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>>As much as many of you have indicated how much you >>enjoy administering a well deserved spanking to a boy >>or boys, talking about "the spanking itch," there is >>no shame in enjoying something that needs to be done >>anyway. >> >>Aside from the totality of the event, if you were to >>break it down into steps of the spanking process, >>which would you say you enjoy the most? >> >>1) The watching while in corner, before spanking >>2) The marching to the spanking chair >>3) The pre-spanking lecture/scolding >>4) The baring before going over lap >>5) The guiding over lap >>6) The baring after going over lap >>7) The view from above >>8) The hand spanking >>9) The hairbrush spanking >>10) The spanking dance >>11) The view of the bare red bottom facing out from >>the corner >>12) The cuddling afterward >> >>"All of the above" is understandable - but - what if >>you were to choose just one? > >Whenever a teenage boy is to receive a spanking, it >should be administered by the boy’s own mother or >stepmother, if at all possible. If there is no mother >or stepmother available to give the boy his >punishment, it is fine to have another female >authority figure attend to the boy’s bottom. What is >never appropriate, however, is to have the boy’s >father, or any other male, involved in any way with >the punishment. The father’s only appropriate role >is to report misbehavior to the boy’s mother, and >then leave the matter entirely in her hands. She alone >should make any and all decisions concerning whether >and how to punish the boy. > >When a father, or any other male, is involved in a >teenage boy’s spanking, the young man experiences >the punishment in a way that is counterproductive to >what should be a learning experience. The boy is >likely to view the correction with resentment, >concluding that the pain that he is experiencing is >being forced upon him by someone who is bigger and >stronger than he is. He will instinctively throw up >all the emotional defenses that he can in order to >avoid internalizing the correct lesson to be learned >from the paddling. He will come to believe that the >way to avoid the pain of a spanking is to become >bigger and stronger. The unhealthy “macho >paradigm” will end up being reinforced in his >developing mind. > >By contrast, when mom is the one who gives him his >spankings, that destructive macho paradigm is >shattered. He is forced to accept that the unhappy >things that are happening to his bottom are the direct >result of his own unacceptable behavior. He has no one >to blame but himself for the fact that he has been >relieved of his underpants in order to make his >spanking all the more unpleasant for him. The tears >come swiftly and in torrents when it is his mom’s >lap that he is bent over. > >The purpose of a spanking for any teenage boy is to >fill him with two emotions: regret and shame. The >punishment must be sufficiently serious so as to cause >him to sincerely regret having committed the behavior >that led to the spanking. And to minimize the chances >that the punishment will need to be repeated in the >near future, the spanking must be administered in such >as way that the boy ends up deeply ashamed of his >behavior and its consequences. The regret and the >shame are really two sides of the same coin. The hope >is that the youngster will be filled with remorse at >the realization that he has let his mother down, and >caused her to have to punish him in such a shameful, >undignified, and miserable way. Boys naturally value >and seek maternal approval. An older teen boy >desperately wants his mother to hold him in >increasingly higher esteem. Letting her down through >his unacceptable behavior, and causing her to mandate >that his pants and underpants be taken down in front >of her for his boyish punishment, is a bitter blow to >that desire to be held in higher esteem. It is simply >impossible for a teenager to feel very good about >himself when he is standing in front of his mother or >stepmother in disgrace with not only his buttocks, but >also his penis and scrotum perfectly bare as he waits >to go over her knee.
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