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Subject: Re: How would you Handle?

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Date Posted: 16:38:46 04/19/21 Mon
In reply to: SJ Mom 's message, "How would you Handle?" on 14:25:46 04/19/21 Mon

>I have started a number of threads recently so
>hopefully people are not getting tired of me, but I
>had something that came up last night.
>We have a family vacation at the beach planned in May,
>a week after my younger two daughters finish their
>college semester. Last night, my youngest daughter
>asked if her friend (most likely 19yo) could join us.
>Her friend's summer job doesn't start until June 1st
>so she would stay with us the week in between school
>ending and our trip. I said that she is welcome to
>join as I have met her in the past and she seems like
>a great young adult plus we have plenty of room in our
>van as my oldest will be driving separately. Also, I'm
>tired of a quiet house so would welcome more activity
>I am planning to have a discussion with my girls and
>the friend when they get here about expectations of
>helping out, following rules, etc., but I am a bit
>uneasy on if to approach the subject of spanking or
>other punishments with her friend. I have never
>spanked anyone besides my 3 daughters and would
>honestly feel a bit uneasy doing so. In the past, if I
>had issues with their friends, I would just send them
>home and call their parents if necessary. May be I
>should come up with an alternative punishment to use
>if the friend happens to need it (even if unlikely)?
>How would others handle it?
I agree with what Mary has said. At her age she could cause a problem if you do not have some type of permission. If her Parents give you the permission, then if for some reason she does needs to spanked, just picture her as one of your daughters over your knee.
If you do decide to talk to her Parents, please let us know what they said.

BTW, I could never get tired of reading your post.

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