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Subject: Re: Favorite Part of the Process

Angela (my opinion)
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Date Posted: 14:48:56 07/08/22 Fri
In reply to: JD 's message, "Favorite Part of the Process" on 09:47:12 06/29/22 Wed

>As much as many of you have indicated how much you
>enjoy administering a well deserved spanking to a boy
>or boys, talking about "the spanking itch," there is
>no shame in enjoying something that needs to be done
>Aside from the totality of the event, if you were to
>break it down into steps of the spanking process,
>which would you say you enjoy the most?
>1) The watching while in corner, before spanking
>2) The marching to the spanking chair
>3) The pre-spanking lecture/scolding
>4) The baring before going over lap
>5) The guiding over lap
>6) The baring after going over lap
>7) The view from above
>8) The hand spanking
>9) The hairbrush spanking
>10) The spanking dance
>11) The view of the bare red bottom facing out from
>the corner
>12) The cuddling afterward
>"All of the above" is understandable - but - what if
>you were to choose just one?

Whenever a teenage boy is to receive a spanking, it should be administered by the boy’s own mother or stepmother, if at all possible. If there is no mother or stepmother available to give the boy his punishment, it is fine to have another female authority figure attend to the boy’s bottom. What is never appropriate, however, is to have the boy’s father, or any other male, involved in any way with the punishment. The father’s only appropriate role is to report misbehavior to the boy’s mother, and then leave the matter entirely in her hands. She alone should make any and all decisions concerning whether and how to punish the boy.

When a father, or any other male, is involved in a teenage boy’s spanking, the young man experiences the punishment in a way that is counterproductive to what should be a learning experience. The boy is likely to view the correction with resentment, concluding that the pain that he is experiencing is being forced upon him by someone who is bigger and stronger than he is. He will instinctively throw up all the emotional defenses that he can in order to avoid internalizing the correct lesson to be learned from the paddling. He will come to believe that the way to avoid the pain of a spanking is to become bigger and stronger. The unhealthy “macho paradigm” will end up being reinforced in his developing mind.

By contrast, when mom is the one who gives him his spankings, that destructive macho paradigm is shattered. He is forced to accept that the unhappy things that are happening to his bottom are the direct result of his own unacceptable behavior. He has no one to blame but himself for the fact that he has been relieved of his underpants in order to make his spanking all the more unpleasant for him. The tears come swiftly and in torrents when it is his mom’s lap that he is bent over.

The purpose of a spanking for any teenage boy is to fill him with two emotions: regret and shame. The punishment must be sufficiently serious so as to cause him to sincerely regret having committed the behavior that led to the spanking. And to minimize the chances that the punishment will need to be repeated in the near future, the spanking must be administered in such as way that the boy ends up deeply ashamed of his behavior and its consequences. The regret and the shame are really two sides of the same coin. The hope is that the youngster will be filled with remorse at the realization that he has let his mother down, and caused her to have to punish him in such a shameful, undignified, and miserable way. Boys naturally value and seek maternal approval. An older teen boy desperately wants his mother to hold him in increasingly higher esteem. Letting her down through his unacceptable behavior, and causing her to mandate that his pants and underpants be taken down in front of her for his boyish punishment, is a bitter blow to that desire to be held in higher esteem. It is simply impossible for a teenager to feel very good about himself when he is standing in front of his mother or stepmother in disgrace with not only his buttocks, but also his penis and scrotum perfectly bare as he waits to go over her knee.

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