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Subject: Re: Loud and dramatic


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Mary
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Date Posted: 19:02:07 06/20/21 Sun
In reply to: ask moms 's message, "Loud and dramatic" on 08:11:29 06/20/21 Sun

I believe all the kicking, squirming, being animated and the very loud, hard crying, yelling with the tears and snot flowing is an essential part of a thorough spanking. I don't get upset because they do this or how vocal they do become, as I view it as a natural reaction to having me spank their bare bottom that can't be helped and shows me I am getting through to them.

They will be very animated, doing trying to deter me from continuing to spank and trying to avoid the never-ending spanks, they also try their hardest to get their right arm free from my left hand to block their bottom. Unfortunately for them, they will have no success in doing either. By the time I get to the brush their words are garbled and unintelligible, its just spanking babble then just all out crying, I also hear the hiccup cries.

Also, for the one being spanked the crying is very ‘cathartic’ crying is extremely important. It is not an indication on 'when' to stop spanking, but it is an indication that our message is being received, and most importantly, crying is integral to a spanking because it gives the one being spanked an emotional release which allows for healing, rebirth, and starting anew. I think it all has to happen for a spanking to be successful!

Every time I spank it produces true rivers of flowing tears and snot, I have wondered where it all comes from. Spankings should be unbearable for the child, they should “Hate” our spankings. They should come off our laps out of their minds, crying uncontrollably at the tops of their lungs. I also hear the hiccup cries, jumping around doing their best jig, hands glued to their bottoms and madly rubbing their bottoms and upper thighs until their minds return and we can see that light go off when it does.

Here, once I am through spanking they will do their best jig and each a little different jumping around still crying uncontrollably doing their best jig, hands glued to their bottoms and madly rubbing their bottoms and upper thighs tear stained faces, snotty nose, sweaty heads, this is all a natural reaction to my spankings.

I sit watch and wait for their brains to return then they will come over and cuddle with me the older boys sitting next to me, Bobby still sits on my lap crying as I rub their back and head reassuring them I love them and its over now, you have been punished, they cry it out wiping their tears and snot on my top :) One of the reasons I like to wear a t-shirt when I spank, is they are good for cuddling afterwards when the boys rub their tears and snot on it, lol. They will sometimes and would especially when younger, Bobby still, cry some more in their room after we have cuddled, they are free to cry as much as they need.

All is forgiven they are contrite, we move on, then when they are ready we have a talk about why I had to spank and what they should have done, not done, said...our talks will usually go on to other topics as well, we have some great talks after a spanking, that is of course unless it was a bedtime spanking, then its off to bed after cuddling and some times they cry themselves to sleep

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