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>Maureen, > >My boys are 12 and 14, I never just quickly get them >over my lap and spank, never have. I take my time >getting their bottom just where I want it and I have >them under as control as I can but for one thing they >have tried. They have tried to use the couch cushion >mattress to push or pull themselves off my lap when it >got to be too painful, I stop spanking then with a >stern voice I tell them "NO! if you do that again I >will spank you even longer!" They will also eventually >reach back with their right hand then I pin it down. > >I can't say I have instructed them it was just what I >did since they were 3 and needed to be punished, I >bared their bottom and lay them across my lap and >spanked. From when they were young they knew to mind >me to cooperate as I bared them then put them in the >corner before I spank and then cooperate as much as >possible coming to me as I sit and call them to me, >then to go over my lap. If not their bottoms were >smacked bare and made to cooperate until it all became >our way this is our process what they know, when they >became older and tried to resist they received a >longer more thorough spanking, I would stop near the >end and tell them, if you had cooperated your spanking >would be over now, but since you did not, then >continue spanking, they learned quick to obey their >mum. > >My boys will hold a bed pillow and when I spank them >if we are in the living room they will grab a throw >pillow as they cry and cry into or the actual couch >cushion bed covers. They are brilliantly animated over >my lap kicking away, as they struggle to pull their >arm out of my hand to block their bottom from the >spanks. Scissor kicking, frog kicking swim kicking, >but this only is a natural occurrence when I am >spanking their little bare bottom I don’t spank >extra for it, if my boys ever get to be over the top >with it I would just put my right leg over their legs. >But as of yet I haven't had to do so. > > >>Have your ever had to say to the one over your knee >>"Move your hand!!." (From blocking their bottom) If >>the hand was not moved what happened? What about >>controlling their body over your knee, how do you go >>about that? >> >>Whenever I spank mine, they always try to protect >>their bottom with their hand, even before I start >>spanking. I smack the the thigh telling them to move >>their hand or I will spank extra they will then try to >>hold a pillow or the couch cushion. How do you deal >>with it? Do you punish for that extra? I was wondering >>what the thoughts are here from others on this. >> >>If you would please, I am wondering how do you, did >>you, manage to convince pre-teens and teens to submit >>to a spanking, get them over your knee, and how do you >>keep them there once they begin to feel pain that >>brings tears. What if they won’t go over, fight you. >>Being the mom of a 12 yo girl as well as a 10 year old >>boy, I never had trouble with my two, they always >>submitted to their spankings I think out of respect, >>minding me and fear what would happen if they did.
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