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Subject: Becoming ‘Proficient’ in the art of spanking

Lisa, Mom of 1 boy
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Date Posted: 05:49:09 07/03/21 Sat
In reply to: ask moms 's message, "Art of spanking" on 03:46:47 06/26/21 Sat

Before I started spanking I tried timeouts with him facing a wall, that didn’t work he would forget and walk away, sending him to his room? He loved being sent to his room, finally at 5 1/2 I started spanking his bare bottom over my lap and it felt so natural and it worked. I never thought of what I was doing as it did evolve as my son got older and I started thinking about how I wanted our spankings to go, when he was 5-6 it I just told him why I was spanking bared him and took him over my lap quickly and spanked and as close to why I was spanking so he made the connection.

But for the most part when I spank my son, since he was 7 I have rules a process, he is 9 1/2 and when I am going to spank if I am outraged over what he did or said I will send him to his room and calm down a little but I have spanked when angry but under control, I never hit him in the head or anywhere but his butt, I never spank away from the house but will smack his bottom. Before each spanking we talk, which consists of me lecturing and him listening and also pleading and making promises so much so at times I tell him to be quiet and listen to me. We have a whole process, at times I have him lower his pants and underpants, pajama bottoms or what have you, other times I will do the baring, if he happens to be naked he is spanked naked but for the most part he is not naked or bare from the waist down unless he is in his pjs and the bottoms stay on the floor the I take him over my lap.

As of now I only spank with my hand and as I said it is always on his bare bottom and always with him in place over my lap and I have his body under control, I spank until I am satisfied he has had enough, learned a good lesson he always tells me I spank “way too long” and too hard”. I don’t go by the color of his bottom as my hand prints show up quickly because I am spanking hard. I also have his arm pinned down just as the mom in the forum picture with her son. Then when I decide it is over I help him off my lap and we do cuddle and he cries it out.

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Re: Becoming ‘Proficient’ in the art of spankingKaren07:39:52 07/03/21 Sat

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