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When it comes to spanking, I know that not everyone agrees with how I go about things, or has the same spanking procedures as me. Do I think all moms should think and spank as I do? No, I know that's not going to happen as we are all different :) my goal, what I wanted when I started this forum was to share, help others, be a support to other spanking moms. As long as the child is being spanked bare and that said spanking makes a difference, an impression, lesson learned.
To me the point of a spanking has always been to correct bad behavior, As I have said before, I never spank thinking “there they will never do or say that again, I spank to punish, because they most likely will, they are children. To me the point of a spanking is to punish bad behavior, teach them right from wrong, protect them from making wrong dangerous decisions ie. safety issues. To teach them how to live in society, learn respect. Press that reset/reboot button. The goal is to get to that day when they will no longer need to be spanked.
My baring process/ritual as well as the actual spanking itself has evolved over the years due to a number of factors.
When Donny and Bobby were younger I used to just pull the pants down and undies down and get them over my lap, that evolved to bare from the waist down. I would would leave a t-shirt unless it was below the waist. Now I spank them completely naked, socks too, it's just easier to control them.
Also, there is just something to be said for the sight of a completely naked boy over my lap, so clean and natural and beautiful, I love it.
The baring of the one I am going to spank and how I go about it is an important part of my process. To me it shows, ‘I am the boss,’ ‘I am in charge‘. I methodically bare them, not rushing while also scolding them, no yelling but I have raised my voice. I have my boys and any other kids that come into my house remove their shoes at the door.
They will hold onto my shoulders or arm as I have them raise a leg and I will remove the shoe and or sock, this is usually at a moderate pace, no rushing, then the pants, pjs or shorts are pulled down to their feet and they step out of them then the shirt/s then finally the underpants. When they feel the under pants come down they start with the crocodile tears if not already (except for Donny if he is in his tough guy mood telling me he isn't going to cry) they also will be moving their feet, legs, hips and bottom even go up on their toes as a reaction to the underpants going down as the bottoms and fronts are exposed feeling the fresh air so to speak. When they are wearing pjs they don't wear underpants under their pjs so that is one less step. Of course if in swim trunks or its summer and just shorts and usually bare foot its less steps and quicker getting them bare.
I don’t mind if they cover their fronts as I scold and bare. I am only interested in getting to and seeing their bottoms over my lap and spanking them. I first started baring them for their spanking this way not to ‘shame’ them but because pant legs were getting kicked up in my face and it was a serious tripping hazard when they got off my lap, that progressed quickly to just removing everything, no long baggy tops working there way down and getting in the way either.
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