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Date Posted:11:46:58 06/20/21 Sun In reply to:
's message, "Re: Curfews and bedtimes" on 05:53:38 06/20/21 Sun
I understand the â€śas long as you are living in this houseâ€ť point. But let me imagine myself at 18, ahem, over your lap. After 5 swats, I am thinking â€śthis is ridiculous,â€ť after 10, â€śthis is hurting,â€ť after15 swats, â€śthis really hurts,â€ť and I just stand up or roll off.
Have those who spanking 18-19 year olds ever had to deal with that?
>Grumpy as I have been through this with him in the
>past and have told you this very same thing concerning
>yourâ€™s and others questions about control and
>obeying mom when it is time to spank them at 18 and
>If they are in college no matter their age and under
>my care as I will be paying for it and need to be
>spanked then I will spank. I truly can not see any of
>my boys telling me no or fighting me when I tell them
>I am going to spank them. And I did agree with
>Barbara, it is called â€śtough loveâ€ť.
>Since I have been asked so many times and we have seen
>it on this forum multiple times, "how do mom's control
>your child and older children before and during a
>spanking? What if they fight you? Wonâ€™t go over your
>lap, submit to you. One point I would like to make, if
>a child gets physical with their mom over a spanking,
>refuses to obey you have some very major and far
>greater problems in that home, and I have never heard
>of this happening. They are brought up to respect
>About, out controlling a child during the spanking
>process, especially as they get older, it is up to the
>one that is going to be spanked as much as possible to
>do their part in surrendering to their punishment,
>accepting their punishment (no matter how much they
>don't want too) no matter how scared they are, they do
>as much as can be expected considering what is about
>to happen to them, I started from day one with my boys
>teaching respect for me and acceptance of our spanking
>procedures, I spent time explaining to them what was
>going to happen and what I expected of them, I have
>also told other children that have been under my care
>the same. The punishment if they resist, put up a
>struggle before their spanking, interfering with being
>bared then I will give another full spanking an hour
>after their spanking, it is a part of the spanking
>process, it is also a life's lesson, this is a part of
>As I have said in the past, I am not judging or saying
>anything against those who stopped spanking at a
>certain age, we do what we feel works best for our
>families and our situation. As I have long said and
>always believed, as far as I am concerned, there is no
>â€śToo oldâ€ť to be spanked.
>That being said. We look to that day when they are
>mature enough and can grow past spankings.
>I can't tell you the amount of times I have heard,
>"I'm too old" No one else my age..." "when will you
>stop spanking me?..." When I hear these things I tell
>them how long I keep spanking is up to them, all they
>have to do is behave and stop needing mommy to spank
>you, they are never happy with that reply :) I also
>let them know we all know of teens their age and older
>that are being spanked and have been spanked until 18
>I also tell my boys that as long as I am supporting
>them and they are under my care then I will spank
>them, that means while they are in college if needed
>as I will be paying for it.
>My boys best friends that I have spanking permission
>with and have been spanking for years now ask this as
>well. I have also told them that as long as they are
>under my care and I have spanking permission no matter
>their age I will spank them when needed, I also tell
>all of them, even if its just to hit that reset button
>and get them on the right track again, then I will
>bare them and spank.
>I let all of them know I will always spank them the
>same way as I do now, bare bottom over my lap with my
>hand and hairbrush. They don't like hearing it but my
>guess is they continue to ask and try to make a case
>hoping for a different answer, or is it that selective
>memory that kids have, as I know I haven't heard it
>for the last time, lol.
>I also reassure them that I will always be there for
>them and love them, that they will always be my boys.
>I have told their 3 best friends the same.
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