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Subject: Re: Did your Childhood Influence How You Spank


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Mary
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Date Posted: 10:06:14 05/20/21 Thu
In reply to: Brenda K 's message, "Did your Childhood Influence How You Spank" on 08:29:21 05/20/21 Thu

Brenda,

Yes it did, somewhat.

I have really come by the way I spank naturally, our mom and grandmother were hairbrush only spankers, did I copy some of their ways of spanking? yes, mom always spanked us bare over her lap and it was usually in the kitchen, I was a some what tomboy but when I needed to be spanked when wearing a dress my dress was removed.

But I would have been a spanker any way. I have said this before, I knew when I was 12-13 I would be a spanking mom, it was a part of my makeup, who I am, I wanted to spank a boy's bottom over my lap, I was a bottom girl and was swatting boy’s bottoms and wondering if they were spanked when I was 12-13, but another reason was I knew spankings worked. I also knew from that young age that I wanted to spank with my hand and then a hairbrush.

My sister and I thanked our mom when we were in our teens for spanking us and for loving us as she did, and for not grounding us but spanking instead. I was of course thankful for being spanked over grounding for the obvious reasons but also something I realized later, I also enjoyed, needed that personal touch a spanking had over say grounding. Then of course I remember the hugging after.

My process as well as the actual spanking itself has evolved over the years, due to a number of factors, the size of the bottom of the one being spanked for one, spanking age appropriate (how hard, the duration.) Also I have adopted the way I now spank with my brush from my good online friend Sarah who you have talked with on here.

Brenda, I have two very wonderful memories of the first time seeing a boy being spanked, I was brought up seeing my sister being spanked. I was 15 when I saw my mom’s best friend spank her 6 year old son’s bare bottom, I was MESMERIZED! It was the first spanking of a boy I ever saw and it was bare, two years later he would be that first boy I ever spanked while babysitting for him.

Also, One night at my best friend's house having a sleepover we were 16, when her mom spanked her 10 year old brother downstairs in the living room, we tiptoed down the stairs just enough to watch, still a vivid special memory.

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Re: Did your Childhood Influence How You SpankCandace11:23:40 05/20/21 Thu
    Re: Did your Childhood Influence How You SpankBrenda K13:49:02 05/20/21 Thu


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