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>Maureen, > >Nice to see you again, > >I have been asked this so many times over the years >and we have seen it on this forum, "how do mom's >control your child and older children before and >during a spanking? What if they fight you? I >understand resisting some what, some hesitation, >having to be pulled along but they will learn not to >resist too much when told to "come here" or being >taken to where they will be spanked if they did they >received a more serious spanking. But if they truly >fight the one that is going to spank then there is no >respect or love and a big problem in that household. > >I started from the first time I spanked, teaching >respect for me and the spanking procedures, I spent >time explaining to them what was going to happen and >why, what I expected of them, I have also told other >children that have been under my care the same things. > >I have taught them it is up to the one that is going >to be spanked to be accepting their punishment (no >matter how much they don't want too) no matter how >scared they are, they do as much as can be expected >considering what is about to happen to them. It is a >part of the spanking process, it is also a life's >lesson, this is a part of life, there are consequences. > >The punishment from the beginning of when I started >spanking was if they put up a struggle before their >spanking, interfering with being bared. I would give >another hand spanking an hour after their spanking, >they learned quick and were very respectful of a >loving mom and one that they knew was the boss, they >also have a good healthy fear of me as well. > >This was also how my sister and I were raised and the >thought of not cooperating struggling not to be bared >or going over her lap with mom never occurred to us, >we respected and loved our mom then and do now. My >boys and their friends love and respect me and they >know how much I love them. > >When I help the one to be spanked over my lap I take >my time making sure I have them adjusted right where I >want them, my personal preference is to have my legs >apart as this gives me a good firm foundation area for >them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat, >also I wear my jeans at home and spank in them, I >think jeans are a help as wearing a dress or skirt can >be slippery and easily moves around aiding them in >their squirming. > >They will usually at this point reach back to cover >their bottom or if not then I will tell them to reach >back then I take their wrist/forearm and pin it to >their lower back with my elbow/forearm pressing >against their upper back helping to control their body >and it allows them to squirm, struggle be animated, >wiggle and kick away yet I have their body under >control. I don't get upset because they do this how >vocal they do become, as I view it as a natural >reaction that can't be helped and shows me I am >getting through to them, the way I see it is if they >aren’t this way then I’m doing something wrong. > >I will also tell them before I spank to grab onto a >pillow, cushion or the chair leg when sitting on a >kitchen chair to help keep their left hand busy, this >works for a while but they do end up flailing away >with that arm, if by some chance they do manage to get >their left arm back to block I will pin them both, >this has very rarely happened. > >Even though I am not that tall, at 5’5, though I am >strong for a woman with good size strong hands and >haven't had that much trouble in controlling any one I >spank but putting one of my legs over theirs will >always be an option if need be.
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