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Subject: Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'


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Mary
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Date Posted: 08:10:36 05/28/21 Fri
In reply to: Doris 's message, "'Why bare and why over the lap.'" on 07:31:49 05/28/21 Fri

Hello Doris,

I’m so glad you posted this, I think you are doing a wonderful job with your two little ones and in wanting to learn more, to me the size of the one being spanked or their bottom has never mattered to me other than of course when young I spanked age appropriate as you do with your two. Age doesn’t matter either.

Why Bare?
As I have said many times, spanking a clothed bottom vs bare is like the difference between a kazoo and a symphony orchestra. As it has been said, it also demonstrates and sends a clear message that I am in charge and I will bare your bottom turn you over my lap and spank your bottom long and had, I chose to spank your bottom bare. I know and they know it hurts so much more than over clothes and psychologically there is something to be said for the child standing there as they feel their underpants come down and they become bare and the realization hits them that OMG I am going to go over mom’s lap and get my bare bottom spanked, I can also see how their bottom is reacting to my spanking.

To me, hand spankings on a bare bottom are special, I've always thought the skin-to-skin contact really makes the spanking more of a nurturing experience, a bonding time. To me there is nothing more maternal than a mom's hand being applied firmly across a child's bare bottom. I have always loved the feel of my hand on a boys bared bottom and that unmistakable sound and the sound of my brush on their bare bottom. I also think there is something to be said on the recipients part of feeling and hearing our hand and implement on their bottom.

I believe there is nothing more appropriate and natural than a son (or daughter) going over the lap for an ‘old fashioned, bare-bottomed spanking.’ I do so enjoy seeing and spanking a misbehaving boy’s bare bottom that is in dire need of correction.

I am going to repost something here that was beautifully said by ‘Mark W’ about hand spanking a year ago that I saved.

“A firm hand spanking to the bare bottom for a teenager, is both an intimate and embarrassing experience for them. I am a strong believer that older children (even older teens) benefit from the age regression that is achieved by a long, hard, childish bare-bottomed hand spanking over the parental knee. It reinforces the fact, that they are very much still a child in your eyes.” ‘Mark W.

Why over my lap?
I always have and always will turn the one to be spanked over my lap for a few reasons, bare bottom spankings over the lap/knee is a bonding experience, a nurturing position, the body contact, holding them down and close, they are safe as I am controlling them, its intimate as is my hand across their bare bottom, its easy to spank them properly and land the spanks where I want to land, having the control over their bodies and bottom while over my lap so I can spank as long and as thorough as I want, need to spank.

Also, I enjoy the view looking down at their bare bottoms over my lap, each one different and so adorable. For me there is just something to be said for the sight of a completely naked boy over my lap, so clean, natural and beautiful, I love it.

When I put the one to be spanked over my lap I take my time making sure I have them adjusted right where I want them, my personal preference is to have my legs apart just enough as this gives me a good firm foundation area for them to lay across, forward a bit so they lay flat bottom directly over lap so I am looking right down at it, and in this position there is no rubbing of their boyhood on my thighs, as I wear my jeans (shorts on occasion ) at home and spank in them, I think they are a help as wearing a dress or skirt can be slippery and easily moves around aiding them in their squirming.

They will usually at this point reach back to cover their bottom or if not then I will ask them to reach back I will take hold of their wrist/arm and pin their arm to their lower back and my elbow pressing against their upper back, I have them under control and it allows them to squirm, wiggle and kick away, I don't get upset because I view it as a natural reaction that can't be helped and shows me I am getting through to them.

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Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'Brenda the first one11:22:15 05/28/21 Fri
    Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'MarkW12:54:30 05/28/21 Fri
    Re: 'Why bare and why over the lap.'Candace15:51:03 05/29/21 Sat


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