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Subject: Re: Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?

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Date Posted: 06:58:23 07/07/22 Thu
In reply to: Maureen 's message, "Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?" on 06:26:45 07/06/22 Wed


My boys are 12 and 14, I never just quickly get them over my lap and spank, never have. I take my time getting their bottom just where I want it and I have them under as control as I can but for one thing they have tried. They have tried to use the couch cushion mattress to push or pull themselves off my lap when it got to be too painful, I stop spanking then with a stern voice I tell them "NO! if you do that again I will spank you even longer!" They will also eventually reach back with their right hand then I pin it down.

I can't say I have instructed them it was just what I did since they were 3 and needed to be punished, I bared their bottom and lay them across my lap and spanked. From when they were young they knew to mind me to cooperate as I bared them then put them in the corner before I spank and then cooperate as much as possible coming to me as I sit and call them to me, then to go over my lap. If not their bottoms were smacked bare and made to cooperate until it all became our way this is our process what they know, when they became older and tried to resist they received a longer more thorough spanking, I would stop near the end and tell them, if you had cooperated your spanking would be over now, but since you did not, then continue spanking, they learned quick to obey their mum.

My boys will hold a bed pillow and when I spank them if we are in the living room they will grab a throw pillow as they cry and cry into or the actual couch cushion bed covers. They are brilliantly animated over my lap kicking away, as they struggle to pull their arm out of my hand to block their bottom from the spanks. Scissor kicking, frog kicking swim kicking, but this only is a natural occurrence when I am spanking their little bare bottom I don’t spank extra for it, if my boys ever get to be over the top with it I would just put my right leg over their legs. But as of yet I haven't had to do so.

>Have your ever had to say to the one over your knee
>"Move your hand!!." (From blocking their bottom) If
>the hand was not moved what happened? What about
>controlling their body over your knee, how do you go
>about that?
>Whenever I spank mine, they always try to protect
>their bottom with their hand, even before I start
>spanking. I smack the the thigh telling them to move
>their hand or I will spank extra they will then try to
>hold a pillow or the couch cushion. How do you deal
>with it? Do you punish for that extra? I was wondering
>what the thoughts are here from others on this.
>If you would please, I am wondering how do you, did
>you, manage to convince pre-teens and teens to submit
>to a spanking, get them over your knee, and how do you
>keep them there once they begin to feel pain that
>brings tears. What if they won’t go over, fight you.
>Being the mom of a 12 yo girl as well as a 10 year old
>boy, I never had trouble with my two, they always
>submitted to their spankings I think out of respect,
>minding me and fear what would happen if they did.

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Re: Hand in the way, controlling them over our knee?Karen07:01:33 07/07/22 Thu

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