have a good healthy fear of me as well.

This was also how my sister and I were raised and the thought of not cooperating struggling not to be bared or going over her lap with mom never occurred to us, we respected and loved our mom then and do now. My boys and their friends love and respect me and they know how much I love them.

When I help the one to be spanked over my lap I take my time making sure I have them adjusted right where I want them, my personal preference is to have my legs apart as this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat, also I wear my jeans at home and spank in them, I think jeans are a help as wearing a dress or skirt can be slippery and easily moves around aiding them in their squirming.

They will usually at this point reach back to cover their bottom or if not then I will tell them to reach back then I take their wrist/forearm and pin it to their lower back with my elbow/forearm pressing against their upper back helping to control their body and it allows them to squirm, struggle be animated, wiggle and kick away yet I have their body under control. I don't get upset because they do this how vocal they do become, as I view it as a natural reaction that can't be helped and shows me I am getting through to them, the way I see it is if they aren’t this way then I’m doing something wrong.

I will also tell them before I spank to grab onto a pillow, cushion or the chair leg when sitting on a kitchen chair to help keep their left hand busy, this works for a while but they do end up flailing away with that arm, if by some chance they do manage to get their left arm back to block I will pin them both, this has very rarely happened.

Even though I am not that tall, at 5’5, though I am strong for a woman with good size strong hands and haven't had that much trouble in controlling any one I spank but putting one of my legs over theirs will always be an option if need be.

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Re: Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?Candace07:39:44 07/06/22 Wed

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